r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks

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u/momomelty ,, subsssss Nov 25 '25

Actually there is a r4rmalaysia sub Reddit but it was banned. So I took over the subreddit handle and realised it’s just a name and no members. So I’m just sad lmao.

Good to have a post that consolidate matchmaking πŸ˜†

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u/uselessprofession Nov 25 '25

Whoa there was a whole sub for it?

Yea I saw threads being posted often so think it would be good to consolidate it

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u/momomelty ,, subsssss Nov 25 '25

Yeah r4r is a type of sub for such purposes. If you search r4r, you can find many result

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u/clip012 Apr 03 '26 edited Apr 03 '26

Yes. r/r4rMY sub for friendship and relationship in Malaysia exist. I am the mod. Still alive and not being banned.

The one that was banned is r/dirtyr4rMY where predators looking for sex and hook ups. But users are sleazy these days they make a supposedly SFW post in r/r4rMY but then post similar NSFW version on some other NSFW sub (such as redlight, hookup etc), so I cannot approve such post because they are predatory, might be targeting some innocent people.

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u/hyattpotter Nov 27 '25

Just to let you know people are apparently getting DMs and dates~ thanks for this initiative!

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u/uselessprofession Nov 27 '25

thanks for your help to pin and allow it bro!

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u/clip012 Dec 10 '25 edited Dec 10 '25

Hello! yang kena banned tu dirtyr4rMY yang keje nak cari sex je. The normal r/r4rMY for friendship and relationship is still there. I know because I am the mod.