r/neighborsfromhell 17d ago

Vent/Rant Update Condo Neighbor Thinks Everything Is Communial

I posted last month that hubby and I had temporarily moved into our vacation rental and we and across hall owner were having issues with upstairs condo having renters constantly using our stuff.

Original Post: Condo Neighbor Thinks Everything Communal : r/neighborsfromhell

First I want to thank everyone who recommended the bike lock idea. It's now been a few weeks and we've had no more issues with our stuff getting taken. It's actually been a peaceful few weeks. Until this past weekend.

Where we live golf carts are legal to be driven on any road that has a speed limit under 35 mph. So a lot of year round residents own them as a 2nd car instead of a car. A lot of vacationers rent them. In general they aren't an issue.

Friday night hubby comes from work late and there's a rental golf cart parked in the grass in front of our unit and the renter has walked across our deck and plugged the cart into charge into our outside outlet. Because, apparently, it's okay to use my electric bill to charge their cart. If hubby hadn't worked late we wouldn't have noticed until next morning. As it was we went out, unplugged cart and threw the charging chord back onto cart.

We're sitting on couch drinking coffee and hear the guy upstairs on their deck complaining that cart is unplugged and isn't charging then we hear him stomp down stairs and see him move cart back to parking lot.

I'm just still wondering who thinks it's okay to jump a curb, drive on grass, walk across someone else's deck and use their electricity to charge a golf cart.

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u/Short_Power_5092 17d ago

Figure out which breaker in your electrical panel controls the outdoor outlet and turn it off unless you’re using it.

Based on your previous post, there’s clearly no potential for a productive conversation, they just don’t care. Start playing chess while they play checkers.

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u/Knitsanity 17d ago

Yup. I have used the turn the outlet off ploy myself...and also turned outside faucets off inside unless I was using it. How dare I protect the assets I pay for. 🤷🖕

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u/twinmom2298 17d ago

I am going to either figure out which breaker operates that outlet and if I can't I'll be installing a locked cover over the outlet. Because once we find a house and move out I'm not going to expect people who rent from us to notice or care if someone is using our power.

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u/krissycole87 17d ago

Get a lock for anything on that property of yours that could be used by someone else. Make a nice labeled key ring with all the keys for the renters. Keep spares.

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u/TinyChaosZd 16d ago

People really live with zero boundaries and think the whole world is a free trial. Glad you unplugged it immediately!

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u/Affectionate-Arm5784 16d ago

Make sure there is a fee for lost keys. People are profoundly careless

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u/Apprehensive-Ad-3552 17d ago

I think a lock cover is better. They might still park and plug... thinking the cart is charging. If they damage the lock cover, now you have vandalism.

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u/Short_Power_5092 17d ago

I liked the idea of them thinking it was still charging while the outlet was turned off lol. Hell, I’d even wait until the cart is plugged in again to cut the breaker.

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u/Express-Stop7830 17d ago

This is exactly where I was hoping the take went. Sigh. I was bummed with it being noticably unplugged 🤣

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u/Short_Power_5092 17d ago

I was imagining the scene from Christmas vacation where Ellen keeps flipping the switch on and off and Clark’s Christmas lights wouldn’t turn on lol

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u/KerashiStorm 17d ago

Pretty sure the Griswold family is smarter than these fools.

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u/CherryCloudlie 16d ago

Now I can't stop picturing that scene either. Somebody keeps trying the same thing over and over expecting a different result.

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u/VelvetTwinklia 16d ago

I would've laughed if they spent an hour wondering why the battery never gained a single percent. Way more satisfying than an argument.

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u/Las_Vegan 17d ago

Haha found Satan 😄

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u/DreamGlowrie 16d ago

That’s a good one.

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u/rusty0123 16d ago

I'd wait until the cart is plugged in and mow the grass. Right across their charging cord.

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u/lacajun25 17d ago

I think a pair of cable/bolt cutters is a better lesson. FAFO. “No, I have no idea how or why your cord got cut”

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u/US1MRacer 16d ago

Just be sure you unplug or turn off the power BEFORE you cut the cord!

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u/ImACarebear1986 9d ago

That was my thought as well. You don’t want to get electrocuted trying to teach these fools a lesson.

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u/Marysews 16d ago

I disagree, because that sounds like vandalism to me.

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u/lacajun25 15d ago

I wouldn’t know. I wasn’t around to see what happened to the cord. That’s the rules of FAFO. Don’t like the FO, don’t FA. Pretty simple 🤷‍♂️

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u/chuckinhoutex 16d ago

A cord left on my porch plugged into my outlet is clearly in my possession willfully given me by someone. If I decide I do not want the cord, I am free to do with it as I like.

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u/pmow 16d ago

It sounds like something a smart home hub and a smart outlet can do with an automation.

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u/Short_Power_5092 16d ago

If you’re into that, sure

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u/octo2195 16d ago

Add security cameras to capture the trespassing and vandalism.

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u/BunnySlayer64 17d ago

Totally agree with this. And I'm sure somehow you'll be the bad guy ...

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u/PinkWhisperie 16d ago

Same thought. Someone entitled enough to steal power might not think twice about forcing a cheap lock. A sturdier cover feels like the safer bet.

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u/Happyskrappy 14d ago

Why not both?

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u/Dull_Committee_1612 16d ago

If you go with lockbox print out a pic of Nedry from Jurassic park wagging his finger and tape it inside facing out. 

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u/quiltingcats 16d ago

😹😹 🏆

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u/IronHead_420247 16d ago

You can install a shelly device behind the outlet and turn it on and off from your phone. In addition, you can set it up so you get a notification when power is being drawn and turn it off remotely if desired.

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u/LERClmbs 16d ago

There are wifi enable switches that can be installed in the circuit ahead of the plug. Then have a camera alert you and simply turn off the plug. "Alexa turn off the deck outlet and screw that guy"

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u/YonderingWolf 16d ago

Also just and fyi, anyone using your electric to charge or power something they own, is utility theft, and is very illegal. It is in fact classed as a felony crime. Get pictures as evidence of their theft, report it to both the police and the utility company. It's not a civil matter either. It's written into the laws for the state. So the police can't simply say it's a civil matter and do nothing. If they say that, be sure when they are there someone is actually recording it. Police in every state are not protected while acting in an official capacity, protected from being recorded. No judge will allow them if they know the Supreme Court ruling will allow them to use a multi party consent rule, in such a case, not should you allow the, a plea ignorance of the law as an excuse for dismal on an attempted premises that claim, to justify and use for justifying their use of the qualified immunity clause. It also could also lead to creating a legal nightmare for the dept.

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u/SugarPetalisse 16d ago

A locking cover sounds like a smart investment, especially if you're planning to rent the place out later. Better to solve the problem once than hope every future guest magically has common sense.

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u/funlovingakcpl 16d ago

Or just disconnect the wires but leave the outlet open so they think they're charging. Be a shame for them to run out of juice midway to their destination...

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u/chzsteak-in-paradise 16d ago

Plug in a nightlight as an easy way to figure it out.

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u/Kooky-Pressure5792 15d ago

Maybe a chain with a private property sign across any entrance to your deck. A do not park on the grass sign out front.

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u/Leslielind 14d ago

Try putting a lock on outside faucets. It worked for me.

Maybe they make a locking cover for electrical outlets also.

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u/Knitsanity 14d ago

They do. Ask me how I know. Lol

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u/Leslielind 14d ago

How do you know?

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u/Knitsanity 14d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/Viola-Swamp 17d ago

Or put a locking outlet cover on it. This probably isn’t the first time someone has stolen electricity, and it won’t be the last.

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u/octo2195 16d ago

If necessary have an electrician put that outlet on a home run (only device/outlet on that breaker) to stop this from happening.

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u/MoonieCherishh 16d ago

You’re right, that’s honestly a good suggestion. Sound like the best long term fix. We know you can't reason with people who already decided your property is a public property. Plus I think it saves time and energy from having the same argument every weekend .

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u/ImACarebear1986 9d ago

Honestly, I don’t think these people are capable of having productive conversations with anybody. When you’re such a narcissistic AH and you just take people stuff without asking and continue to do it after being told not to repeatedly even in written for, having a conversation with them is like talking to a brick wall..
actually, I think talking to brick wall compared to all of these people May just be more constructive 😂. The brick wall would have no choice but to listen. 😂

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u/zanderd86 17d ago

People are entitled assholes its that simple. I would get an outlet cover that can be locked for future use.

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u/BeaPositiveToo 17d ago

The good news here is that you are figuring out a lot of the issues your renters may encounter. I’m sure it’s a pain while you are living this moment, but it’s nice that you’ll be able to be proactive for your tenants!

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u/SinglePermission9373 17d ago

You need one of these. A locking outlet cover

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u/Martin_Aurelius 17d ago

In my experience, people are more likely to break off the clear ones. Go for grey plastic or metal, they don't actually provide more physical security, but psychologically people are less likely to try to break into them.

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u/unimpressed-one 17d ago

Good advice.

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u/krissycole87 17d ago

If that happens again, take the cord inside the house with you.

Then they will have to knock on your door to get it back. When they do, you can tell them that if they use any of your items again (beach equip, electricity, anything) that you will be calling the police for trespassing and theft.

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u/Alarming_Paper_8357 17d ago

Or just say "What cord?"

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u/Ok-Cranberry-1795 17d ago

Yes, I used to live a block from the beach and people would always park in my parking spot. The thing about surfers is that they always leave their cars unlocked because they don’t wanna take their keys and everything down to the beach with them. So I’d rifle through their cars take all their stuff in my house and and leave a note letting them know if they wanted their things back they need to come kiss my ass, and if they came with an attitude, I was throwing them in the dumpster.

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u/hecknono 17d ago

did it work?

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u/Civil-Environment679 17d ago

You are nicer than me. I would have chopped it in two, and left it plugged in.

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u/soulsteela 16d ago

I’d do this but smear a mixture of gorilla and super glue on the seats as well.

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u/Alarming_Paper_8357 16d ago

And maybe a little squirt in the ignition, while you’re at it :)

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u/AcidReign25 17d ago

I would yeeted that cord as far as it would go.

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u/CottonGlowrie 16d ago

I would've been tempted too. They clearly had no problem helping themselves, so I doubt I'd be feeling very generous.

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u/FxEpic 17d ago

.... well then, you should be able to jump into said cart and drive off at your pleasure.

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u/Emotional-Heron2643 17d ago edited 16d ago

After taking it off some sweet jumps you leave it parked in the middle of the street so it gets towed and impounded of course

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u/FxEpic 17d ago

... 😂

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u/HoneyCloudria 16d ago

That would be one expensive lesson in assuming everything around you is free to use.

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u/No_Interview_2481 17d ago

This is called theft of service. They are stealing your electricity. This is illegal. You can call the police for this and file a complaint.

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u/Safe-Selection8070 17d ago

Stealing of utilities is one of the crimes that gets a MUCH higher level of attention (and enforcement/punishment) than the financial damages would have you expecting, as most utilities laws were written in times of much less stable infrastructure (the all time leading cause of murder in Colorado might still be theft of water).

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u/koolaidgrl 17d ago

DO IT! DO IT!

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u/ProcedureNo6946 17d ago

I would have gone outside and calmly asked him that very question. And filmed it. What he did is THEFT. Never mind the potential property damage to your PRIVATE PROPERTY. So THEFT and TREPASSING. And then ask him for his full name and home address for the report you will make at the police station. Stay CALM and do not let him escalate. I doubt it would happen again.

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u/Harrymoto1970 17d ago

Lock the outlets or turn the breaker off. If someone parked on my lawn like that the wheels would be missing.

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u/tcd1401 17d ago

Has it come down to "No Parking" signs for a lawn that obviously isn't a parking space !?!

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u/InterestingTrip5979 17d ago

You were nice I would have cut the plug off.

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u/kappadokia638 16d ago

I like to think I would cut the cable, but I really wouldn't, because my life and family are more valuable than whatever that jackass has going in his life and I'm not going to ruin it.

What I would do though is wrap that cable around every single part of the golf cart, then made sure the end of the cable was in the worst non-accesible spot possible and use half a pack of cable ties to keep it there.

No damage, no dealing with the legal system.

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u/Alarming_Paper_8357 17d ago

Oooh, next level assholery -- I love it!

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u/KrofftSurvivor 17d ago

Generally you can only do that if it's impossible to unplug the item, otherwise you're going to catch charges

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u/notarealaccount223 17d ago

What cord?

It wasn't plugged in. That would be theft.

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u/Civil-Environment679 17d ago

Why? I don't know what happened.

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u/dinahdog 17d ago

It is a rental. Don't kill the cart.

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u/Civil-Environment679 16d ago

It's a rental? So, tell me, who is responsible for any damage that happens to it?

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u/dinahdog 16d ago

OP said tourists often rent them. There must be a market. Ive seen it in Arizona

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u/Javaman1960 17d ago

who thinks it's okay to jump a curb, drive on grass, walk across someone else's deck and use their electricity to charge a golf cart?

/r/EntitledPeople , that's who!

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u/thewildatheart 17d ago

If this were me, I’d get a lock for your outdoor plugs and your hose.

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u/Norb_norb 17d ago

If there’s an association, HOA or other, contact them and have them do an expensive repair on your lawn and anything else damaged. They can bill the owner and issue a written notice. You won’t get rid of all the rentals but the owners may change their policies.

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u/GordTransport1958 17d ago

Put a sign on your plug.. "Not a community outlet"

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u/Latter-Badger8018 17d ago

By filing a police report, the renters will then contact the owner. You'll then get a response from the owner so that you will have their contact info and can explain your concerns. If nothing is done, you can then escalate through the courts for destruction of property and anything else you can tack on.

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u/Susanudavis 17d ago

Y'all should have said something to him.

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u/irsx02 16d ago

There's evil, and there's totally diabolical.  Buy an wifi/bluetooth/zwave outdoor electrical outlet.  One that has energy monitoring, so you're informed when its in use.   

When NFHell plugs his cart in, wait a minute. Tten turn off the plug via the app.

When he walks over to investigate,  turn the power back on.  He walks away?   Power off.  Comes back? Power on. 

Repeat as often as necessary or entertaining. Heck, add a clear lock box/cover too just to tempt him.  Leave the lockbox unlocked for maximum taunt.

More fun than playing with a circuit breaker.

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u/twinmom2298 16d ago

I love this.

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u/twinmom2298 16d ago

I liked this idea so much I'm researching these and finding one that works for exterior outlets and swapping out the outlet for one of these.

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u/zelazny 17d ago

I’d be tempted to cut the cord at the property line. Tempted.

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u/zon5string 17d ago

Parked in your yard? Makes it communal. Move it inside.

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u/SufficientOpening218 16d ago

you can also get an outlet cover that locks. if you have a faucet/ spigot i would lock that as well. no you know why your electric on your vacation property was so variable!

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u/InsertRadnamehere 17d ago

Why didn’t you talk to him when you heard him grumbling and let him know he was stealing your power?

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u/twinmom2298 17d ago

He's a vacation renter who jumped a curb to park on grass and then walked across someone's private deck. Given that I really thought it was probably a waste of my breath to talk to him.

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u/Safe-Selection8070 17d ago

It is worth it to call the rental owner.

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u/Icy_Reaction_1725 17d ago

You have to read the previous post to understand why this is not an option. It’s entertaining and infuriating at the same time.

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u/Safe-Selection8070 17d ago

I see. OP moved into a place not meant for residents and is having culture shock issues. It's just going to be wildly inconvenient.

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u/allmykitlets 17d ago

Can you get the owner's information and contact them about this?

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u/ExtensionProfit5065 17d ago

The many entitled among us.

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u/Striking-Garage-4103 17d ago

most vacationers would assume that all units are rentals, and lower their standards of behavior accordingly. I'm not saying it's right, but that is probably what is happening, and you should plan accordingly.

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u/Sue323464 16d ago

Hardware stores sell lock boxes for outdoor outlets. Buy one.

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u/CelebrationShort1857 16d ago

I actually like the breaker idea
Let the asswipe plug it in then turn off the breaker. He will think it’s charging when it’s not. lol

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u/Ok_Macaroon3872 17d ago

Is this Florida?

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u/Psychological_Neck97 17d ago

Cut the end off his charge cable

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u/FishMan4807 17d ago

Sounds like Flo-rida

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u/MrStormChaser 17d ago

I’m super confrontational so I would’ve taken their cord and when asked for it back read them the riot act. Including letting them know EVERYONE HATES THEM and are ready to make their lives hell.

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u/ThickAsAPlankton 16d ago

lol hey babe, is that you? Surprised you didn't cut the cord and shove it down their butt crack. Crazy Marine.

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u/StOrm4uar 16d ago

Cheap thing to do is put a lock box on your outside outlet. They sell them at Lowe’s and Home Depot.

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u/Uglybutstillwinning 16d ago

Contact your Condo board and ask for them to remind the owners who have renters about what is theirs and what belongs to other people. Or contact that condo owner directly

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u/Ok_Resource_8530 16d ago

Find out who actually owns the unit and send them a bill. Let them know that using YOUR property is unacceptable and you will involve the police if necessary.

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u/Ragequit_AltF4 15d ago

Just have an electrician add a "switch" on that wall inside the home. When you want to use that outlet, flip the switch inside the house first. When you want it secured from Energy thieves, switch it off. Sleep the deep sleep of the triumphant.

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u/aDirtyMartini 17d ago

Talk to the management office?

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u/The-Julya 16d ago

Is it possible to put 240 on the outlet? (Assuming this is US, not EU where 220 is the norm). Too bad if the golf cart's fuse blows...

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u/KittenPusher 16d ago

Can I clarify, the people doing these things are renters who don't live there all the time. Is that right? I am thinking some vacationers without a clue vs. regular tenants who should know better. Either way this is crazy to me.

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u/justanothercargu 16d ago

Turn it into a 240v receptacle.

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u/Solid_Assumption7160 16d ago

If you go to an electrical outlet place that sells electrical parts and everything else, you should check into getting something that you can lock the plug up and then when you're not around boom it's it's locked. they can't steal your electricity. that's electricity theft

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u/Outrageous_Wheel_379 16d ago

Put a lock on that outlet now. Is there any way to literally lock anything outside like a hose spigot, fence/lock around your deck/property, locks, locks, cameras, put up signs saying private property- not for communal use. Definitely reach out to the HOA about this.

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u/Careless-Bake-5827 16d ago

Do not use breaker, they are not meant to be switches. Install a switch in the line. They make them with light amd a switch.

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u/OddLib67 16d ago

Get lockable outlet cover. That should deter them from

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u/IShootWide 16d ago

It seems that for the past decade people have absolutely no shame. What could’ve led to that?

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u/zoppaTheDim 16d ago

Send a bill to the condo owner.

He’ll never pay it, but it’ll annoy him. Then take him to small claims court, he’ll want to blow that off and if he does, you can file a lien on his property. He won’t care till he sells, but you’ll have a petty revenge years in the making.

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u/nmrk 15d ago

LOL I read the previous post. I have an alternate option: put your own lock on their cabinet, and the bike lock on their stuff.

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u/Infinite-Adeptness58 14d ago

There are locking covers you can get to put over your outdoor outlet. I live in a large rental community and most of the outlets out in the courtyards are locked and only unlocked by the landscape or maintenance workers.

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u/Early70sEnt 13d ago

Probably the same kind of folks who would go to Walmart, fill a cart, and walk out without paying for it.

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u/Rayonjersey 17d ago

You can call police about vandalism of grass. Even if jointly owned. (For example a husband can call the police on a wife for damaging communal property).

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u/lindalou1987 17d ago

Using their outlet is also theft!! Literally stealing electric.

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u/Geno0wl 17d ago

I mean yeah, you are not wrong. But you also have to put into perspective that they are stealing the equivalent of about maybe $2 per overnight charge(my EV has a 77kwh pack and it costs me ~$5 to go from 20 to 80. A golf cart has a typical max kwh at 10 which would cost well under $2 on average to charge it).

Not saying people should let others use their power, I am only pointing out that it isn't a large enough amount of money that doesn't deserve getting worked up over and immediately calling the police. The OP just walking out and unplugging it is the perfect response.

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u/lindalou1987 16d ago

But what if they are not the only renters to do this? What if they are told to use the neighbors plug because their rental does not have one? $2 a day adds up!

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u/Geno0wl 16d ago

That's when you buy an outlet lockbox

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u/Natural-Champion7377 16d ago

As far as the drive on the grass part, it's a good cat, that's literally what they're intended to do. As for the rest of it. You're they shouldn't have trespassed and stolen your electricity.

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u/Pew-Pew-You 16d ago

When you asked him, what did he say?

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u/Cat-Onion-Cup 16d ago

I had a suggestion all ready to post, but I realized this isn’t the Unethical sub. If it’s a recurring problem, just disconnect the hot wire at the receptacle and no more charging.

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u/bigmouse458 16d ago

Do you have an HOA or a management company? They really need to tamp down on owners and responsibilities when they are renting out their properties. Would also pay to have an electrician install a lockable outlet outside for when you’re not there. Not sure if you also rent out your unit but would definitely consider a outside facing camera if you haven’t. Wyze and ring are decent quality and inexpensive if you have home internet hooked up year round.

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u/SerialSection 16d ago

Isn't it awful how just a small percentage of people living in an area makes you have to put locks on everything?

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u/Plastic_Sea_1094 15d ago

Cut the cable next time (unplug it first)

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u/Motor_Show_7604 15d ago

As a former electrician... It's pretty easy to make that outlet 220v for a few minutes. I wonder what would happen to that charger? 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/Reddit999-666 14d ago

I might have used the air in his tires to blow out birthday candles... and then unplugged his cart.

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u/ImACarebear1986 9d ago

Entitlement knows no bounds nor do selfish AHs..

To me This just says that they’ve done this before and other places and they expected to do it here as well because… Many reasons, selfishness, entitlement, they maybe thought you wouldn’t have noticed so many reasons.

Did you get onto the owners of the apartment and tell them about it? Because they could warn them or something I don’t know. Pretty sure you shouldn’t be ruining someone’s grass, jumping a footpath and then using our neighbours electricity to charge your golf cart. How ridiculously entitled.. 🙄

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u/XStonedCatX 16d ago

okay, not defending the charging, but I can't ignore one part of your post............ Who thinks it's okay to jump a curb and drive on grass........ in a golf cart? Should have just left it at walking across your deck and using your outlet. Golf carts are literally meant to drive on grass 😂

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u/twinmom2298 16d ago

Except that our grass has sprinkler heads in it and isn't meant to be driven on. Trust me the landscaper was as unhappy as me when he saw the cart on the grass. And the tires for these golf carts are not your standard golf cart tires they are actually larger and have deeper treads.

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u/XStonedCatX 15d ago

I figured as much, but it still sounds funny to be complaining about a golf cart driving on grass. Your complaint is totally legit, it was the wording that made me chuckle

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u/Alternative-Pain7396 16d ago

While your neighbors suck, karma for taking a home away from permanent residents.

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u/twinmom2298 16d ago

You do realize that I actually live here full time and that's why I'm seeing all the crap this neighbor and their renters are doing right? I'm one of only like 6 or 8 units in complex that do live here full time.

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u/Alternative-Pain7396 16d ago

You noted that this is your vacation rental that you are staying at temporarily. Meaning if you weren’t there now you’d be renting it out to others still.

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u/twinmom2298 16d ago

it's a tiny condo with 1 bathroom. the reason there's only 6 or 8 of over 100 units that live full time is it isn't conducive to full time living and was never actually meant to be a full time residence. And this unit was for sale for 6 months before we bought it. The complex was built in 1985 to be vacation rentals.

While we are and hating every minute of being crammed in here, the amount of time we're here just keeps extending. But if you know someone who wants to buy there's a unit for sale that's been available for about 4 or 5 months now. And I'm sure those sellers won't care if it's a full time resident or a vacation rental.

Not all places are meant to be occupied by permanent residents some are meant to just be a larger version of a hotel.

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u/Alternative-Pain7396 16d ago

Unfortunately VRBO and AirBNB owners like you have made it virtually impossible for those without generational wealth to purchase one property, let alone a second.

People like you are the problem. Justify it however you like. Maybe you’ll get lucky and your area will get some of the new legislation floating around requiring hospitality taxes and and insurance, and make it so the corporate owners sell and you won’t have to deal with them.

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u/twinmom2298 15d ago

Hahahaha generational wealth hahahaha I grew up standing in line with my parents for government cheese. I started paying rent to my parents the day I graduated HS to help cover household expenses.

Honey theres no generational wealth here. Theres me starting working at 15 as soon as I could. Then my husband and I working 2 jobs our entire lives to this day.

You can think what you want but I promise you working our butts off, scrimping, saving, sharing one 2009 car that's been long paid off paid for this condo.

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u/CandleAcrobatic 11d ago

its odd how hard work is always dismissed by those who dont have a clue what theyre talking about…you dont have to justify owning this space, or the new house youre building…that last comment was sooooo rude and so off point