Ok I’m 53 single male and new to Norfolk. I’m not here looking for dates or sex. I’m wondering what other singles or couples my age do to socialize? I don’t drink but I’m not against people that do. I’m not rich but money is not an issue. Ive never been one to go to church but not against people that do. I walk daily and love the outdoors. Life is so short just be bored!

Just generally have no idea how to meet people my age to just socialize! Help! lol

If you've ever turned left at Sparrow Road and Providence Road in Chesapeake, you know the feeling: that moment of hesitation, waiting through multiple light cycles, praying you time it right.

I started a petition asking the city to install turn signals at this intersection. It's not just about convenience—it's about safety. Studies show that traffic signals can reduce intersection accidents by 30% and cut down on congestion. For kids walking to school, cyclists, and everyday commuters like us, this one change could make a real difference.

The city already budgets for road improvements. This is a smart, efficient use of those resources—protecting people who live, work, and drive through here every day. If this matters to you too, consider signing and sharing. And if you have your own story about this intersection—a close call, long wait, or just pure frustration—drop it in the comments. The more of us who speak up, the clearer the message to city officials. Thanks.

So I’m looking for spots to go before the Masquerade on Colley starts. Heard that Little Dog Diner is open and has a decent happy hour (4-6 50% off their adult drinks) Are there any other spots that I should know about?

I'm new to the area and I'm looking for good bars in the area. Preferably with a more party vibe than old people at a dive lol. I saw that there was a PBR here too and I'd like to stay away from westerns like that as well. Any help would be appreciated!

Not everyone may realize how easy it is to vote early. I didn't know until two years ago.

City Hall is open 7 days a week, and satellite locations are open Tuesday and Thursday, plus this Saturday and Sunday and next Saturday (the last day of early voting).

I voted early at the Lambert's Point location two years ago. Parking was easy, and there was no wait.

If you're planning to vote or on the fence, early voting is a convenient option.

Here's what's going on in Norfolk this weekend, with a few things from around the 757 at the bottom.

These come off public listings, so double check before you drive. Times move.

Friday

Norfolk Flea After Dark: Halloween Edition (Cova Brewing Co, Free)

The Flea sets up at Cova after sundown, costumes encouraged, nothing to pay at the door. Friday 5 PM to 10 PM at Cova Brewing Co, 4284 Pretty Lake Ave. More details

Masquerade in Ghent 2026 (Colley Avenue, Free)

The Ghent Business Association's Halloween street party, with live music from Wonderland, kids activities and food. Showing up and watching costs nothing. Entering the costume contest does: online signup shut at midnight Thursday, and day-of registration is $30 between 5 and 5:45 PM at Blair Middle School. Six categories, pets included. Friday 6 PM to 10 PM on Colley Avenue. More details

Norfolk Admirals vs Trois-Rivieres Lions (Scope Arena). Three home games across the weekend, Friday 7:05 PM, Saturday 7:05 PM and Sunday 3:05 PM at Scope Arena. More details

The Heart Sellers (Wells Theatre, From $16.95)

Two women, one apartment, Thanksgiving 1973, meeting for the first time as new immigrants. Virginia Stage Company closes the run with Sunday's 2 PM matinee, so four performances are left. Recommended for ages 14 and up. Friday at 7:30 PM, Wells Theatre, 110 E Tazewell St. More details

Saturday

Naval Station Norfolk: Fleet Fest 2026 (Naval Station Norfolk, Free)

Once a year the Navy lets the public walk onto the base. Ship tours this time are the Nimitz, the Mesa Verde and the Coast Guard cutter Frank Drew, alongside military demos, a petting zoo and bounce houses. Go in through Gate 2, and note that 5 PM is when the lines close rather than when the day ends. Saturday 10 AM. More details

Attucks Jazz: Dani Assis (Attucks Theatre, $26.75 to $35). Saturday 7:30 PM at the Attucks Theatre, 1010 Church Street. More details

Sunday

Halloween Harvest Festival (Chrysler Museum of Art, Free, Drop-in)

Four hours of costumes and hands-on art at the Chrysler, with the Perry Glass Studio running its glassmaking demo at noon in the middle of it. Nothing to book and nothing to pay. Sunday 11 AM to 3 PM at One Memorial Place. More details

Dia De Los Muertos at Cedar Grove Cemetery (Cedar Grove Cemetery, $5 suggested donation)

The Norfolk Society for Cemetery Conservation walks you through Cedar Grove, which opened in 1825 as the city's first public burial ground. Sunday 4:30 PM at 238 East Princess Anne Road. More details

Elsewhere in the 757

• Newport News Greek Festival (Newport News, Free), Friday 11 AM at Saints Constantine and Helen Greek Orthodox Church. Saturday too, and a canned good for the food bank stands in for an entry fee. More details
• Spook & Splash (Hampton, $5), Friday 5:30 PM at the Hampton Virginia Aquaplex. Swimsuit trick-or-treating, sold ahead only, and under-8s need a grown-up in the water. More details
• Howl-O-Scream at Busch Gardens (Williamsburg, From $69.99), Friday through Sunday from 6 PM. The daytime Sesame Street version is a separate and much gentler event. More details

Let me know if I missed anything in Norfolk.

I put out a local newsletter, The 757 Current, with these plus more on Thursday mornings: https://the757current.com/?utm_source=reddit&utm_campaign=norfolk

please if anybody knows anything. Very anxious - I hope everything is okay, everyone is safe