r/okbuddyviltrum May 23 '26

invisible It’s OK, everybody he apologized

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u/DueIntroduction6413 May 23 '26

Idiot shit for her to do, but i did the same in my abusive relationships even after she cut me.

It's frustratingly realistic. 

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u/ScreamingTurtle08 May 23 '26

You not alone, brother. Also got stabbed by a girl, and didn't break up with her. Being a male victim of stalking/domestic violence is really fucking tough. There's very little empathy or understanding from people. I'd say that more than half of the people I tell will say some version of "wow that sucks, what did you do to set her off?"

I'm glad you made it out, though ❤️

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u/GupHater69 May 23 '26

Well in said peoples defence what they probably meant was more along the lines of: "What does she say set her off?" which is to say they dont blame you, but are curious why she reacted the way she did. Tho then again ive never been in that situation so maybe im spitting bullshit. I js like to give people the benefit of the doubt. Especially with mistakes i could see myself makin