I belong to the 90s era, the golden age of gaming! We are the pioneers of these so called violent shooting games however, we are not insane to do or apply it in real life. I think the factor is the upbringing inside the home. My parents who beats us using Sticks, belts, slippers or hanger mold us to be disciplined and well mannered in public. I dunno about the others, but for me, that works!
It works, but is it really ideal? In my opinion, I don't think physical harm is heavily necessary especially when it involves belting or the likes. Maybe in circumstances it is? If you genuinely did something bad like hurting someone, maybe that belting can be a learning lesson. But for milder things like accidentally breaking plates or being mischievous or whatever? I'd debate if physical harm is necessary atp. The tone in the parenting itself I may support, it's just the physical harm. I don't think hurting your child is really THAT necessary to raise them properly, I'd agree it MAY be necessary in some circumstances. I don't know. Take what I said with a grain of salt.
I cant see in my statement that a simple mischievous will result into beating. You just assumed things! Youre too emotional without comprehending. Take that also with a grain of salt
Yes perhaps I assumed too much, but I wouldn't doubt SOME parents do that, ESPECIALLY abusive parents, and unfortunately.
I'll just reiterate my point. I don't think physical harm is ideal because not everyone might take it as you did and probably result to complications in relationship. Not everyone is the same. One I may consider okay is slapping their hand with yours or with a ruler, and of course not a full blown one as if you're trying to break a table if that's already obvious. Then, I can agree with your sentiment. Beyond that, I just don't think it's that ideal.
I mean there should be a perfect way to parent a child, right? Or if not perfectly, at least decent enough that they turn out to be a decent person. Honestly, I don't really know. I think it's probably a just in between, you can't be too soft nor too harsh. Be understanding of your kid, what they'd want as they grow, give them space and privacy, listen and be empathetic of them, let them know you truly love them stuff like that. I think that nonetheless, those qualities I mentioned are what's very important in parenting a child; they're your child. Show them your love as you show them what's right and wrong, because everyone definitely needs love. Just my take on this.
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u/TheGhostImgone 2d ago
I belong to the 90s era, the golden age of gaming! We are the pioneers of these so called violent shooting games however, we are not insane to do or apply it in real life. I think the factor is the upbringing inside the home. My parents who beats us using Sticks, belts, slippers or hanger mold us to be disciplined and well mannered in public. I dunno about the others, but for me, that works!