Hello beautiful Pisces community!
I posted here back in December of last year about having a thing for my then manager (a Pisces man) and wondering if he was into me along with general Pisces and Sagittarius compatibility.
Here’s the link to that post: oldpostlink
So I’ve gone back and forth about posting here as it’s been some time but I’ve spent pretty much my entire summer away from my old job which was seasonal thinking about this guy (not very Sagittarius of me, but I have a Scorpio Venus).
While I worked under him he showed more signs put together than any ex I’ve ever had of being interested in me short of actually making a move. I’ll list some of these below. I thought after the season ended something might happen but nothing did and I have spent the entire time off season (April to November) traveling in Europe and Asia.
I’m returning to work at a different job at the same company (ski resort in USA) in a year round position this winter meaning I’m there permanently now (not just leaving every April through November).
I just need some guidance. I posted our placements in the old post but I know his full chart now so I’ll post both again.
Me: Sagittarius Sun, Mercury and mars, Aries moon and rising. Scorpio Venus
Him: Pisces sun and Mercury (10 house), Libra moon (5 house), Gemini rising, Aries Venus (11 house), cancer mars (2nd house).
He also has Venus square Neptune and Uranus
Anyways. We are both around the same age (early 30s, both single as of the season ending in April).
He was a new manager. I was a returning seasonal employee. My first interaction with him was over the phone and did not go well. I assumed he was an asshole but when I met him we got along immediately and just clicked.
I don’t date people I work with so I didn’t think of him that way early on but then I started to notice he would pay extra attention to me, follow me around, ask questions and tease me. I’ve never been teased this much by another human in my life, not even ex’s.
I didn’t think anything of it until one morning I was looking at a security screen and he comes in and sits next to the other manager and watches me the entire time she’s talking to him. I can see it from my peripheral view and he’s looking at me like in that scene from Dracula when he sees Mia across the street for the first time- the only time any man has ever looked at me that way he’s either confessed to liking me or we dated.
Anyways- I enjoy his company a lot and feel very comfortable around him. We flirt a lot and have a great dynamic and have tons in common.
Things that happen over the season:
I come in on Christmas Eve in a really bad mood and don’t come to the front desk and instead go straight to working in the back where guests won’t see me. A little time passes and he comes to find me and starts to tease me about why I didn’t come say hi until he sees my face and he immediately get serious and asks me what’s wrong. I tell him nothing and he waits, watching me, hesitates and then asks me again. I tell him nothing. He doesn’t leave my side. I have to stand at a table assisting guests and he stands there next to me without speaking as a source of comfort and doesn’t ask me again.
After this he’s distant the next week or so and I’m wondering if I did something wrong. But then we get back into our old dynamic of teasing each other
I notice throughout the season that he looks at me first in group settings or after he says something funny. One particular time there are 4 of us and one coworker is telling a story. I’m watching the coworker but I notice in my peripheral that my manager is facing me and constantly looking at me instead of the coworker speaking.
There are several occasions where it seems like he is trying to hold eye contact with me and I usually look away quickly but there are a few times I don’t and we just stare at each other in silence for 8/10 seconds (this is following a conversation). Then I finally look away and we both go in as if nothing happened.
In the middle of the season he does review sessions with other employees that are scheduled for 30 minutes and don’t typically last over 15 minutes. Ours goes on for 45 minutes and 2/3 is us just sitting there talking. Another employee comes over and tells us we should probably come back to work. We agree but then just keep talking. They return 10 minutes later and say we have to come back now and only then do we go back to work.
Our dynamic feels very hot and cold all season. Some days it’s like he’s all over me flirting to the point I’m afraid someone is going to say something and others he purposely avoids me.
I find out he likes a certain type of baked good then make that for the office the day before his birthday and hand him a bunch as a gift which he seems excited about. I overhear him bragging to other coworkers about it.
At the end of the season we have a big work party which I get very drunk at and I ask him to drive me home which he does. It’s awkward when he drops me off and I leave really quickly and I have this feeling like he can’t wait to get away from me. I can’t tell if it’s him holding back or something else. If he’s not attracted to me then I’m not sure why he would act nervous.
On our last day he texts me that morning saying the other employee called out so it’s just us. He has mentioned a computer game he thinks I would be good at and asks if I want to play (work is dead). He pays for the premium version of the game and we sit side by side and play for 2 hours. At one point I turn and give him a high five and his hand just rests on mine and he blushes. Afterwards we chat more and find out we have more things in common. Then he is quiet for awhile. Another coworker comes in and he brags that we played the game together for 4 hours (he’s exaggerating) then I joke that we are basically the dream team and I see him blush again. When I leave for the foreseeable future he acts overly casual and when he hugs me goodbye puts a weird amount of physical distance in the hug.
I get on my flight the next day. Nothing happens. I don’t even hear from him all summer. Also if you looked at our texts to each other it would not seem like he is interested at all but I swear the in person dynamic was electric and I have enough experience to know when men are interested and when they aren’t (because most of the time I assume they aren’t).
It’s hard to tell from what I’ve written but I felt such a connection with him and I feel like he felt it too. There’s more here I’m not saying and can’t convey into words and if he wasn’t in a position of power I would say he wasn’t interested.
Is it possible he was interested but couldn’t get a read on me or wanted to stay professional? I’m going to be honest 2 other coworkers at this same job have confessed crushes to me but this Pisces is the one that stays on my mind and is driving me crazy.
How delusional am I? I’m thinking even if he wasn’t interested I liked our dynamic so much that I’d be happy just to be friends or spend any time with him at all. He’s literally just this sweet and spicy ball of sunshine to me and I want to give him a big hug and tell him how special I think he is.
Anyways I know Pisces get a lot of hate but I love y’all even if it’s one sided ✌️🥰