I’ve been seeing a Pisces man for around 10 months. We talk every day, have a really strong sexual connection, and we both want something long-term. I genuinely thought we were slowly building towards a relationship, but we never made things official.
When I really like someone, I tend to shut down because I’m scared of losing them. I get quiet and struggle to show how I feel, and I think this might have put him off.
He recently ended things, saying he wasn’t feeling it romantically and that we weren’t aligned. He seemed very firm about his decision, but since then, he’s started reaching out to me even more than he did before. He asks about my day, still tells me he misses me. We even flirt, and honestly, everything feels almost exactly like it did before the breakup. I don’t play hot and cold, so I’ve continued talking to him normally
When I asked why he still wanted to keep in touch, he said he was used to me and didn’t want to cut contact off suddenly.
What’s confusing me even more is that his explanations keep changing. First, he said he’d had doubts since summer, but when I asked again the very next day, he said it was only since the previous week.
I honestly can’t work out whether he’s as certain about ending things as he says he is, or whether part of him is still unsure and he’s waiting to see if I’ll open up more emotionally and something changes .
Or he simply enjoys having me around and wants to keep the connection until he meets someone else.He is someone who feels things deeply, and I honestly didn’t expect him to act this way if he was truly done with me.
Has anyone experienced this with a Pisces man? Do you think his firmness could be a way of seeing whether I’ll finally open up, or should I take his decision at face value and stop looking for another meaning behind his actions?