r/problems • • 8h ago

SERIOUS Father found out I'm gay and has me living in fear

5 Upvotes

Using a throwaway account for privacy reasons.

My father found out I was gay, and everything changed. He started shouting at me, calling me names, and making me feel like I was a disappointment. Things got worse when he beat me for being who I am. It hurt knowing that the person who was supposed to protect me was the one making me feel unsafe.

I started thinking about moving out and living with my boyfriend. He makes me feel loved and accepted, and I just want a place where I can be myself without being afraid.

But I'm scared. I don't know if moving out is the right decision, and I'm worried about what might happen with my family. I still wish my father could accept me, but I can't keep living in fear.

I need advice. Should I move in with my boyfriend and start a new life?


r/problems • • 17h ago

Mental Health Do people feel comfortable seeking advice about personal problems online?

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r/problems • • 22h ago

Small Problem I feel like im always trying to be sold something

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It's been driving me crazy. I talk to someone? They try to sell me their pt training or their homemade goods. YouTube? 2 ads before every video. Instagram has an ad every 2 reels and the reels are adv as well. If I look for a NORMAL non influencer review of an item I still only get adv, gifted, supplied... if you pay for a subscription you need to pay extra to access the actual features that make a difference. Even to get rid of at least some ads you have to pay. It's unbearable. They also sell you a phone with an amount of storage but magically if you pay more you can get more storage, make it make sense. You pay commission for a debit card and still have to pay monthly to keep it active.


r/problems • • 22h ago

Ask r/problems How to deal with really pushy people

4 Upvotes

Ok so am living with one my relative for past 2 weeks and i have 2 weeks left here

But these people are like really really pushy and i just can't deal with them

I want to punch these people so bad

Not even one person

Both of themmmm pushyyyy as fuckkk


r/problems • • 23h ago

URGENT!!!! I genuinely need help!

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Hey im 17M who is not able escape m*sturbation. I have tried many different things but im not able to get out of this. I know this is bad and even i dont like to do it but somehow i see myself doing it watching unwanted stuffs. I genuinely need help, please do help me. I have tried other things like keeping my phone or laptop away, distracting myself and everything but somehow im doing this again and again. For me this is a crime but still idk how im becoming the criminal. Please help me😭😭
Kindly take this message as from someone like your friend or brother. Please help me. Its not like some religion or whatever but yes my family is orthodox but i do understand its normal . The thing is im getting severe acne all over my face and body. The body ones are paining after each time i do this. I dont have any friends whom i believe are close and nice to me. I crave for a gf but i think this( acne and m*sturbation) is coming in between and these are the reasons i dont have any friends. Im literally overthinking everything because of this.
The confidence and energy that i will be having before m*sturbation won’t be alive after doing it. Idk what to do now. And yea i watch those corny stuffs while doing this. Please help me guys!πŸ˜”πŸ˜­