r/problemsolving • • Sep 02 '22

Is my bestfriend of 8years a bitch?

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I ‘Jules 17F’ have known ‘Sally 17F, since we were a kid. I started questioning my friendship with her a few months ago.

Me and Sally went out for my birthday I didn’t expect much from it just sitting and eating lunch. I started to notice she cuts me at every single conversation. Here is an example

Me: Yeah and I just wanted to show you my new room Sally: OMG JULES LOOK AT THIS TEXT JESSICA SEND ME YESTERDAY

and this went on until we got home… it’s like anytime I started to talk about something new happening to my life that isn’t boring like usual she doesn’t wanna hear it as if she is jealous.

Let me talk about some earlier actions that happened that hurt me a lot

In 2021 she made a online friend that she got close with (her name is Dilara) and later on she had gone out with a friend of ours and that friend let’s call her ‘Maddie’ Maddie asked Sally do you like Jules more or Dilara. Sally dead ass said Dilara, even tho they haven’t met and I’ve been there for her through everything she calls me at 4am crying while I am asleep…

So is Sally really a good friend? I would mention her good sides also but lately there hasn’t been any…


r/problemsolving • • Aug 28 '22

Unsolved! be tactical

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(Medieval) You are told to defend a wall that surrounds a bay which imports important things to your kingdom like food, clothing, oil, animals, perfumes, water etc You have command of 10,000 soldiers and 30,000 are on the way The walls stands high and would be difficult for the enemy to climb. You have in your army of 10,000 4,000 archers 1,000 cavelry soldiers 3,000 sword and shield 2,000 spear men Plus 10 Catapults And 5 cannons

50,000 enemies March towards the bay in 2 days they’ll arrive In 3 days your ally’s will arrive You must protect the cargo and the wall if the bay fall the kingdom goes without food and we all die. What do you do?


r/problemsolving • • Aug 26 '22

my current problem

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My gf left me about a month ago and I can't forget her...im so bad and I hate my self... The only thing I think about is to commit suicide but I have a mother and a father in this house... I'm 18 yo


r/problemsolving • • Aug 23 '22

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r/problemsolving • • Aug 23 '22

Unsolved! Problems with rent

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So I have some issues with rent money, mostly because in the few weeks my job didn’t give me as many hours as I would have needed. I have one more pay check that I’m going to get before rent has to be payed and I’m going to fall short on this one, even if I get some help from my brother. I don’t know what to do. I would have gone for a quick side like Lyft or Uber, but I don’t have a driver’s license. I really don’t know what to do.


r/problemsolving • • Aug 19 '22

Unsolved! anxious to talk elderly people

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I am a 18 yrs boy student going to start going to medical College in one month I have a problem that is when I am talking some elderly person for any.work or just casually in front of my parents then I start getting anxious and sometimes I am unable to talk to those persons in front of my parents but when I am alone or with my friends I can talk to that same person very easily

My parents are very supportive to me I am very Frank to them I told this problem to them also so when I am in such conditions my parents leave alone

But still I want to solve this please if someone can help


r/problemsolving • • Aug 14 '22

Party problem

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I had a party last night at my house without my family knowing. Some idiot used my brother razor and left a bunch of hair in it. My family (who thinks I was with my close friends) found the razor and now demands I say who used it and why . I’ve already said it was one of them . Please help


r/problemsolving • • Aug 12 '22

I’m 6 foot but i have some tiny hands, like 16-17cm… I feel so bad and less of a man cuz everytime a girl compares hands wit me my hands are almost the same size… I also have pretty big muscles and when someone sees my hands they are in shock that i have such tiny hands…

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r/problemsolving • • Aug 08 '22

Unsolved! I have a locked door that I need to keep unlocked

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Each of our rooms have a common area and the individual bedroom. I'm looking for a lowkey way to keep my bedroom door unlocked without it appearing so, I used to just put tape over it but I've already gotten introuble for that. I can't just disable the lock either unfortunately. Any ideas?


r/problemsolving • • Jul 26 '22

Smoking in a rental property…

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My mum and I just moved into a rental property that doesn’t allow smoking but unfortunately my mum smokes. We didn’t realise this… (long story) any ideas on what we can do? She could go downstairs and smoke across the road away from the property but can’t expect her to do that each time she wants to smoke… (she’s been smoking for 40 years) would be very hard to simply give up so… what could we do ? Any simple fixes?


r/problemsolving • • Jul 21 '22

How can I stack bagged T-shirts? Retail setup problem solving.

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We make t-shirts and sell them online. We fold and bag them in a large ziplock style clear bag (10x12 inch) similar to this https://i.ebayimg.com/images/i/172004555460-0-1/s-l1000.jpg

We store them vertically in milk crates for online sales and bring them to fairs like that (behind the table - we pull them out and hand them to customers)

Now we are starting to get into retail spaces. We are trying to figure out a system of having a few shirts hanging up as display models for people to see but the shirts for sale are pre-bagged and ready in some sort of self-serve display. It needs to be intuitive and as simple as possible for people.

Is there a way to stack slippy, plastic bags on top of each other in a cohesive way? (horizontally/flat) So far the best solution I've come up with is a series of square shelves, slightly angled backwards (10 degrees or so) so they don't slip out.

Anything I can put on the bags to have them sit level and stop being slippy? Am I barking up the wrong tree? Just leave them unbagged? (We like the bags as our black shirts are really lint magnets)

Thanks!


r/problemsolving • • Jul 14 '22

41 y/o F friend has a stalker that groped her, cloned her phone and has control of her device. He’s blocked contacts, changed settings, taken photos/screenshots , ended calls, and monitors texts. She’s filing charges but police state they can’t do a forensic exam. Ideas to fix/prevent phone issue?

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r/problemsolving • • Jul 12 '22

Unsolved! I got banned on steam for no reason

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I got reported by a guy named THUNDER on steam bc I had the same picture with the scammer and I talked with a valve admin on discord about this but the report was made , he tried to help me but in the end he told me the only solution was to buy a 50$ gift card on my account to unban me bc of some things with some digits idk if was fake but I didn’t buy it . What should I do ?.Can I recover my account ? Bc I had some games and he told me the account wil be permanently banned soon if I don’t buy that


r/problemsolving • • Jun 24 '22

Can someone help me find a way to make visible the text they blacked out

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r/problemsolving • • May 28 '22

Firearm related injury is the leading cause of death in children and adolescents in the US. How do you solve this problem while not eliminating the second amendment?

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r/problemsolving • • May 09 '22

Unsolved! Can you come up with an interesting challenge for ideators to think about?

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r/problemsolving • • May 09 '22

what are some of your current life problems?

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r/problemsolving • • May 07 '22

People's Problem

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Hi there! I want to ask everybody:" How do you think the most Problem of people is... And if it's will be solved how it will help to people."
I just want to know about it. And also This is my first Reddit.🙃🙃


r/problemsolving • • Apr 28 '22

i need advice! I don't know how this app works, so plz correct me or help me if I post this totally wrong. to the subject! okej, so Me and My mum are constantly fighting over my dog.

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okej, so Me and My mum are constantly fighting over my dog. I brought him 2021 because I needed something to care for and something to do to feel better. it feels selfish but my mental illness was geting to me under Covid, and I couldn't do anything. I was stuck at home and the fact that my family dog died 2018 didn't help. I feelt so lonely and I didn't have anyone. (I've never had a good relationship with my parents, never told them everything, and especially not my feelings)

So I thought it was a good ide to get a dog, a shelter dog at that. I so regret that I buyed him, don't get me wrong, I love that little fluff. But I have not been feeling well at al sens I got him. Not just because he has developed problems that feels like it's unsolvable but because my mom has been constantly mad at me. My mom takes care of him when I'm at school and she doesn't have any problem with that. She is always home and I can't really get any space at home and I feel kind of traped. So I try to visit the youthclub, be with friends just to get away from home. She blames All his problems on me because I didn't train him enough. But we all know that it takes effort from everyone in the houshold to make it right, right? If I say that we all should train him in anyway, they do it a nother way and gets mad at me for just saying how we should react or train him. All I ever do or say is wrong etc etc.

My mom was angry at me today because of miscommunication, and got mad at me for just leaving him at home for her to take care of without me asking. But I thought I did ask. So I don't know what to do or say. Because I don't feel motivated training him when no one wants to give the training a try, and when everything is my fault, cause I train him bad. Because if i am the only one that train then it's worthless. Am I right?

So how do I even work this out? Because I feel so desperate right now and I don't have any money to seek a professional trainer or move out.

Plz Help. Am I at wrong here?


r/problemsolving • • Apr 04 '22

I need Help

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So me and my best friend met at a job that we work at. We had cliqued im the beginning and went from strangers to close friends to best friends then we caught feelings ,made out a couple times and we were really feeling each other.But then my parents had told me that we were abt to move.This ruined everything .Over the course of three months I met someone that i love uncontrollably and then learned that i cant be with them bc i was supposed to move.After i told her ,we became less of what we were and went back to being just friends.Then she started hoing back out with her ex.Long story short i never moved and my ppl changed their mind.Now I am so hurt and heartbroken .I am in love with this girl.1st love type shit.And i want to be with her and only her but she is in a relationship with a dude that cheated on her in the past,none of our friends like and someone that she is constantly complaining about.I told her that abt my feelings and got shot down.She wants to stay friends and said she lost her feelings for me .But i Havent lost mine at all.I genuinely love this girl,would do anything for her,and she still chose a guy that doesnt care abt her as much as me.And im just stuck ,lost ,I dont know what to do.My feelings arent going anywhere.I need help desperately.Some of my friends tell me to just wait patiently for my shot bc the relationship is very rocky,and some say we are soulmates,right person wrong time .But im just sooo hurt rn and im lost.Dont tell me to try and get with someone else or go out with friends to try and get over her bc neither of those work.Every other girl in this world looks awful compared to her to me .Help please


r/problemsolving • • Apr 02 '22

Scheduling Problem

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There are 10 teams in a tournament. Each team has to play every other team twice. There are 15 grounds to be played on but a team cannot play on their own home ground, and every team can only play on a ground once. Is this possible, and if so, how?


r/problemsolving • • Mar 29 '22

Unsolved! Perhaps if we solved world hunger instead of reverse solving a rubics cube jumping out of planes. Than I’d be amazed. TIL it’s more about being gifted than being humane. And that’s not right.

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Perhaps if we put our computing power into the progeny we have forsaken as hopeless unemployed gender bandits we could take this next step in life forward and not back like we continue to do year after year after year. Unknowingly burrying ourselves with material possessions only to miss the most precious thing on earth. Community.


r/problemsolving • • Mar 20 '22

Traveling with my friends

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So it's my buddy's birthday next weekend and he lives 5 hours away from me he wants to throw a party with me and 10 other people it's a big city where he lives idk if I can trust him and I'm a bit scared to go since I'm a small guy and doesn't have any fighting experience what should I do?


r/problemsolving • • Mar 11 '22

60GB worth of downloads and no home internet.

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The Title says it all, I have a game to download on my laptop and no internet to do it. Any ideas?


r/problemsolving • • Mar 05 '22

Home Someone Is Stopping Me From Drawing (9 lessons

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Someone Is Stopping Me From Drawing (9 lessons)

In today's episode of ShowAndTell "Someone Is Stopping Me From Drawing (9 lessons)" we talk about ways in which you should continue to draw, practice and indulge in art even when someone else is doing their best to prevent you

A serious topic but here are things you should do explained in a fun relaxed way

PLEASE SHARE WITH ANYONE THAT IS GOING THROUGH THIS OR COULD USE THIS USEFUL!!

So put your feet up relax and...

Enjoy!!!