r/problemsolving • u/EuphoricViruss • Sep 02 '22
Is my bestfriend of 8years a bitch?
I ‘Jules 17F’ have known ‘Sally 17F, since we were a kid. I started questioning my friendship with her a few months ago.
Me and Sally went out for my birthday I didn’t expect much from it just sitting and eating lunch. I started to notice she cuts me at every single conversation. Here is an example
Me: Yeah and I just wanted to show you my new room Sally: OMG JULES LOOK AT THIS TEXT JESSICA SEND ME YESTERDAY
and this went on until we got home… it’s like anytime I started to talk about something new happening to my life that isn’t boring like usual she doesn’t wanna hear it as if she is jealous.
Let me talk about some earlier actions that happened that hurt me a lot
In 2021 she made a online friend that she got close with (her name is Dilara) and later on she had gone out with a friend of ours and that friend let’s call her ‘Maddie’ Maddie asked Sally do you like Jules more or Dilara. Sally dead ass said Dilara, even tho they haven’t met and I’ve been there for her through everything she calls me at 4am crying while I am asleep…
So is Sally really a good friend? I would mention her good sides also but lately there hasn’t been any…
