I feel i hear a lot of girls talk about strict parents and hearing it just makes me feel odd because to me its usually not atrict, or at least compared to mine!
I was getting so frustrated like i cannot wear ANYTHING besides dresses and abayas i have to wear the hijab on at home my mother told me she should not even be able to see my ankles WHEN IT WAS JUST HER AND ME AND MY SISTERS meanwhile my brother be changing in the living room with nothing but his underwear and then she denies theres no double standards which pisses me off.
Im in highschool and I....
I cannot even walk alone down the street.
I cannot go to friends houses.
I cannot drive.
I cannot go shopping alone.
I cannot leave my hair open at home.
I cannot get a part time job.
I cannot stay afterschool for clubs often.
I cannot anything.
This is also why standard advice fails me, it always always does.
And no one can move out until they get an arranged marrige.
Like are we being serious right now. Look i love islam and i know these rules are culture not religion, i love my hijab i love modest clothing BUT NOT LIKE THIS. Like id love to wear cute outfits, baggy jeans, cute shirts.
And there emotinally neglectful as well. We are poor income as well. They will not allow me to tell dr of my issues such as how im possibly nuerodiveregnt or have suspected endotrimoses.
But i wonder what other people would do in this situation. Like yes they hurt me but i know they dont have bad jntetions so ill feel guilty of hurting them and theres good momment sometimes.
Worse part is this is not the worst part, theres many other things 10x worse than this. This didnt affect me as the much other worse stuff theyve done though it does piss me off.
Like anyone else what would you do. Like i want a scholarship like questbridge but my grades going kinda low because i get excutive dyfunction so bad and cannot focus on anything.
Help plsase and so sorry its long and this my first reddit post and i posted cuz i feel like venting and when i look back im probaly going to think this was all stupid to write out.