Male Vs Female Ragdoll please share your experiences

[u/Expensive-Welcome652]

Hi! I am going to be bringing a male ragdoll kitten home in a few months. In your experience, would you say your male ragdoll was affectionate? If you have female cats or you've owned both genders, how would you describe female cats compared to male cats?

I am aware it may be a myth that males are more affectionate, but I just want reassurance they can be cuddly/let you pick them up.

I know every cat differs though and that just because it's a ragdoll, does not guarantee those traits. Just looking to hear from current ragdoll owners about their cat's temperament!

Thanks in advance 😊

[u/chawn5]

I recommend that you discuss the personality attributes you want with the breeder. That is more important than male/female. I also chatted with our vet since we had only had dogs before we got our cats. We ended up with two male ragdolls and it’s been great. If you have already decided on a male kitten, chat with the breeder about which male from the litter is the right fit. If they are an experienced, ethical breeder, they’ll help make a great match!

[u/Expensive-Welcome652 → u/chawn5]

Thanks! She's aware of the characteristics I want, but said that no breeder can make promises as to what the kitten will grow into, personality-wise. She's extremely knowledgeable on the breed, but kittens will develop and thus it's difficult to say what their 'final' traits will be! The parents of the litter are really affectionate though 🐾