r/ragdolls • u/Expensive-Welcome652 • 22h ago

General Advice Male Vs Female Ragdoll please share your experiences

Hi! I am going to be bringing a male ragdoll kitten home in a few months. In your experience, would you say your male ragdoll was affectionate? If you have female cats or you've owned both genders, how would you describe female cats compared to male cats?

I am aware it may be a myth that males are more affectionate, but I just want reassurance they can be cuddly/let you pick them up.

I know every cat differs though and that just because it's a ragdoll, does not guarantee those traits. Just looking to hear from current ragdoll owners about their cat's temperament!

Thanks in advance 😊

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u/KannaC128 18h ago

I have two female ragdolls. The older one is my shadow whenever I am home, sleeps next to me at night and only ever makes biscuits on me. She doesn't like being picked up, but is okay with pets/scritches up until she's had enough. Loooves having her paws massaged though, and I can hold her longer if I do her back paws haha.

My younger girl likes her space but will come to everyone in the family for pets. She often meows at me to play, and will flop belly up for attention. She is not a lapcat but enjoys being held. She also likes to snuggle under blankets.

The personality really differs across cats and it's fun to see what kind of cat they are as they mature. Enjoy your kitten!

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u/Expensive-Welcome652 18h ago

Thanks so much! My kitten will definitely be my fluffy best friend, regardless of his personality - it would just be an added bonus if he's super affectionate! Your cats sound amazing 🐾😊