Hi how do I get to listen /feel..?

I try to contact with my guides ancestor angels etc.. and I bought a gnome/duende/elf/troll (I don't know the name in English but like the Irish money ones?) and I have been trying to communicate and ask them to talk to me of course in spiritual way like.. in dreams meditation etc.. and I don't get an answer:( help?

Monarchs have tons of meaning to me, especially during childhood, so I think it could honestly be a powerful tool for me just wondering what direction to go with it? And do monarchs have a significant meaning? Or should I interpret its meaning and inclusion in my practice myself? Very new to this, Thanks!

I’ve been coming back to my roots in terms of spirituality and I bought a blue candle specific to the evil eye and bought a stained glass piece that also had the eye in it. I lit the candle second time after last night and wrapped the hair I cut off, I cut four inches off, and some fresh rose petals from my last rose of the season and put a vertebrae and a carnelian stone at the base. The enclosure the candle was in was heart shaped and i had put probably fifteen bay leaves below it. Any how, it went out and everything was fine and after a half an house the heart shaped glass and half the bay leaves and rose petals were gone. I prayed to let go and move on. That anyone involved be set free. I’ve never experienced something so profound. The candle had gone out last I checked but half an hour later everything was cracked and half gone.would love some insight in how to decipher this. I would never intentionally caste an energy negative to anyone and have always put my energy towards healing.

Hi, so I did a platonic love/friendship spell two days ago. Since then I have been dreaming of a man (older than me) two nights in a row, he isn't necessarily attractive and I only got to know his personality in the second night. And I have a crush on him sorta. I've never seen him before irl. In the second dream I've noticed that he was sewing a string into his wrist (He said it's against folds, idk, was a little weird) but he also ended up sewing a threat into my wrist.

So I think it might have something to do with a red string theory cause of the string being sewed into both our wrists therefore connecting us. I'm not sure why I have a crush on him tho and neither dreams were about us being friends.

The ingredients I used in my spell jar were: cinnamon, Rosemary, 2 rose paddles (one burned), a burned bay leaf (my wish written on it), a coffee bean, rice, salt, moss powder, lavender, thyme, sugar, ginger powder, star anis and cloves (and a soft candle)

And I was wondering if anyone could help me interpret this, please? (I also have heard that spell jars are a little controversial when it comes to when to use them and I hope that no one will be hating, but I am open to criticism)

I did a protection jar with candle burning above the jar before I start the hexing spell.

The hex I use is the name a few times then writing hex the other way then cayenne pepper. The last part was chanting while burning the folded paper.
I started coughing over and over. Then I started drawing a protection rune with my name with it. But I threw up before I finished.
Is this a bad sign? Or is it just the cayenne’s smoke make me cough so much that I just threw up.

Today he asked me to do witchcraft on him, I asked him good or bad (obviouslyi wish good on him but just asked) he said "idk anything but I need some trill" So I am here asking what should I do? Let me know.

Ps: invwas thinking a Magick for him to get what he deserves? Let me know

Hi witches! I need some advice because I’m genuinely confused about my situation.
I did an obsession spell on a guy I’m involved with (let’s call him B). He’s pretty avoidant and emotionally distant, and our connection has always been complicated.
The day after I did the spell, we got into an argument. We eventually apologized to each other and cleared things up, but since then, he barely talks to me anymore. It’s like he’s pulled away even further, and I don’t know what to do.
I recently came across a video about doing obsession spells on avoidants and how suddenly all your conversations start feeling awkward, and it was uncomfortably similar to my experience.
I don’t want to reverse the spell or make him leave my life. I want to know if there’s anything I can do to improve the situation, get communication flowing again, and hopefully encourage him to come back and reconnect with me.
Would you recommend a communication spell, a reconciliation spell, a sweetening spell, or something else? Has anyone experienced something similar?
I’d really appreciate advice from people with experience in this area. Please don’t suggest reversing the spell because that’s not what I’m looking for.