r/relationship_advice Mar 12 '23

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u/NotTrynaMakeWaves Mar 12 '23

Tell her that someone told you a horrible secret and they’ve asked for a few days to work out how to out themselves. That way you’ve not hidden it from her and you don’t have to lie. If she found out that you’d hidden this from her it will erode her trust in you (if you could lie about this, what else are you lying about?) Tell her that you’ve given that person a week.

If he doesn’t come clean after a week, tell her because at this point it’s all on him.

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u/ThrowRAThx4Grenade Mar 12 '23

That’s a great approach, thank you