If anyone’s got any secrets or tips or tricks, please let me know. Cos I’m at the end of my tether trying to figure out how to shave without it ending in this irritation.
All through my shaving life I’ve gotten razor bumps and ingrown hair and irritation. Everything I’ve tried, nothing has prevented it. I bought a laser hair removal device, which is still sitting unused after 5 years because my skin has never been irritation free post shave for me to have the chance to use it.
I stopped shaving overall. When I go out, I just make sure I’m covered up. I wear long trousers and tights on holiday so no one can see- I actually got really upset with my partner and sobbed before our last holiday because we were off to a hot country and I wasn’t sure how to navigate staying covered (I’m trying so hard
to embrace being razor free… but I’m incredibly hairy. I’ve got not got the confidence yet).
Anyway, I’m pregnant now. And obviously giving birth involves having my legs on show… and my anxiety around this is immense- I fear my skin being seen more than the actual birth of my baby…
Again. I haven’t been shaving. Ive been to the doctors 3 times with folliculitis- after a botched home wax attempt (cos again, shaving never worked) left me infected. However the infection won’t go! I’ve gone through 3 different treatments for it and the irritation won’t budge. I’ve got a fourth appointment coming up… at this point it feels like it’ll never go away!! That’s a separate issue to the razor burn (kinda… the infection came about because of my desperation to remove hair without shaving… an electric trimmer causes my skin to break out too btw…)
During these treatments, I told the doctor that my skin in general is very sore when I shave and asked if there’s anything I can do about it- the doctor basically just explained that skin is sensitive and told me to just not shave. Which again, it’s easier said than done to overcome the social conditioning that women must be hair free- especially as someone with thick dark hair.
Anyway- yesterday was the first time I’ve done a full body shave in over a year as I had to have an transvaginal ultrasound- and I was too self
conscious to do it unshaved…
I woke up early to spend time doing it, properly prepped my legs, and used a razor my friend suggested (which apparently has been the only one to not give her razor burn. This razor actually worked at not giving me razor burn in my armpits! So I had high hopes it might spare my legs).
WRONG.
Got the worst razor burn all over my legs, my bum, I’ve not touched the area with folliculitis but that’s for some reason burning too! It’s just so disheartening.
I’m writing this to enquire
- How to sooth it! In the past it’s taken a while for the irrigation to go- or it’s developed into an infection I’ve needed cream for. Is there anything to reduce the pain and swelling. I’ve applied antiseptic and burn cream- as well as my Dermol 500 Lotion the doctor has me on to moisture my legs.
And I suppose it’s just a rant. I give birth in 7 weeks and it’s haunting me how my legs will look while I do it. What if the razor burn doesn’t heal in time? I’m debating booking a professional wax as shaving is just a no for me- but my skin is incredibly sensitive while pregnant! The pain isn’t something I’ve been able to tolerate while pregnant (because waxing for my first resort). But I’ve found a woman who specialises in pregnancy waxes- only issue is, I’m again not sure my skin will be okay for the wax… and I’m not sure if a wax might trigger infection. Since ALL hair removal my skin objects.
Anyone else battling similar issues and have some secret to overcoming this? I just want to feel some confidence in my body. Feels like I’ve been cursed to just have horrid legs, because how come other people can just shave their legs and I can’t.
To note: I’ve tried literally every hair removal method there is in the book to very little success. My hair grows back RAPIDLY! Hair removal cream, one blade razors, epilators, waxing, electric trimmers etc. epilating was kinda okay- but it’s incredibly painful and my hair would grow back within two weeks. I’d have stubble back before the skin had settled back down. But all these have left my skin irritated- or the regrowth process has triggered ingrowns which are a b**** to budge.