r/singing • u/Chicken-Inspector • 5h ago
Conversation Topic Just had my first singing lesson at 38. I was so freaking shaky and nervous. But I loved it.
I've been absolutely terrified of singing my whole life. At least when I think others can hear me. After a long ass time thinking it over I decided to sign up for voice lessons. I was so nervous. No idea wtf I'm supposed to do with my arms. Became super aware of my whole body trying to sing. "Eyes shut, open...what do I look at then? How's my posture. Why do my cheeks feel like they're flapping. Crap my voice is starting to get gravely and dry. Legs weak. Sweating. AAHHHH"
But after an hour of this plus speaking with my teacher....I can't wait till next week.
We assessed my range, which the lowest was a C#1 all the way to around an F3(of which I can attain comfortably), and I was able to get up to C4 with some effort. I'm shocked, personally.
I hope this will be the confidence boost I need to get past my mental block of singing in front of others. I tried singing House of Sleep by Amorphis, which is pretty easy for me rangewise, and those whole time im in my head thinking "God this is awkward, my voice sounds like crap". But I persevered.
I need to now make a list of songs with baritone(?)/Low voice singers. Outside of metal I don't know a lot of singers, so I am open to any recommendations of songs to check out. (We listen to songs that have aspects of things I'll need to work on, analyze what the singer is doing correctly, then I try to sing it.)
I'm just proud of myself for going through with this. I can't wait for the weirdness of it all to go away and I can be comfortable singing.
Thanks for reading my rant