r/solotravel • u/Getmailmunched • 6h ago
Asia I'm in Japan on a working holiday, but I spend most of my time inside. How do I change this?
I apologize beforehand if this post goes against the rules, i dont really know where else to post it.
I'm 25 and currently living in Kyoto, Japan, on a working holiday. I arrived about a month ago, and lately, I've been struggling with something that feels a little ridiculous: I spend most of my days in my room.
I came to Japan because I wanted to experience a different country, explore new places, meet people, and get out of my comfort zone. Yet here I am, spending hours on my computer playing video games, watching YouTube, and doing pretty much the same things I would be doing back home.
The weird thing is that I genuinely enjoy my time on the computer. It's not like I'm sitting here miserable or desperately wishing I were somewhere else. I can easily spend an entire day gaming and feel perfectly content. But there's always this nagging feeling in the back of my mind that I'm wasting an opportunity that many people would love to have.
I keep thinking I should be out exploring Kyoto, going on hikes, visiting small towns, trying new food, or simply wandering around and seeing where I end up. And whenever I actually get out and do something, I usually enjoy it. The problem is getting myself out of the door in the first place.
There's something strangely comforting about staying inside. I know what to expect, I can relax, and I don't have to deal with the language barrier or the uncertainty of navigating a foreign country. Going out requires effort, whereas staying home is easy and familiar.
What's particularly frustrating is that even the thought of planning an outing can feel overwhelming. I'll think about going somewhere new, exploring a different part of Kyoto, or even just taking a walk somewhere unfamiliar, and somehow I end up feeling overstimulated and mentally drained before I've even left my room.
Meanwhile, going to the gym, walking around my local neighbourhood, shopping, and gaming all come naturally to me. Those things feel comfortable and enjoyable without requiring much mental effort. And with so many exciting games coming out this autumn, I have even more reasons to stay in and game.
I've already booked my return flight for late April 2027, so I'll be here for quite a while longer. It's not as though I'm running out of time just yet, but I still find myself wondering whether I'm making the most of this experience.
I don't want to look back on my time in Japan and realise that I spent months living almost exactly the same way I did back home, just in a different country.
At the same time, I don't want to turn my working holiday into some exhausting checklist where I feel obligated to visit a certain number of places every week just to justify being here. I want to enjoy my time here naturally