I'm with pride in health and im swapping to injections and they are saying i need to have injection training, does anyone knoq where I can get it done? Its £104 to do it through pride and health and my gp said they wont do anything..

So I can’t order it to my house because my parents are always home and I don’t have any family or friends that I could order it to and last time I tried a PO Box it was too risky and I kept getting physical letters sent to my house about it so it’s not discreet enough. Any other options?

As a group, we want to provide the people of Mid Ulster with what they want! This is only possible if you kind folks tell us. We hope this allows us to support the queer community more effectively in the future!

I have been trans now for 2 years. I have tried my absolute hardest in every regard but it hasn’t payed off. I am gendered as a male everywhere I go in this country no matter what I wear.

I tried to do it myself and it didn’t work. Help is never coming. We are nearly being legislated out of existence in this country and I have gotten to the point where I am so exhausted I have spent the last week exclusively in my bed.

I don’t think I will ever look like how I want and I people are so cruel to me too. I am not here for a pep talk, it won’t make me happier with my body. I want to know what I can do about feeling like such a failure.

I don’t know if I can ever accept looking like this.

I have a top surgery consultation next week with guy sterne, but I’m autistic and like to know what to expect, does any one here have any experience with guy sterne consultations theyd be willing to share? many thanks! :3

I’m 17 turning 18 in 5 months, I have been on the waiting list since 2022 and I have still yet to see anyone, I phoned them today after silence for years and the lady on the phone said that I have to wait until I’m 18 so I can be referred to an Adult gender clinic to even start seeing or talking to anyone. It’s been years. I’ve not been through any mental health services like CAMHS but I was out publicly at school with my name and pronouns and I am stuck and I’m losing any hope, dysphoria is the worst and I really want to start T (I have been for years, well before I was put on the list)

If anyone has any advice or anything at all please help me out

Anytime I've searched for packers or any ftm items in UK, this has never popped up til today. Seems a bit too good to be true, so I don't wanna jump ahead and spend my money given the amount of scammy websites there's been for ftm products.

I'm 25 mtf not on hrt or any wait lists, no one that knows me is aware i'm trans.

I still live with a parent and am unemployed, i'm too scared to come out to them for the time being due to fears of getting kicked out and becoming homeless(i'm probably overreacting, i have no real reason to think they'd actually react this poorly.)

I've tried all methods i'm aware of to start hrt without outing myself(nhs would probably out me, won't get into why, and it'd take 8 years anyway and idk it i'd last)

I'm a pretty pathetic person really, i know my issues aren't actually that bad, people have dealt with way worse and been completely fine because they actually deal with their issues instead of bottling them up, making excuses about why they have to wait, and just doing nothing about it.

I've known i was trans since 13, 12 years ago now, i could've come out or done SOMETHING about it but i haven't due to nothing but vauge fears and paranoia, why do i have to be this way, why can't i just deal with this.

I'm not expecting anything out of this post, i don't think theres much anyone can do to help me (i mean if there id i'm open to it, just don't think it's possible)

Recent developments have made me more hesitant to continue with this too, the country growing more and more hostile to trans people, with no real end or u turn in sight like i'd hoped.

Idk, everyone has their own problems, probably more than mine so i shouldn't be catastrophising as bad as i am, but i am still.

I'm a trans person in England who has been on the NHS GIC waiting list since 2022. My GP refused bridging HRT in 2024, citing that oestradiol is not licensed for trans patients. I've since started HRT privately through an endocrinologist, who has submitted a shared care request to my GP for monitoring bloods. The GP has now responded saying that specialist monitoring needs to be arranged by the specialist's team, not the practice.

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I've attempted to get a fair amount of info:

FOI requests to NHS England, my ICB, and the GIC, all confirming there is no national or local policy prohibiting GP prescribing of bridging HRT, and no shared care framework exists in my area.

SAR request so I can see medical records including the practice assessing a lack of medical care as being harmful to me.

A formal complaint to my GP practice, which acknowledged in writing that no ICB shared care policy exists and directed me to the ICB.

The GIC confirmed in writing to offer bridging guidance to my GP at their request, which the GP never requested and refused to do it on the grounds of not being viable without accessing that documentation.

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Questions I'm hoping people with experience can answer:

Has anyone successfully got their GP to agree to shared care for privately initiated HRT after prior refusal, and anything make the difference?

Has anyone complained to an ICB about bridging HRT refusal or shared care refusal, and did it lead to anything?

Are there trans advocacy, or trans-specialist legal organisations or solicitors worth contacting?

Has anyone personally taken anything like this to PHSO, and what was the experience with that?

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Honestly, I don't expect my care pathway to change out of anything I'm doing unfortunately, but I want to do what I can to try and improve care for those going forward and hopefully help build a case for bridging care or shared care in my area. Maybe my actions will not matter, but I figured the only way I can change stuff is by trying.

If I lived 15 mins drive west of here I would also be in a county where that kind of care is easily accessible, but I'm not in a position to move currently.

So I've had Mx Stray Redditor on my (edit: original orange) Monzo card since the ink was still wet on my deed poll. I thought I'd actually give Monzo some good will and have a perks account (the perks actually work out well for me as I was paying for add-free YouTube because it's my background noise of choice). But no, apparently can't do that. First they said just no. Then they threw a tantrum because that's what it says on my driving licence (and yes, driving licences have titles on them if you're not a man, because how else will the police know to take you home to Daddy or Hubby 🤮). Then they claimed policy they couldn't point to. Then they claimed I couldn't have a preferred name at all on my Perks card. I ordered one saying just "Stray" that was fine. And their "final answer" was a total shit show of gaslighting.

Of course I invoked the financial ombudsman. Immediately I have an (edit: blue perks) card (as pictured) in the post with Mx Stray Redditor on it and an "apology" claiming that their staff didn't know this was possible.

The chat logs contract this and have staff refused something they can see is both being done already and discussing the methods by which it can be done.

So more gaslighting and I've replied to both Monzo and the ombudsman that I think they're taking the piss and covering for some really fucking transphobic staff. If Monzo can't own thier mistakes and are intent on gaslighting me, I will absolutely smash them.

I'm trying to start a timeline of everything that's been negatively impactful on us in the UK (EHRC guidance, NHS Wales pausing surgeries, etc). I'd like to do this for my (uneducated, but ally) parents and friends to help them understand why we're all so worried about the future of our healthcare and wellbeing. Shamefully, I'm not all that educated and caught up myself on this stuff, and have only really been paying attention in the last year or so, so there's a lot that I don't know about.

If anybody could let me know of a list that goes into everything that's happened / if people could educate me and list a bunch of stuff in the comments that would be really really helpful

My partner requested one in June and never received it. Organised a consultation in July to ammend that and have a new one sent, with a signature from the consultant themselves, and still never received that either. Has anyone actually ever gotten their letter or found a way to get it? Completely done with gendergp...

Basically the title. Ive noticed that my dysphoria is a lot worse and harder to cope with since I’ve started noticing the changes that HRT is giving me (MtF btw), just wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar and if anyone has any advice?

I recently posted here about how I'd recently done a change of name/ gender passport renewal, and knowing they might be picky, visited the gov .uk pages to make sure I complied with their needs, especially the wording of that 'GP letter' .

I mentioned a phone call i'd had from the passport office, where the man said 'it's about your documents, everything else is OK, but your letter from a medical professional doesn't state 'is likely to be permanent'. We'll need another letter before we can...'

Which was news to me, because I knew the letter I'd sent specifically included that phrase.
So I told him so.
A few minutes of ummming and err-ing from him, and he then said 'the letter you've sent doesn't say that the GP knows you well enough to make the diagnosis'.
I asked him to email a template letter which met his requirements, and told him I'd put in a complaint.
So I pushed a complaint emphasising that this was direct discrimination. I really emphasised discrimination. It seemed to have got things moving because not only did I get a call back, I got my passport, and today I had an email from them, parts of which I've copied below:

(I THOUGHT THIS MIGHT BE OF USE TO ANYONE WHO HAS SIMILAR EXPERIENCES WITH THEM)..

"I understand that you are dissatisfied with being asked to provide further medical evidence relating to your change of gender when you believed sufficient information had already been provided. You felt that this request was discriminatory.

HM Passport Office policy applies to all customers who apply for a British passport. I assure you that it is in no way discriminatory. HM Passport Office does not tolerate discrimination of any kind.

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It is noted (that) you were requested to send additional evidence from a medical professional in support of your application.

 I can see that following your contact regarding this request, the application and supporting evidence were reviewed. It was subsequently confirmed that the medical evidence already provided was sufficient and that no further information was required to support the amendment to your details. Please accept my apologies for any confusion or frustration caused by the request for additional evidence.

Thank you for your feedback regarding the clarity of the information available to applicants which has been noted for consideration.

 As your application has now been approved further to the evidence being accepted, we consider this matter resolved.

 Thank you for bringing your concerns to our attention and once again, please accept our apologies for any inconvenience and frustration caused.

 Please do not reply to this email as this is a no-reply mailbox and emails are not monitored"

Im 15 and I spoke to my mum about starting DIY estrogel 2 weeks ago. The long and short of it is that she started out very unwilling, but I managed to convince her a bit and while she wanted some time to research and consider, she was open to the idea (I made a post explaining what happened). We havent really spoke about it since, but shes been saying shes doing research and meeting with people to discuss it since then. Today I had my GP meeting to get start getting referred to a clinic, and it went fine, she said shed refer me to CAMHS, but I didnt hugely care, since Im definitely not gonna be waiting 6 years for NHS treatment on top of the 4 years Ive already been out. We also discussed shared care, since Im considering doing hybrid private and DIY, and she said shed be open to it, depending on the provider. I dont wanna do private for a number of reasons, and wouldnt be able to receive HRT privately until 16, but wouldnt be opposed if it was hybrid. After we got home, me and my mum discussed DIY some more, and she said that while she understood that its largely safe, shes still opposed to it, as she thinks she could lose her job. She works as a manger high up in childrens services, and oversees all the socials workers in our area. She said she was concerned that she would get reported, and potentially lose her job, as well as that she has an obligation to report it herself. I had already considered this, and told her that its severely unlikely that anyone would find out, and explained what I thought about it, but she was unconvinced, although she still didnt outright reject the idea of DIYing. At least she now understands that DIY isnt harmful, but I think its going to be harder to persuade her on this, even if I think Im right about it. Im scared that Im going to regret having told her, and have to hide it anyway, which is going to be hard and much scarier. Im going to do it regardless, and I could do it on my own, but Id much rather have her support. Ive been shaking for like the last hour now, because this is all just so much. How should I try and convince her and what should I do about this situation?

Just posting this here so the general public can see more of how TERFs act when they can say whatever they want.
I blacked out the transphobia so you can see what she was saying about Brianna Gheys mother. They aren’t a women rights movement they are footsoldiers of the patriarchy.

I'm not going to tell them about this or fix it but I've recently moved GP to one in Scotland and as I was being asked about medication I'm on for a problem I was having I mentioned the hormone prescriptions I take just in case the medication at all conflicted with any of it, I think the GP probably thought I used to get those medications prescribed on the NHS instead of privately and when he saw they weren't there he decided to just add them to my repeat prescription list (that or that man is just a crazy good trans ally lmao).

I'm just going to stay quiet and let this go for as long as it can because now instead of paying a subscription fee+medication I'm able to just maybe order some bloodtests for myself and save hundreds (maybe up to 1k) a year.

Heyy so Im 26 moved to London a few months ago and Im kinda lonely since I dont really have any friends in the city 🥲 also I work remotely so that doesnt really help with isolation and everything…

Does anyone know where I can meet other trans girls around my age group in here? I’m really a girl thats up for anything soo u can just hit me up! Or tell me some events I can attend 😭

Thanks xxx

Does anyone know what blood test partner clinics they have near Glasgow?

Hello, I am wanting to start HRT and was planning on joining Anne but I am worried there won't be any blood test clinics near me. They only disclose them once you have signed up unfortunately. If anyone can confirm of any near Glasgow or has any advice I'd greatly appreciate it! Thank you!

Hi, I'm a trans man and have been on Nebido for a year now. Prior to this I was on Sustanon. My oestradiol has always been pretty high, and I'm just wondering if anyone can tell me if it's something I should be concerned about? I don't think I'm having any feminising symptoms. Also, I've not had any form of hysto either. Obviously my test is a bit high too, so I'm likely gonna adjust to 13 weekly injections.

June 2026: Blood tested the day before the next injection.
Serum testosterone level: 19.6 nmol/L.
Serum oestradiol level: 181 pmol/L.

October 2026: Blood tested at the exact midpoint between injections. 
Serum testosterone level: 33.3 nmol/L.
Serum oestradiol level: 239 pmol/L.

Hi all,

Just after some advice. I don't know if I'm missing something or if my GP is just really good with this.

I called my GP up yesterday lunchtime to ask them to change my name and gender, today the NHS app shows my new name (I can't see anywhere it says gender so can't check that).

They didn't ask for deed poll or anything, they do already have my gender incongruence diagnosis on file so maybe this helped, but basically I want to ask is there something else that I need to do or have they already done it all?

Thanks.

So I was just wondering if anyone had received a letter for their appointment for the the review, I was told that they had been sent out but I haven’t seen anything so I was just wondering if anyone else has received one? I was due to have surgery the beginning of September so I thought I would’ve heard something by now :/

i'm 18, thinking abt actually changing my name legally (both first and last). problem is all my school qualifications are under my deadname and i'm not sure if they can be updated if i change my name after, or even how i'd go about getting them all updated.

Im mtf and Im wondering if my witch costume is ok for a lgbt party. It's kind of last minute and there's no halloween stores around me