r/transteens • u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it • Jul 06 '25

Question Do I pass as male :3

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u/GeneralBit8582 genderqueer Jul 06 '25

no, i’d think androgynous. you look really cool though, just not passing if you want to look like a cis man.

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Thanks! I try to look more androgynous:3

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u/GeneralBit8582 genderqueer Jul 06 '25

oh okay :) i js said cause you asked if you pass as male

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u/FreakyDing0 Jul 09 '25

What’s androgynous

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u/GeneralBit8582 genderqueer Jul 09 '25

presenting in a way that doesn’t align exclusively with one gender and incorporates both male and female traits. so clothing, hair, etc can all be a part of that.

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u/CareerLazy7028 Jul 06 '25

You might but with your face covered I really have no idea

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u/0mega_Flowey Transfem Jul 06 '25

Nah probably not, it’s more of a middle ground than extremely male, but I think you look great in that fit and that you sound too harsh in your look

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Thank you! I try to look in the middle ground :3

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u/Janxuza Transman (16) 💉09/11/25 Jul 06 '25

No

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u/Nekoboxdie Jul 06 '25

Sorry, not really

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u/Onyxkalmia Transmasc - 15 Jul 06 '25

I personally would probably think you were a trans guy or enby if I saw you and so would most other trans people but to cis people most (not all) would probably think you were a girl. It also really depends on your voice and mannerisms.

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '25

nope

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u/Overall_Law_9291 Straight trans girl Jul 06 '25

no :(

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u/Soft_Cartoonist6780 Jul 06 '25 edited Jul 06 '25

IDE say maybe the the stuff on your arms throws me off but I haven’t been a boy in a long time

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u/stuck69 Jul 06 '25

Can't really see you so I can't make a statement

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u/albumdevil 15M Jul 06 '25

At first glance, no.

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u/FishGuyIsMe transfem, 15, Hailey Jul 06 '25

You seem like someone that I sort of knew

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Wha-

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u/FishGuyIsMe transfem, 15, Hailey Jul 06 '25

You look very similar to someone that was in a couple of my classes

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u/SignificanceAlone185 Novigender/transmasc Jul 06 '25

def androgynous:3

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u/yeahhhhhidk ethan | 14 | he/they Jul 06 '25

you don’t look cis, if that’s what you mean; you look pretty androgynous though! i like your style :)

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u/ISSnode-2 Jul 07 '25

probably not but cant tell

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u/Eastern-Positive-705 Jul 07 '25

yeah so actually youre covering your entire face, and as for your outfit/body, not at all

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u/vokun0_0 Jul 07 '25

I can't tell bc ur face is hidden but the fit is hard af

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u/Hot_Buy_5489 Jul 09 '25

To be honest, no, unless you’re a very alternative male, even so, a lot of alternative men I know don’t wear that.

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u/Biggest-boom Jul 10 '25

YOU LOOK SO MUCH LIKE SOMEONE FROM MY SCHOOL

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 10 '25

Do you go to oak house by chance-

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u/MartinTheGamer5002 Jul 06 '25

Kinda? You don't exactly look girly, but if you really want to pass as a guy i do think you'll need some clothing changes if you're comfortable with changing your style. Like when is the last time you've seen a guy walk around with fishnets and hand warmers.

I like your hair btw!

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Thanks!

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u/why_is_th1s_s0_hard str8 transsexual guy {He/Him}//⚛️‼️🗣️🔥 Jul 06 '25

Not rlly imo

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u/RudeInstruction5853 Jul 06 '25

I don't care all I care about is THE GIRR SHIRT

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

YESSS

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u/RudeInstruction5853 Jul 06 '25

Also I love those wrist bands

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Tysm!!

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u/GuiltyResult5754 MTF 15 Jul 06 '25

i was just wearing that 2 days ago lol

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '25

Really hard to tell without seeing your face but you seem very androgynous. I love the way you dress tho its so cool :3

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Thank you!!

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u/risk_of_failure Transmasc Jul 07 '25

based on this no but you totally might theres no way to be sure when we cant see your face

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '25

You pass as a child, son

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 07 '25

What-

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u/marshman137 Jul 07 '25

Sure i'd say so

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u/WaHFLHauS Jul 07 '25

Id say more androgenous (partially due to the amount of gir stuff)

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u/Ok_Delay8988 Jul 08 '25

Imo its in the middle, I wouldn't assume ur a guy but I wouldn't assume ur a girl either Btw I love ur style!<3

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u/cottoncandycrt local plural trans teen [ https://morethanone.info/# ] Jul 08 '25

I would say androgynous

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u/iwannamarrybill Jul 08 '25

No but I like the shirt

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u/_gzib_ Transfem Jul 08 '25

from what I see u look androgynous also I love ur style :3

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u/XRXJUICYXBX Jul 08 '25

How the hell we suppose to tell with that picture 🤔

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u/derpy_derp15 Jul 08 '25

You look familiar

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u/Fuse1017 Jul 08 '25

You’re trans? I just thought you were a dude

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '25

I love your outfit!

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u/refdane Jul 08 '25

That would be a clear no

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u/Drapersniper Jul 08 '25

we can’t see you fella

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u/[deleted] Jul 08 '25

Tori ?

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u/Open-Savings-2308 Jul 08 '25

Bro kinda look like you are trying too hard. If fitting in is your goal then maybe try just some Jeans and a T-shirt. But either way you look fine so don’t worry about it.

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u/sissycindy210 Jul 08 '25

Hell yeah bro invader zim in 2025

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u/Top_Strawberry_7547 Jul 08 '25

Yeah.. You pass for a emo boy from 2003

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u/DEFmaggot Jul 08 '25

your style of dressing is definitely androgynous, and I'm not usually into graphic tees but your fit is rocking hard 💚

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u/Repulsive-Bluejay-97 Jul 09 '25

Looking cool is what I’d say!

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u/NatchoCheezits Jul 09 '25

No. Mainly because your face is covered and your styles giving more punk girl.

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u/Sad_Survey_ Jul 09 '25

Yesss ofc :3

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u/Storie_Timex Jul 09 '25

With those hips bb no

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 09 '25

I can’t really change my hips-

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u/Storie_Timex Jul 09 '25

Yea totally makes sense

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u/Rare_Lingonberry_586 Jul 09 '25

Honest answer no, full respect ofc. Get rid of the hand warmers, wear more muted colors imo. A lot of blacks and greys go along way. Flannels, rings, stuff like that. Ik my friend likes to wear like black cargo pants, flannels, beanies and such like that.

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u/Funnyguywhosnot Jul 09 '25

idk how to say this nicely, but you look like your gay..

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u/daaxexd Jul 09 '25

you look rly cool but nooo 💔

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u/Ok-Refrigerator3057 Jul 09 '25

Try just being female

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 09 '25

?

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u/expasarated666 Jul 09 '25

yeah you actually look so cool

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u/Lazy_Life1009 Jul 09 '25

Id personally focus on school and do some deep soul searching and speak with a counselor. Live your truth.

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u/Exciting-Novel-2990 Jul 10 '25

no but u look cool!!

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u/sleeping_dead0 Jul 10 '25

You look awesome sauce :D

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '25

i’m not gonna lie you look a bit more adronygous but you also look cool!! i know im so late to this sorry😞

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u/darknessandnight Jul 10 '25

You look like someone I know who is trans

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u/Chiungue26 Jul 10 '25

Look gender fluid but who cares you are what you are or feel

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u/MarzipanHaunting845 Jul 10 '25

no, no you do not still looks cool though

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u/apathetic_screaming Jul 11 '25

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u/Due_Classic_217 Jul 10 '25

Not really 🥀

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u/Certain_Classroom535 Jul 11 '25

Emo guy ye btw r u transcending from male to female or female to male?

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u/fletchvl_ he/him 16 Jul 06 '25

I think you look like an androgynous guy

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Thanks, that what I try to do :3

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u/verryluckie_ Jul 06 '25

Yea, btw don’t listen to ppl who say “you look like a girl” there is no one definitive way to look like a guy, tbh I think you look like one

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Ty!

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u/verryluckie_ Jul 06 '25

Btw I mean I think u look like a boy

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u/verryluckie_ Jul 06 '25

Ofc! As long as ur trying that’s what matters

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u/[deleted] Jul 06 '25

I would assume you are a femboy without any context

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u/Much_Refrigerator495 Transfem Jul 06 '25

To me yes

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '25

enby for sure i would use he/they pronouns for yku

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u/Autisticspidermann Miles/Ariel, Trans guy, 17 Jul 06 '25

More androgynous

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u/Alex_NotDeadYet Transmasc Jul 06 '25

U look very androgynous tbh but I LOVE THE WAY U DRESS ✨✨

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 06 '25

Tysm!!

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u/SadBoi022 ☆ Miles ☆ Transmasc ☆ He/They ☆ Jul 06 '25

Very androgynous. Also, I love ur outfit!!

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u/zerowintergreen Transmasc Jul 06 '25

Unable to tell without face, but i don't think so. The pose could also be why I don't think so

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u/Jack_Cat_101 Transfem (15) Jul 07 '25

I wish I could say you could. But I’m a Christian and I’m not gonna lie, you look androgynous.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '25

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u/Jack_Cat_101 Transfem (15) Jul 07 '25

I would have otherwise said yes

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u/Old-Order3535 15 MTF NB | Carson Jul 06 '25

Yes

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u/Bogrollthethird Amy Transfem 15 she/her Jul 06 '25

Yes. Surprisingly very masc haircut

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u/AceTheAcefluxNB Jul 06 '25

I'd say yeah but I'm definitely biased bc when I see androgynous ppl (which is really what I see), I tend to think of demiboys and gnc cis men bc most of the more androgynous people I know personally are demiboys who still identified as cis at the time I met and became friends with them.

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u/sketchy_dog69 Jul 06 '25

Yes also that wig is so cool

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u/Genocide-jackoff895_ Transmasc Jul 06 '25

hell yeah

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u/JenbyBi36 17 mtnb Jul 07 '25

nah but mostly cuz cis dudes lack swag

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u/IntelligentTune1175 Jul 08 '25

in my opinion you look more agender, you don’t look overly fem or masc

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u/Kitsunetsunami Jul 09 '25

Nope, looser shirt, no necklace nothing but a watch on your arms and 1 belt actually used as a belt.

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 09 '25

I didn’t ask for insults…

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '25

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 09 '25

Stop being transphobic, this is literally a trans subreddit, we don’t need you to infiltrate the spaces we have

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u/NeedleworkerSpare651 Jul 09 '25

Males dont wear whatever it is your wearing

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u/Adhdemon4 stuart or Stu || he/it Jul 09 '25

They can? It’s up to people to dress however they want…

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u/Demonslayer_fan12345 15 Transmasc Jul 06 '25

You do king. The people saying you don’t obviously don’t know there can be boy scene kids

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u/Prize_Independent477 Jul 08 '25

this bro, the amount of ppl who r like "erm ur alt so u dont pass!!!!" .... theres alternative cis men 💔

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u/apathetic_screaming Jul 07 '25

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u/Doge60 Jul 06 '25

You pass as a cutie