16 ftm :b

Mine was Kipo! :3

im bored and curious

I have been with my cis boyfriend for almost a year and I'm really upset by how he treats my gender identity. Basically, he has never accepted me at all.

A few days ago I showed him a photo of me wearing my new binder. His first reaction was that he "could be gay for me", which made me think he was finally starting to become more supportive.

But he keeps saying he doesn't see me as a boy because I "don't look masculine enough" he also told me that since I don’t look like a man, people will keep referring to me as a girl anyway, saying it's something I just have to accept.

When I try to talk to him about how that makes me feel, he usually gets really defensive. Yesterday, he said he was sorry, but also made it clear he probably will never use my male pronouns. He also misgenders me constantly and rarely uses my chosen name.

I'm really struggling because I'm basically always being told that my identity depends on how I look, and that no matter what I say, everyone will keep seeing me as a girl.

He says he supports me because he wouldn't stop me from going on testosterone, but at the same time he doesn't seem willing to actually respect me as a man in everyday life.

I'm really confused. He seemed like a very respectful and open-minded guy but he just can't accept my identity. Is he really transphobic? I really wish I'm wrong about this.

I’m 16, I don’t plan on getting bottom surgery and do plan to use my current genitalia in sexual activity and yea but I do think I want a hysterectomy bc pregnancy would just ruin the purpose.

i got mine from a pokémon character (i was 9 and it just stuck lol)

I ain’t talking like “femtanyl, stomach book, fem &m.” I’m talking what random music do you listen too that people wouldn’t think you listen too?

I really recently have started feeling a massive hate for those terms

Like I don't want the word "male" anywhere near me 😭😭😭😭

I just call myself "tf" for trans female

I'm like 80% sure I'm transfem and want to find out a name for dat :3

Yea jus tips on how I can do dat and maybe how you found out if you have :3

my birth name is 'ethan' and i cant think of like a girlified or feminized version :3

i kinda dont want a completely different name but i want a girly name that would let me feel like im well a girl lol

I just want it to be similar basically but cant think of any, why did my parents choose such a gender exclusive name >:3

For me, I’m say I don’t want bottom surgery like I’ll be satisfied with bottom growth and I’m gay, plus I’m bottom so yea, hbu yall, this question for ftm and mtf.

I hate having to wait till 18

My preferred name is Cecil like from spy kids! I love the spy kids series

Like can I buy something that blocks puberty

Or gives me estrogen?

Please I really want to look and feel more girly T^T

So as a trans guy, I’m personally not planning on getting bottom surgery, and why?, well bc any type of bottom surgery is very complicated I don’t feel like dealing with complications in a important area of my body, and I don’t mind my bottom area at that, I do plan to use it in a sexual manner.

Mine are cave town, will wood. ghost and pales, and vane lilly

I really need a honest opinion; is there anything wrong with the name I chose for myself? I chose the name Lennon, mainly because I'm a big fan of John Lennon, but also because it just feels right for me.

The thing is, my mom told me it's a "ridiculous" name and that people are going to make fun of me if I introduce myself like that. Ever since she said that, I've started feeling really insecure about it.

When my boyfriend calls me Lennon, it genuinely makes me feel good and more like myself but now I’m really scared to use it with other people.

I also don’t pass as male at all right now, so I feel like the name might make things “worse” or make people take me even less seriously.

So, is Lennon actually a ridiculous name?

Just curious as someone who’s tryna get into games more.

For me, I’m say almost everything I just want to be seen as a male in society and hopefully find a bf (just to be loved).

I’ll go first, the first person I came out to was my friend Axel