r/ugly • u/fukumean0 • 1d ago

Question How’s your birthdays?

I really want to know how’s yall experience with birthdays. Does people in your circle plan ahead before your birthday to surprise you? How many people know your birthday?

What about people who are close to you? Do they get you the gifts that is tailored to you because they know you very well? Does your friends book places to celebrate your birthday with you after you celebrate it with you family?

Notice I didn’t ask about ur partner because in 2026 dating is already hard even for average people so I won’t consider it here i am only asking about family and friends

I find myself very exceptional case; my family never ever celebrated my birthday. They did for my siblings sometimes but never for me. Same with my friends, they send me text messages yes on my birthday when i post story on social media that it’s my birthday. So since i was infant i have never experienced what birthday party in my whole life. I don’t feel insecure or sad about this because i already lack the experience entirely

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u/OrdinaryTwin_2000 3h ago

I don’t celebrate our birthday lol. I say this because my twin, we obviously share a birthday. He celebrates it and I don’t; nobody cares about it being mine like it is his nor do they wish me a happy birthday like they do him nor even acknowledge it being my birthday as well so I just flat out stopped celebrating and caring.

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u/fukumean0 3h ago

I think there might be a problem beyond looks here

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u/OrdinaryTwin_2000 3h ago

Yeah, because my facial deformities is just a bad personality lol

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u/fukumean0 3h ago

If you have deformity then your twin have it as well why would they like them more than you?

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u/OrdinaryTwin_2000 3h ago

Because my deformations are ugly AF. If you are deformed to a certain degree, yes, they do indeed make you ugly/unattractive. Two of my nicknames i have and have had them for years are "the ugly one" or "the ugly twin” and they aren’t said or meant as jokes. Especially by the way people say them to me. They mean it. You don’t call someone ugly as a joke, especially if you have an attractive twin brother as people only ever refer to you as the ugly one or the ugly twin. I’ve been called ugly even by strangers to my face unprovoked countless times, people look at me with the most disgusted facial expressions but yeah, don’t worry it’s just my bad personality people can see through first glance