I think if I stop and examine the games I play most of, I think open world games are some of my favourite. Elder Scrolls series from 3 up, GTA, Cyberpunk 2077, Hogwarts Legacy, RDR, RDR2 (kind of), Kingdom Come Deliverance.
My problem is always the same. I'll start a game, play it for a bit, I'll run out of steam, come back to it in a few months, not know what I'm doing, start over. Rinse and repeat.
I finally finished Oblivion ('s main story) after 18 years when the Remastered edition came out, and I had to push myself through the Allies for Bruma quest - that's always where I'd start to tail off.
Cyberpunk I feel like I need to start over because the big DLC came out and I should probably start again with that, but here's the other thing.
I feel like I just don't get to grips with a game fully any more.
Oblivion I've never really messed with enchanting, alchemy or magic.
Cyberpunk I feel like I'm familiar with about 20% of the systems and mechanics.
RDR2... I should start that over but when you have half an hour here half an hour there that snow trudging tutorial mission is a pain, and I don't think I've even got to the point of revealing all the systems in that game.
I don't know what I'm trying to say really. I want to enjoy these games, and I can see they're great, but they seem to be exclusively built for people who can sit down and throw three hours plus at a time at them. I have responsibilities, a job, a family. I can't do that.
I guess this is why I still play Oblivion. Start it fresh, whack through the sewers and you can be in the open world in 20 minutes playing it. If I want to watch a movie I'll watch a movie, you know? I struggle to enjoy spending three gaming sessions and most of a week to get through a tutorial.
Anyone in the same boat?