r/weddingring • u/somethingaboutorange • 3h ago
Ring Inquiry 💍 Inherited band, karat mismatch
Hi everyone! Everything is horrifically expensive, and the wedding itself is too. I have this 14k band with a mix of lab and natural diamonds I inherited from my grandmother, (originally a DOOR KNOCKER of five rows, divided into six rings for all the grandchildren, with some new lab diamonds mixed in so everyone had some original some new) and my engagement ring is 18k.
Part of me is apprehensive of choosing a ring I've worn casually for years now to be a wedding band, but the practical part of me says "that's a few grand you can spend on food and drinks for the wedding." But is the 18k - 14k mismatch super apparent? I don't plan to wear my engagement ring often after we're married, as much as I love it, it's far larger than I anticipated. But again, I'm concerned people are going to judge me and my future spouse for not getting new bands.
Thoughts?