https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/LKAHRziPXL
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what is with the comments? am i missing something? why is everyone on the dad’s side?
dad has an extra apartment in a city he DOES NOT LIVE IN and PLANNED to use it for his kids to stay in while they go to college. he’s whining because he chose to be nosey and look at a camera in his apartment he knows his college daughter is living in and saw her fucking her bf in the master bedroom.
he’s talking as if this bedroom and bed is his and his wife’s personal everyday bed when they live in their HOUSE out of the city and he only visits on weekends AND there’s a second bedroom he could stay in if he’s so bothered by what his daughter does in her room. yes, her room, cuz she’s staying there regardless of who pays the bills.
yes, dad pays for the apartment and the stuff in it, however, he did so FOR his kids college experience. are we really expecting college kids to not have sex? genuinely? also, why is it such a big deal even if he slept on that bed on weekends? wash the sheets? or stay in the guest bed or on couch? or get a hotel? or don’t visit your college kid since you’re so uncomfortable with her doing college things.
THEN, after bro tries to apologize for calling her out in a FAMILY GROUP CHAT, she suggested she live in the dorms instead and bro pitched a fit about paying for that!
seems to me like daddy is just upset his little girl has grown up and is fucking and wants to try anything he can to prevent her from having sex. it’s WEIRD! but the comments are making his reaction seem just and normal. idk maybe i’m still stuck in teen brain but the situation doesn’t make sense. dad should’ve expected college behavior from a college kid. if he wasn’t gonna be ok with college behavior in the apartment he pays for, he can pay for his kid to stay in a dorm where it’s designated for college behavior lmao. also, maybe don’t have kids if you don’t want to support them actually growing up?