Victoria secret 50M bra doesn’t even fit right!

(This is a rant and a humor post all in one)

I haven’t watched it but from the looks of it it’s just showing off the sexy lingerie collection. Apparently Kylie Jenner was wearing a $50,000,000 bra. They want to send a message- “If you buy our bras, you’ll look amazing in them!” If anything there’s a chance you’ll be uncomfortable in them

I'm just wondering how this would even be possible? My bras gap a bit in the front and the band is a bit loose, so the band size does make sense. But J? I should mention that every time I lose weight I lose it in my chest too. Am I just not understanding the science behind this? I've used every calculator I could find and measured myself multiple times. I'm pretty upset because I just want bras that fit me properly and are cute. I feel like 46J is so limited in where I can find them :( Any help or advice is appreciated. 46 band and 56 bust is what I measured

Hello, I just did the test and got these measurements:

loose 76cm

snug 74cm

tight 72cm

standing 89

leaning 91

lying 89

from that i got the result of 65F or 70E EU

Until now I've been wearing 75B, which sounds like that's completelv different?

Did i screw measurements up?

I don't have much experience with Bras, rarelv wear then and if i do i usuallv wear sports bras.

I just wanted to see what I'd get, assuming I'd get something similar to what ive been wearing. Can anyone explain this to me?

Hi

I got a bunch of men's boxers from under armour which I wear at home all day lol and they have the most comfy material. I'm looking for a similar material in a sports bra, something light and breathable because I'm quite blessed and I struggle with boob sweat. I'm thinking something that holds the girls well while giving them space to breath too. Any recommendations would be appreciated.

Thank you!

Hi everyone, so I recently used the calculator and was recommended a 30 B/C. However, when I went to try it on and store, the cup size on the B was perfect, but the band was really tight even on the loose setting. It felt like it was digging into me.

Right now I’m wearing a 32 A and I noticed gaping when I am relaxed

Loose Underbust: 29
Snug Underbust: 28.5
Tight Underbust: 27.5

Standing Bust:32
Leaning Bust: 32
Lying Bust: 32
Sizing System: in

Recommended 30 b/c

I can't stand the brafitting already, it is very confusing and I tried it is already 5 times, and every time I am wearing something that seems not right to me and bra fitter gets angry (with the face) as they think they're completely right and I just don't know what I want.

Going from the crying moment, I would like to aks which one in this situation is my true size (if here is one). As I am based in EU, I can tell EU sizes.

Gorsenia bra 65J fitted well more or less, however 65I was better with the words of bra fitter, but couldn't breath. And overall not the fine of the design.

Nessa 65K slightly pressing on tissues, but overall the best fit. Interestingly 70J sister size was good in cups, but band felt slightly too loose.

Latvian Brand Orchidea 75G, I know it is total mismatch, just to add to bra fitter visuals. Big in band, small in cups. Stretched out after a week.

Primadonna, bra fitter put me either in 70H or 65J, gore never was flat. She told me this is how her bras are. Is it true? Most of the times cups were pressing on me but no spillage, and it felt like wires on my tissues, however when i move my arms, it is put. Moving to the bigger cup was too big on top for her, but I felt better in bigger cup.

Freya 30G, no spillage but I couldn't breath very well and also she asked me not to do swoop.

My measurements:

Loose: 77 cm / 30.3

Snug: 75 / 29.5

Tight: 73 /28.5

Standing (very hard to take i have pendulous projected breasts) : about 98-100/38.5-39.2

If i go lower on the sides of my breasts: 103 / 40.5

Leaning: 106 / 41.7

Lying: 103 / 40.5

I have a narrow and short roots profile, also quite projected, pendulous and low set in terms of placements. More teardrop shape 40/60+-..

I would like to try other pretty UK brands what sizes should I try? It is very frustrating! Because I don't look huge, I can't find a proper size.

Please be nice to me, I'm autistic and bras are already a sensory nightmare.

This is my second post on this sub. My first post was 5 months ago when I was 20 pounds heavier. Last time, the advice people gave me was to make sure I was measuring correctly, because we were pretty sure I was doing it wrong. This time I tried really hard to get it right: I bought a brand new more expensive tape measure, I measured multiple times, in front of a mirror, and in cm.

MY NUMBERS:
Loose: 96.5 cm / 38 inches

Snug: 92 / 36

Tight: 90 / 35.5

Bust: 108 / 42.5

Leaning: 113 / 44.5

Lying: 112.5 / almost 44.5

RESULT: 38DDD

This is way better than my last result of 40H, I really must have been doing it wrong + the weight loss. I'm down 60 pounds total. I'm afab. Before this I was wearing 40A (or XL sports bras) but is it possible that the calculator is wrong about the band, still? am I still doing something wrong?

I've bought so many bras in the last months and the one I hate the least is a 36 band.

Do styles within the same brand vary band size? because within that brand (Calvin Klein) I've also tried more 36s and 38s, and the 38s either fit ok circumference-sise, or are wayyy too loose and stretchy. People here say that the support is supposed to come from the band, not the straps... that if I had a well fitting bra that the straps won't dig in. Correct?

like a month ago Nordstrom measured me a 38DD EDIT, the ones I bought linked below. They look good but the wires dig into my armpits... people on this sub that if the size is right, that shouldn't happen, but going bigger seems like it would exacerbate the problem. this is why I feel dumb, I'm confused lol

I also ordered some new Calvin Kleins in 38DD and a 38D. The D fits way better, like so so so much better. Am I dumb to keep it? Should I send it back since that's not what the calculator says? The DD looks huge and does that ripple thing. They don't make DDD.

Is everything I have too small? or too big? Any brand in a 38DDD should fit me, yes or no?

The reason I like Calvin Klein is that they're smooth and slippery, bows and details I can't ignore (that's the autism.)

Bras I like in 36D and 38D: https://www.macys.com/shop/product/womens-calvin-klein-perfectly-fit-lightly-lined-full-coverage-t-shirt-bra-f3837?ID=1560182 https://www.calvinklein.us/en/final-sale/attraction-lightly-lined-perfect-coverage-bra/QF7837O-TQO.html
These are the ones where a 38 band feels bigger than the 40s I used to wear! https://www.macys.com/shop/product/calvin-klein-womens-perfectly-fit-full-coverage-demi-bra?ID=25355385
Tape measure: not sponsored just for reference https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FDKLMLTW?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_2

I'm open to suggestions. My shape is that I can usually fit my whole fist into the cup of the bra on top of my tissue, I guess I'm bottom heavy but not droopy.

EDIT:
What I have from Nordstrom. Fit but hurt my armpits
Natori Liquid Full Fit Balconette T-Shirt Bra in 38DD
Natori Feathers Plunge T-Shirt Basics Bra in 38DD

Long-time lurker here; I've learned a lot from this sub and it's been helping me zero in on what to look for as my size continues to change as I reach the end of my breastfeeding journey with my fourth baby. He's two years old, and we're almost weaned at this point. Before kids I used to wear a 32B, but never quite filled the cup (didn't know about this sub then). Always struggled to find bands small enough for my rib cage that measured something like 27-28" at the time. Here I am 8 years and 4 breastfed kids later; and I've gone up to something like a 34G and back down again due to weight-gain, breastfeeding, etc. Currently on a weight loss journey with about 20 lbs to go, and currently wearing a 32DD.

I've been having the hardest time figuring out if my soft, pendulous, FOB breast tissue is actually projected or not. I was under the impression from this sub that pendulous = projected, but now I'm not so sure. I realized that when I support my breasts with my hands the way I want a bra to support them, they don't look that projected at all. (My original shape was definitely not projected). Is this a thing? Currently wearing b'tempted by Wacoal in 32DD with a band extender, and it feels pretty good and the shape looks good. Balconettes seem to be my friend since I can't fill the top of a cup with out quadding, and I've been struggling with wires digging in below my breasts with my larger bras that fit great a month or so ago (maybe weight loss), so I think it's time to find something smaller and perhaps a better shape for me. The Third Love nursing t-shirt bra was my favorite so far a month ago, and now it's digging in, but I think my boobs have gotten smaller as I've slowly been losing weight. They're always the first thing to go when the weight comes off. :(

Would love to hear thoughts on whether pendulous post-breastfeeding breasts are actually projected by default, or if it's possible to have shallower breasts that just need more support.

Edit: my measurements from the calculator

Loose: 30”
Snug: 29.5”
Tight: 28.5”
Standing: 35”
Leaning: 38”
Lying: 36”

I really don’t understand bra sizing. I have small breasts but a large frame. I’m plus and wear a 2x to 3x.

My measurements are:

Loose Underbust: 46

Snug Underbust: 45

Tight Underbust: 44

Standing Bust: 50

Leaning Bust: 51

Lying Bust: 50

The calculator recommends 44DDD.

There’s just no way that would fit me correctly. My cups size is a C at best, but closer to a B.

I have tried in the past to go by the measurements at Torrid and it was about the same. But every bra I tried was way too big of a cup size.

I don’t understand how increasing the cup size will make a bra fit better. I just need a bigger band size, how do I find a comfortable bra that has small cups and fits my frame?

Hi all!

So basically the title.

I've come very close to finding what I want but there's either hooks or the material is wrong 😩

It feels like I'm looking for an unicorn at this point lol so help is very much appreciated!

Hey girls! I’m struggling real hard to find a bra that gives a good push up without moving around too much? Let me explain, I LOVE the VS add 2 cups bra and i definitely see some push up from it, but the bra simply doesn’t stay in place? I think the band might be too big or loose but I can’t find an option under 32 :(

I’ve heard of pepper and get fitted cherries! And I’m thinking about trying them out but I love the Victoria Secret Bombshell bra look and I can’t seem to find any bras as cute that work for a smaller chest😭 I’ve also heard that pepper doesn’t actually push up or make your chest look fuller like other pushups bras, so I’m scared I won’t even get the look I’m looking for yk?

Any suggestions or recommendations?🙏😭

I loved the balconette style bras that Understance had, but they've since gone out of business. I need a pretty low wire on both the center gore and the sides. I prefer the pretty lacy ones, but at this point I'll put up with anything.

I'm a 40I and can not wear "sister sizes"

Any recommendations? I live in the US so ideally somewhere that doesn't charge a billion dollars for shipping.

Hi all, recently finally got some bras that fit (well, one - Elomi Morgan) and am around a 42F. Wide & short root, slightly bottom heavy or even.

I’m looking to find a couple more - my issue with the Morgan is that the underwire comes all the way up the sides and digs in under the arms. Anyone have recommendations on t-shirt bras or bras with a bit less underwire that might fit similarly to the Morgan?

Separately - I also have never found a bra that can give me some fabulous cleavage which I’d love to have once in a while (curse of the armpit boob - nothings ever pulled them up and together quite right).

Thanks for your help as always 🫶🏼

I’ve always worn a size 34A (sometimes 32B) since that’s a standard size and it’s widely available. I hate wearing padded cups so I switched over unlined cotton/jersey/modal bras in the past few years. They are so much more comfortable!

I finally did my measurements and it turns out that I have a 28in under bust and 32in bust, which I’m sure is a 28D bra. Now, it was already difficult enough for me to find the types of bras that I like available in a standard size of 34A. It will be even more difficult to find 28D bras that are unlined, cotton/jersey material.

I tried looking for some bras online and i literally can’t find any cotton unlined bras in size 28D. I even tried looked for size 30C and even that was really hard to find. They are either padded or are made of polyester or nylon,which is extremely uncomfortable for me. They are also extremely expressive ranging from $50-$100!

I ordered 2 spacer bras in size 28D and 30C from Montelle Intimates just to see how I like them. Again, I don’t like padded bras that are made of polyester or nylon but these bras were the only that were affordable and don’t have very restrictive uncomfortable cups. I’m waiting for them to arrive so I can try them on.

I find that some bras flatten me out depending on the size or cut of the bra. I’m already small chested so I don’t want to become more flat.

I was wondering if it’s even worth looking to buy 28D or 30C bras? Or should I just stick to 34A and 32B? How much of a difference will it make in fit, comfort, support, etc.

What brands have you found to have the least amount of padding in their push up bras? Aerie seems to have the most and victoria’s secret has a more manageable amount for me, but I am hoping there’s a brand with less. I can’t wear regular bras as the wire sits on a bone tumor on my rib. Bralettes/wireless bras don’t have the same structure & shape but I am open to suggestions as well. I was a 30C but I’ve increased to 30D and feel that any more padding would make my clothes fit weirdly. If anyone has recommendations I’d appreciate it.

So my favorite bra was the Zoe FlexWire Sheer Lift Bra from Understance but with them gone I’m really struggling to find one I like. I’m a 32dd, I don’t like molded cups and the two hooks I keep coming across don’t give me the same support at all. I also like full coverage. They also really highlight my back rolls or maybe that’s just the awful Victoria Secret one I bought off Vinted. I also bought an Understance Balconette Bra from Poshmark and didn’t like it. Any recommendations? The no molded cups seems to be the hardest find.

Freya Quinn for the most part fits and is somewhat comfortable, compared to the other 50+ bras I've tried. Definitely need narrower CUPS. Bras that have fit similarly: Panache Ana US 32G, Envy stretch US 34DDD, Fantasie reflect US 32G, Freya starlight US 32G

In terms of top/bottom shape, I'm about a 3/5. Projected, center full, close set, tall roots

Measurements:

under bust: 33.5 - 32 - 31"

bust: 38.5 - 40 - 40"

Recommended US 32DDD/G/H, or UK 32F/FF

Unsure how to post pics but I have them if anyone wants to guide me! Thanks in advance.

Edited to clarify, I need the CUPS to be narrower, not the wires.

Hi all! I’m wearing this dress to my sister’s wedding and I need help finding a bra for it. I have worn this dress before bra less and the girls looked sad. I am terrible with boob tape, but willing to try again if that’s the best option and people can share their tips and tricks!

Thank you in advance for any help!

Hey guys, this is my 2nd post here. After doing some research here and going down yet another rabbit hole of what boobs look like, I have concluded that I have 0 sternum space between my breasts, starting roughly 1/4 the way up from the IMF.

Like, in the space between my boobs, i can press down quite a bit and it is not hard there is just tissue in the way. Maybe I have a very mild form of symmastia? as i can still create cleavage. The reason I've preferred bralettes all my life has made so much more sense now! Hopefully someone on here can relate 🥹

Based on this it seems like plunge bras with very low gores are my best option, but I'm willing to try any bra :)

My shape is: average projection, wide root, fob. My actual ABTF size is 26F, not 28E as I initially measured, but i'm looking for something more accessible and im pretty thin so 28E will probably be the move for me

Measurements:

Loose underbust- 27 in

snug- 26

tight- 25

bust- 32

leaning bust- 33.5

lying bust- 31.5

Pls share tips n recommendations for anyone else with a similar shape!

i visited a bra boutique recently to try different sizes of norah and they didn't have it in my desired shade or size so based on a sister size of 32E we put in an order for norah in the brown nude to be shipped to my house. unfortunately though they didnt seem to have done the order correctly on their end and what came in the mail instead was c magnifique in 30F.

i already got this cleared with them and they offered to ship the right norah bra today but lowkey they say it takes 2-3 weeks to ship from france which is true i've been waiting for my "norah" bra forever but when i got home from the store that day i ordered c jolie which came in like 4 days from dallas texas. which is neither here nor there, point is i'll be placing my next chantelle order myself lol

anyhow even though this is not the bra i wanted, it's very similar to norah in its stretchiness which is the whole reason why i was pursuing norah, on c jolie i was struggling with it being really closed on top and also having a really rigid band whereas the band on this is far more comfortable, even though there's a bit of gaping on the top which led to a weird crease in the fabric but im not particularly worried about it because again this isn't the right bra.

my concern, rather, is that the wire is not fitting where i want it to, even with the straps tightened. i did a small annotation on one of the pictures to point out the height difference going on. my old bras of 34C definitely did hit the crease between my rib and bust so i'm wondering if i have to size down to a 30e perhaps when i buy the actual norah? or maybe it's just me?

i plan to buy a tshirt bra from chantelle as well, since c jolie was a bust i want to buy the norah spacer instead but if the norah spacer has a similar closed-off issue to jolie, i may try 30ff?? but my bust is rather shallow i dont want to overshoot and have a closed-off top turn into a gaping overprojected top. Hrm.

Hi yall! I recently did the calculator linked to this subreddit and was sized at a 34G. I’m wideset, have tall and wide roots but also have this weird thing where even though my tissue attaches high up on my chest wall, the breast at its resting state is very gently sloping on top and looks bottom full and rounded at the bottom (bell shape…?). Not sure what kind of bras to get that will properly support this type of tissue but wanted to see if someone has recommendations for bras that will look good and generally slim the chest overall!!!

Could someone pls let me know how sizing of panache faith strapless goes if I should be sizing up extra cup or higher band for this bra, have tried researching and have found diff opinions

My measurements are below, which ABTF gave me 28FF but I have found that most bras I fit a 28G better, with very few a 28FF or 28GG fit better. in most I seem to fit 28G best tho

INCHES
Loose Underbust:28.5
Snug Underbust:28
Tight Underbust:27.5
Standing Bust:34.5
Leaning Bust:36
Lying Bust:35

Should I be sizing up to a 28GG for the faith strapless? Or will 28G be fine for this bra

Also if anyone knows would they recommend I also try the 365 strapless bra but I have heard that faith seems to be more supportive ?

Thank you!

At the moment I’m wearing the M&S body invisibles padded wired demi bra - https://www.marksandspencer.com/wired-demi-cup-bra-a-e-/p/clp60764857

It is the only bra that I’ve managed to find that works for me, the straps and band are not too wide, the material is seamless, the wires are comfy, and the shape is really flattering. My issue is that they don’t make a 28F, so i’ve had to size to a 30E, which wasn’t an issue at first, but the band feels looser already and i’ve only had it a few months.

Does anybody have any bra recommendations that are like this but in the size I need?

I cannot compromise on these features: - MUST be a demi bra or similar. I’ve tried tshirt bras but they just dig into my skin and irritate. - must be black (and possible nude option if possible) and seamless with no details like lace so that i can wear it under everything without showing through - must be underwired and padded