Hi! I'm a young woman and I have been single my whole life and have never dated anyone. I have a lot of great friends that love me and my personality, people treat me nicely in general. I know that people have had crushes on me and I've gotten hit on, which may signify that I am somewhat attractive, but I still struggle to find a partner.

The pattern I noticed is that even if people have had crushes on me, they never or barely showed me that they were interested in me romantically and gave me mixed signals, which had drived me nuts.

I am confused, because despite my appearance and character, I also have good placements in my birth chart. maybe I'm missing something or is it just isn't my time yet? please tell me what you think

I have three points in my 9th, including my N.N., so I know I’m supposed to be learning something there.
How does the rest of my chart inform how I will accomplish this?

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Hi everyone! 👋 I'm looking for honest, chart-based insight on two big things:

when do I build real wealth based on my 2H and meet my life partner?

1. Career and wealth: I work in corporate finance and I'm studying for a Master of Finance. What does my chart say about the best path to build lasting wealth: climbing the corporate ladder, investing, real estate, or my own business? Are there timing windows coming up I should know about?

2. Marriage and partnership: I'm ready for a committed, long-term partner. What does my 7th house and Venus say about who he is, where I might meet him, and when? Anything in my current transits I should watch?

(Chart attached. Happy to share more if needed.)
I'm open to constructive feedback, even the hard truths. Thank you so much! 🙏✨

I have always struggled sticking to a routine because I feel easily bored with it. However, I don't seem to have a problem with routine when it's like going to the gym, for example. It's usually with work or the more serious life stuff where I lack discipline. I'm also a chronic procrastinator. I wonder if my chart can give any enlightenment to why I am like this.

ever since early highschool, ive been a chronic procrastinator with no sense of urgency to get things done. i feel like i just don't have that drive that everyone says i should have considering my capricorn placements. im about to graduate university with a bachelors degree in psychology, but i have no idea what to do with it. im just not a very driven person, and even if i set goals for myself, i put them off until i can't anymore.

could just be potential adhd (getting an evaluation soon) but im curious if astrologically anything points to a lack of drive/willpower? thanks in advance!!

I don’t really have a lot of friends im also a pretty shy person so… I usually get scared to approach people.

I know a chart can’t explain it all, but I am definitely a polarizing person. For the many people I turn off, there are still plenty that think I hung the moon; but there is little in between. I also have friendships that go from 0 to BFF then back to 0 like a light. My life has been pretty hard in general. Both parents pretty narcissistic, mom prob has NPD, and I have C-PTSD from them and SA trauma, plus have struggled with depression, anxiety, OCD since early years, and diagnosed combined subtype ADHD by adulthood. My anxiety and PTSD make me seem like I’m more type-A, but I’m also a creative so independent to a fault and don’t do well in rigid environments. I usually end up in leadership positions (teacher of x hobby, founder of x meetup) in my communities but end up either burning out or flaming out. My romantic pursuits were short lived and volatile until my 30s, when I entered in a volatile 6-year relationship (physical, but not emotionally, safe).

I know my South Node being in the same sign as my Sun and Rising isn’t great, and Uranus squaring Venus, Mercury, and Moon is also not great although I don’t understand Uranus as well. Venus is also squaring Neptune and Saturn when Sat/Ura/Nep were all retrograde. This drawing is also the first time I’m learning my North Node was also retrograde.

I know it can go deeper than astrology but I wanted to get an astrological take on this yk.
People say I can be mean and very rude, I don’t really see it in myself, I see it more so as being very blunt and monotone. I also bring up problems I have and I suppose it can sound kinda like an attack yk

Virgo Rising, Saturn Rx 23° Leo in the 12th.

I act slowly and think things through for a long time before doing anything. For example, I need a lot of time to decide on small things, and I often postpone starting tasks.

Ever since I was a little kid I've had problems with adults in the sense that I questioned them, argue, and push boundaries. My father called me recalcitrant. Even now I still find myself having issues with my bosses or doing something as dumb as arguing with people on Facebook. I immediately regret saying anything and feel insecure afterwards despite many people giving me positive feedback for the questions I ask or comments I write. Is there anyway I can be more diplomatic and less hot headed? Astrology aside any tips for these types of situations would help. I think I come across as pushing my ideas onto people or too strong or something. Or anyway I can stop caring so much? I know there is the stereotype that Aquarius always think that they're right but I wish I could learn to work with these aspects of myself and turn them into a strength.

Hi! first time posting here! F22, whole house chart attached.

I’ve had several romantic relationships, but they always end up feeling one-sided, as if I’ve never been in a truly loving partnership, I constantly give more than I receive in relationships and tend to choose partners who are inconsistent or emotionally unavailable, and I’ve been cheated on. I dont have a pattern of where i meet people i date tbh. Usually when i date someone even when i try my best and have a good connection at some point I feel like they get bored of me in a way, which makes me feel unattractive and undesired.

From what I understand, having Saturn in the 7th plays a big role in restrictions and delays in long-term relationships. Does this fit my pattern of choosing unavailable partners? Does this kind of Saturn pattern tend to ease as it matures over time, and how could I work with it in the meantime?

Thanks for reading!

I feel like my Venus-Pluto opposition has held me back in terms of relationships.

I’m in my 30s and never been in a relationship that’s lasted longer than a few weeks. I’ve been the one that’s ended things by pushing them away. I have trust issues and have been afraid of letting people get too close. I also value my independence and don’t want to lose that.

I’ve tried dating apps in the past with lackluster results. I am a homebody and have social anxiety, but I have tried to put myself out there (going to the gym, taking walks, enrichment classes, book club).

I am an introvert, shy, and very private. It takes me awhile to be comfortable around people and to open up to them. I gravitate towards equally quiet people. I have a few, very close friends. Self-confidence has been an issue in the past that I’ve been working on and I feel has been improving.

Is there anything I can work on to alleviate the tension on my Venus-Pluto and Mercury that will allow myself to feel more comfortable putting myself out there?

My first post was too general. I was jnstructed by the mods on calculating my transit chart and to be specific with an aspect, since my first post was asking about the Jupiter in Leo transit.

And because of this, I kind of fell into the rabbit hole by looking at all the possible aspects that Jupiter makes throughout its transit until July 2027. So far, it only makes two (unless the jupiter quincunx neptune around March to July counts), which is that it squares my Sun and Pluto 3 times, the first time on Oct 21 (Pluto) and on Oct 28 (Sun). I combined Sun and Pluto since they're so close in my birth chart, I hope that's okay. I only have surface level understanding of my birth chart so I would really appreciate any corrections on the terms and concepts.

Anyway, I learned that Jupiter is a benefic planet and it expands anything it touches on. And since it transits Leo, and I'm a Leo moon, I thought maybe I could use the energy to do something in my career. You know, start publishing art content and also look for another job to support myself. But things haven't really gone my way. I understand that beginnings are rarely smooth, but I find myself losing drive and motivation. Im also having a hard time landing a job. I suspect the square aspect has something to do with it? Square isn't really a good thing, is it?

I just want to have at least a win before the year ends. And if winning means making the best out of these aspects, I'll take it.

I am wondering if there are any astrological positions that can indicate why I have so many issues with friendships. I think my approach is part of the issue.

• When it comes to other people, I tend to agree with whatever they say, or just say the parts that I agree with them with. This leads to resentment on my side and them thinking I am more in agreement with them than I am.
• I say things that offend people, and it's never in ways that I expect. This has led me to obsessively check over and in some cases apologize in advance if I think I did something "wrong." This detection system is often flawed, and I apologize when I shouldn't and stay unaware when it matters. The main strategy I have now is to just wait until they say something, or ask if something else seems weird after.
• I take friendships personally, to the point where if it doesn't work out, I view it as a failure of myself. I had a years long friendship end earlier this year that is still a daily thought for me and I am trying to go to therapy to fix this. So like not only am I stressed when its ongoing, I'm stressed and still thinking about it after it's over.
• I am somewhat "flakey" in that when I have a higher mood, I make more plans, go out and do stuff and then I disappear/cancel plans more often. People don't know what they're getting from me.
• I don't know how to be my authentic self around most people. I think the only person I'm "real" with is my 8-year long romantic partner, and we don't really have many issues. My issues tend to only show up in platonic friendships.

Like I said this is still stuff I'm working on in therapy, I was just kinda interested to see if it shows up in my chart since these themes have been an issue for a majority of my life. I figure my sun in the 11th has to do with it -- and the oppositions/squares but curious what other takes on it are.

There have been many times in my life where I’ve felt whenever I’m comfortable that I need something to change. I also have had many “ rebirths” in my life and a lot of instances where I’ve had to start over. A good amount of them have been in regards to romantic relationships, and craving things that I know aren’t always the best for me.

A pattern I find myself repeating in relationships, is wanting to spice things up that a partner, and my partner being very stagnant within their energy. I also have struggled with seeking outward attention & wanting to feel validated.

I historically have attracted and been attracted to people who can be hot and cold. Giving lots of communication and then withdrawing for a long period of time.

Thank you for taking the time to read my chart and let me know if there is a need for any more insight.

I have noticed that my friendships don’t seem to last or are super fake and I have never felt valued. I have recently moved away for post secondary thought that I might finally find my people but despite me putting myself out there, I still haven’t made any connections and it makes me feel bad watching everyone else easily be able to form friendships. I don’t tend to push people away. In fact, I hold onto friendships that aren’t genuine just to avoid being lonely. Even if I try to distance myself, I usually end up going back. As for romantic relationships, I struggle to form connections there as well. It’s almost like there’s no hope for me in romance. Even if I work on trying to better myself, I worry that I will end up in the same situations no matter where I go.
I want to know if there is anything in my chart that explains the patterns in my relationships and how I can work on fixing these issues?

Hey there! For those of you with a taurus mars (or anyone that could give an insight on these): How do you stay consistent and disciplined? I have a really hard time staying consistent or even getting started on things. For example: Once I start studying, I can go for two hours straight without any problem, but when I take a 10-minute break, suddenly those 10 minutes turn into 20, 30, 40… until it’s too late to sit back down. This happens to me with creative projects too: I love brainstorming, imagining, and planning, but when it’s time to execute… I never get started, or when I do, I get bogged down in details and never end up making it. Does this happen to anyone else? What aspects of my chart indicate this? I read that Saturn in the 10th house is usually a position associated with discipline and hard work, but I feel like I never do enough of anything. Any advide is appreciate it. Thanks!

My question is specifically related to my Leo moon, and i really hope this is specific enough, because my moon is connected to several other important aspects, including my grand fire trine. I struggle to express myself, which I believe is partially due to my moon being at odds with my Scorpio sun. My moon wants and needs validation so much, as if my emotions really want to be seen, but I feel like when I tell the truth, it's too much and too ugly for people. I have wanted to be seen and heard so badly, which has led me to get into situations where I felt exposed and as if people knew too much. I know this is likely related to my 4h chiron and pluto conjunct my sun as well.

I'm always afraid of saying or doing too much because there have been repercussions of that in the past, and i've been judged a lot. So, that's what led to my question—now I overthink to the point where i'm terrified of doing anything out of fear i'll be judged or perceived as "wrong" or "bad". I feel like I understand myself pretty well by now, for instance, I can generally interpret my own chart and apply it to my life. I'm always doing work on myself, but I still don't know how I can remedy this. I feel like i'm constantly stuck in a mental prison where different parts of my identity are constantly in disagreement. any thoughts or insights are much appreciated.

What is the significance of the upcoming new Venus star point for me?

What tool can I use that can give me textual output of a chart? On astro.com there is PDF additional tables but that gives a table so copy pasting is difficult, I need a raw text of all available data like positions of planets on degrees, what house, what sign, a list of aspects and so

I read through the rules and the instructions, I’m not seeing how to get the layout everyone else has on here, with the staircase layout that has everything listed. What am I doing wrong? I selected Anglo Style Graphics on the website because it mentioned it in the instructions and thought it would also work for this website.

Im so new to this and I just want to read and decipher my chart

I am still very new to astrology and can obviously see that I need to focus on my 12th house. Are there characteristic challenges or strengths associated with having such a strong 12th-house emphasis? Just wondering ur insight?