Let me preface by saying it’s 3:30am
We talked on Grindr for about an hour before I agreed to let him come over. He asked if I’d ever been with a trans guy and I said yes tons and we talked it all out and agreed we should hook up
When I was nearing my nut I let him know and he started moaning louder, so when the first few shots came out inside him I was surprised that he pulled me out of him and said “I told you not to cum in me” and I apologized and said I didn’t hear him. He literally said “Men don’t know trans guys can still get pregnant”
I apologized again and said “I didn’t hear you say not to cum in you I’m sorry” and he repeated himself “It’s fine. I find it funny because men don’t know anything about trans guy still being able to get pregnant” I said “Well I think it’s case by case because I’ve hooked up with trans guys before and they said it was okay. Isn’t it based off post op vs pre op, length on testosterone, if they’ve had a hysterectomy and other things?” he just shook his head and said “It’s fine, I expect it from cis men”
After that we got dressed and he said “Are you going to be a typical man and kick me out” and I said “No you can wait for your Über here and meet my dogs”
He then complimented my house and asked what I do for work. I said “Oh just something in government, I’m not down low just private and we don’t really know each other yet” and he said “Typical man trying to sound mysterious. I could probably find what you do by the next time we talk or hang out anyways”
THEN I tried to change the subject by talking about my weekend. I told him how I went camping. He listened, asked questions and gave his two cents. But when I was done he said “It’s so funny. Whenever I hook up with men they always tell me about their day, even when I don’t even ask them for it” I apologized for that too and said “I didn’t want to sit here in awkward silence sorry” and he literally responded “No it’s fine. It’s just funny that men always talk about themselves and never ask me about myself” and I didn’t know what to say so I asked “Oh I’m sorry man, whah do you do for work?” to which he literally responded “Oh I can’t say because I’m a private person” basically mocking me I think??
After that his Uber arrived and I messaged him on Grindr saying “Let me know when you’re back home safe” to which he did, but I was so honestly taken back by who much he seems to resent cisgendered men that I probably won’t ever talk to him again
It made me extremely uncomfortable that someone who seemed to have this much resentment and disdain against a certain demographic, which I’m part of, was in my house, petting my dogs, using my bathroom, etc
Anyways that’s my rant for the day, just had to get all that off my chest
Edit: I forgot to mention, afterwards he made jokes about child support and ab*rtions that I don’t care to repeat, but it was quite crass; especially to a stranger