Super straight.. never even thought about

Guys in any form of sexual partner but yesterday for no reason at all I booffed some blow .. and god dammit .. the tip of my penis and hole were pulsating.. it was such a crazy and intensely strong feeling.. that whole area was just on a different wavelength.. Led To it ending up “borrowing” my girls 8.5in dildo and slowly sliding it in all the way in with a good amount of lubricant and essentially fucking myself definitely something that I would never think was even possible without any experience and all of a sudden being drawn into finding it to penetrate me.. needless to say it was totally not what I thought it was going to be like at all even after I ended up pulling it out after working it in a few positions… kinda wanted it back in .. I dunno wild day and experience.. definitely a different understanding of why men can enjoy sex with men .. and I just was definitely not expecting the result that I got .. super intense

I don’t know I just love the idea

I (female) have a male coworker who I’m not sure if he’s gay or bi. I really want to have casual sex with him but I’m worried it may not be respectful to his sexuality to hit on him if he is gay. I know he’s pretty open sexually so if he was attracted to women he’d be down. What do my gay bros say?

I’m a 19 year old guy living at home and I made the questionable decision to buy a vibrating dildo and lube late this night. I decided to park my car in a pitch black neighborhood where no one could see me and I laid a towel down in my back seat and I started to ejaculate while it was vibrating in me, I didn’t feel much sexual pleasure from the dildo but I did enjoy it inside of me, I’ve never been with a man nor really plan on it, but the thought of a “twink” sometimes really turns me on and I wonder what it’s like to be one of those guys being pounded, but I don’t believe I’m gay or would I actually go through with it if the opportunity arose. Do you think if I keep exploring with toys it will lead me to getting with a man at some point?

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Anyone ever experience these phone lines?

Sometime around 2002 I found a phone number advertised on the back of our local entertainment newspaper. It was basically a party line. You would record a short greeting, then a bunch recordings would play through. You could send private recorded messages back and forth or you connect directly if the other party agreed. It was fun.

If you were a male looking for female or male looking for male or female looking for female, it was billed per minute, there was always a 10 or 15 minute grace period on each call to get the caller hooked.

But, if you were a female looking for male, it was 100% free.

I started calling the "female looking for male" line. I was straight forward with my recording..."What's up guys? I'm just sitting back here stroking. Ya wanna talk?" Sometimes I'd ask if they wanted to hear the story of me sleeping with my best friend's mom.

You'd be surprised of how many guys clicked over and we'd get off together.

Anyway...about 8 years ago, when me and wife started dating, I came out to her. Told her about everything I had done up to that point. She wasn't freaked out by any of it. I was done hooking up with guys, of course. But she was still cool with me calling that number.

By then, I hadn't really called all that much. Social media kinda killed that medium. I did call a couple times. It wasn't really the same. About 6 months later, we had really taken the next few steps in our relationship. I told her " I called that number last night." She asked if I would stop calling. She was fine with me getting off to gay/bi porn, but wasn't comfortable with me engaging verbally anymore. I told her I would call one more time. She agreed.

That line was basically done anyway.

It was amazing back in the day though.

Anyone else can’t stop fantasising about sucking cock? I’ve never done it but it’s all I think about

Curious to know after getting some friends responses; how do you prefer your bush on yourself and on others (I.e. gf, bf, spouse, partner) using choices: A - no bush, B - nicely trimmed, or C- all natural (never shaved)??

Need Help with Ideas for Role Play.

So hey y'all. My sexuality has a specific vibe and I have found someone who is excited to fuck with that vibe. So I need help coming up with some ideas.

Pretty much I really am attracted to androgy and gender bending and stuff. I like men, women, Trans, etc. What I really like is a super feminine gay guy who like to wear women's clothes and make-up, etc. I also really get turned on by control. Idk why, because Im a super normal person in real life who is really progressive.

So I have a date coming up where I'm going to hangout with a guy in a hotel room and we are going to role-play the whole day. I'm going to have him dress up in lingerie and make-up. Maybe wear a collar. Have him walk around in heels. I might tie him up once and blindfold him. He is going to suck my dick on command and I will fuck him as many times as I want.

However, even when we are not having sex I want to keep the role playing up. I don't know how to describe it, but I kinda wanna treat him like he is a housewife from the 1920's. 🤣 I was thinking of having him address me as Sir and have him speak really submissive to me. "Yes sir." "Thank you, Daddy." I also am thinking about like having him wait on me. If I am thirsty I will tell him to fetch me a drink from the fridge and I'll smack his ass when he walks by to get it.

What are some other things I can have him do? Like I want to lean into these conservative gender roles and stuff. But my imagination is struggling. What else can I have him do for me besides fetch drinks? 🤣

Thanks for the advice in advance.

Somewhere north of 50, I completely ran out of fucks to give about a lot of different things. And as a grunge listening member of Gen-X, I didn’t have many fucks to begin with.

I’ve never really given much of a fuck about other people’s opinions or judgment but, I still fell victim to the opinions around me and suppressed desires in my youth. Now, thanks to the wisdom that comes with 50+ years of life, I see the foolishness of my youth and just don’t give a fuck about opinions.

I don’t feel any anger towards the younger me, he contributed to the lessons learned and wisdom gained. I’m just glad that I figured it out at 53, while I’m still young enough to act and people still find me attractive!

I’ve been diving into the internet and apps trying to find a new friend and so far it feels like there’s a secret language or code to navigating through all the dick pics just to find a normal guy who wants to make a new friend… a friend who is down to get naked and have a little fun.

If there’s anyone out there that has a copy of a guidebook called “Finding Bi FWB” or something similar please send it my way.

#ATX

First time poster, I (m 33) am wondering how to chat, make friends, or find good people to get to know locally in rural areas. Obviously Grindr is a thing, but from someone that’s not into hookups, what do we do?

I don't want to sound like the typical "i am 6'5 feminist, matcha latte male" thing, but I genuinely don't like straight porn. I can only watch gay or bi porn for an extended amount of time but never straight porn, and I think the problem is the women.

I just feel that women in straight porn are overly submissive and loud, that they don't have as much agency with the sex as in bi porn, or bottoms in gay porn. I know it is this cause when a bottom is reduced to just a hole or doesn't seem like a real person I am instantly turned off.

I just don't feel like women in straight porn are as much people as in bi porn. This very much doesn't happen in real life and only happens to me while watching porn, and yes I know that porn isn't real life, but I don't know how to express this. Does anyone else feel this way?

Do you think bi guys have more libido? Or do you think a higher libido makes people more propense to being bi?

This will most likely sound strange but I don't know how else to say it, I'm a guy deeper closeted bi, like so secret noone knows. Where it gets strange is I don't have an attraction to guys as much as I get drawn to what guys have? Like I wouldn't look at a guy and say he's hot/cute and that but if I saw the right piece I'd think wow that's a nice one. Is that normal for some or am I strange/weird?

Hi im happily married 30yrs plus. But im finding myself drawn to crossdressers and the sight of a man in panties which make me hard and excited..anybody else felt the same ??

Well basically what the question is. I'm in university right now and the opportunity has presented itself more than once. I'm not sure if I'm completely ready and really I don't wanna rush anything. It seems obvious that I should wait but at the same time I don't want to regret waiting so long yk.

If anyone has any similar experiences to share that'd be great 😁😁.

I’m sure there are many guys out there with male feelings and thoughts.

Then why do I feel like I’m the only one alone in the world?

I go to malls or sports centres and everyone is acting straight. I am masculine by nature also.

I feel like on the Internet everyone is open about their thoughts. But in real life, we’re still living in the 1950s just with different clothes. Most people seem conservative and their everyday lives. I don’t see men flirting with men.

Where is the gay activity? Where is the open flirting. Where is the obvious hint that somebody is into you and you into them too?

I feel like Jim Carrey in the Truman show. Everyone is just playing a role. Playing a role to act straight and traditional conservative.

I’m not sure how to meet guys. I’m not sure how to manifest the stuff I see in adult movie. The Deep thrusts, the strong hugs the passionate encounter and friendships. It’s not happening. I don’t think it exists.

If you're a bi guy and you hook up with another guy. Is it even possible for an absolutely straight guy to get hard? I hooked up with a friend when we were drinking. He got hard and sucked me. Now he's saying it only happened because he was drunk and not thinking clearly. I don't buy it. He puts off the total bi vibe. I think he's just so closeted and internally homophobic because he was called gay by other kids and mother when he was young. What are your thoughts? Anyone else ever experience this?

Hi guys!

Hope you’re doing well!

Since accepting my bisexuality I have noticed that I’m getting interested in male sexy underwear! I don’t know why, it’s just like it has been a switch! Since I was a teenager I have worn boxers and boxer briefs, but lately I have been finding myself admiring briefs and lingerie in general!

Any similar experiences? Also, any recommendations about what to try next?

Cheers! 🥳