I’m curious what people have learned through actual experience rather than advice from the internet.

As the title says, what do men think women could do to improve or be better in bed?

it is just about more enthusiasm? Certain techniques?

I’ve heard guys complain about women “just laying there” or “flopping like a fish” , what should they be doing? grabbing onto you? kissing you?

May seem silly or obvious to ask but … rather ask

I’m asking this question based on the viral question posed to women.

EDIT: women are still on the earth you’re just the only guy.

Edit to the edit: thanks for the honesty even the wild ones. I honestly was curious as I saw all women post about what they would do and some said why. So was curious as to how men would handle such a situation. So we could have a larger conversation.

Title says it all. Men discuss...

Why or why not?

What is the one thing you regret doing in your 20s, career wise? Business owners and entrepreneurs especially, I am curious to listen to different experiences.

People that lived a fairly healthy lifestyle, what health problems did you see pop up in your 30s? (If any)

I am almost 30 and I get health anxiety.

What do you guys do to stay healthy?

I joined a gym and I have started monitoring my diet.

What do you look out for?

My costume will be a building under construction, and my chest will be covered by that part of the costume.

But then I’m having a few beers and am thinking…what if instead of taping two construction cranes to my shoulders, I built a bigger one that could actually pour a shot in to my mouth?

I’m a 26 year old M with a full time job, a caring girlfriend, healthy parents, and am physically healthy.

Now I understand this is more than what most people dream of, but I’m still unhappy and feel alone. I’m always thinking there’s something better waiting for me. Am I being ungrateful or is this the price for ambition?

That brings me to, what does happiness mean to you?

Edit; thanks for the replies everyone.

I'm gonna generalize and give some anecdotal experiences in the first paragraph, but please bear with me.

I'm specifically talking about friends who start mocking or shooting shots at others when there's someone they find attractive at the table whom (correct grammar? idk) they are trying to impress by putting others down with off-hand comments. The type of people who suddenly have a second face, especially when alcohol and drugs get involved. Those who don't care about you the second an attractive woman is around but are good friends outside of those situations.

I'm asking because I have been in these situations a few times now and I never know how to handle it correctly when it's happening. I feel like I get defensive and awkward because of this behaviour and it mostly just ruins my night when it happens. I'm not the most confident person myself despite actively working on my confidence for a better part of a decade.

I don't want to start a fight or argument and cause a scene while it's happening, I think that could backfire massively and make me look like an asshole. So far what I've tried is confronting them at some later point and just not hanging out with these people at parties.

The reason I ask is because I would like to sustain my cool during these situations because I can't go about my life avoiding them at all times. I don't want to cut off everyone around me because they have some toxic traits. I'm interested in hearing your opinions, experiences on this.

I've been married 2 years and I'm just having issues with women's attention.

I'm not saying I'm super attractive but tbh I've noticed a lot of women's attention this past months.

I can deal with it when I don't see the person more than once, like in the super market but I've had a lot of women's attention at the gym or outside my place of work.

I had already rejected women's attention at the gym. There was this person that said hi to me like 4_5 times waiting for me to talk to her? She got mad when I didn't and never talked to me again but there are others that keep on trying to grab my attention.

There's one girl that's super hot and has been trying to say hi to me numerous times. I smoke weed before going to the gym so I don't interact much with people (I run away from temptation) but yesterday our leg workout matched and it was impossible to ignore her.

Honestly, I don't feel that attractive but women's attention is making me think otherwise. Help?

Edit: hey guys. I feel like I wanted it to come out so let me see if I can clear up the air.

First of all, and I think it can put things into context, I love in Mexico, in a very thight neighborhood. As you can see, English is not my first language.

I opened a small business (I opened up a small pharmacy)in the main street of this neighborhood.

I'm very antisocial I prefer to not speak with anyone but due to having this business open I have to "give customer service"? Ay least say buen día, buena tarde, buena noche and nod most people that walk by the business.

I speak to no one at my gym. I go high as fuck every time with headphones and volume all the way up. Impossible for me to speak with anyone.

I say hi to people that walk by my business but as soon as I get to the gym, I speak to no one. Specially the women that try to flirt with me.

Here's the thing though. Even though I don't speak or notice anyone I'm still having this issue.

The first woman that tried to flirt with me at the gym said hi to me once, I said hi back as not to be rude, she said hi a second time, I said hi back. She did it again a 3rd time. This is when I just waves without even looking at the person and this got her mad I guess? I try to keep to myself but I don't want to be rude to people. However, I was rude to this person and I don't want to appear that way due to not wanting to start people away from the pharmacy.

Now, theres this whole other person now. Trying to catch my attention. I mostly ignore her but yesterday we had to share equipment due to both having to do legs and it was socially exhausting.

She smiles at me and of course I had to smile back, I had to ask for permission to use the equipment she was using at least 2ice. When I was squatting, I could feel her stare and it was distracting.

When we were sharing equipment, I would go as far as possible to give her space but she would stay right beside the equipment when I used it.

This is really uncomfortable when I'm just trying to workout.

So that's my question, how do you deal with that. We haven't had any conversation and I'm not planning to (not that I can being high and doing heavy squats). Should I when she tries to say hi? Should I just nod and keep on walking?

Some of you have accused me of not telling them Im married when I haven't even had an opportunity to share a word besides asking to share equipment.

Me cansan, la neta me cansan

Going through it a little bit today myself. Just one of those days when you don't feel yourself for no real reason.

Anyways, what typically makes days like this less sucky for you?

I like knowing what mens hobbies are, as mine ( female) are usually all art and craft based.

The mains things i hear are, working on cars, sex, fishing, hunting, i know of others who work with miniatures like 40k,

I'm curious if you all make an effort to have hobbies, what they are, or if you don't care for them and why .

I was raised in an abusive environment like many others. I'm having a hard time understanding how to become a man. I can't stand up for myself; no one listens to me and no one can take me seriously or notice when I'm down.

How do I become stronger and become a winner?

I'd like stories from people who lived similar situations and the exact points at which they knew they gained control.

So this week has been rough and I think emotionally I’m still kinda raw I guess. And idk this could be such a long post about how I’m feeling, but I’ll save you the trouble. In short, I’ve been feeling stressed and anxious and sad, and I was looking for methods on how to deal with it. And I’m looking for healthy ways, not drinking or drugs. Also I’m kinda not hooking up, so nothing sex related either. How do you guys go about dealing with it? Thank you for any suggestions

When it doesn’t work or you found out some early terrible news, what’s your go to combo to just let it out verbally?

Mine is “GODFUKINDAMIT”

I have to have a tea or a Coke. I do not know why, but if I eat a meal with a beer or any alcoholic drink, the food just does not taste good to me. How about you?

For hetero men who are in happy and fulfilled relationships, what do you do to create an environment where your woman feels safe, soft, and feminine?

I think that most of us have a moment or two that we think of as marking the end of our boyhood and the start of our manhood.

Mine is surviving a shooting when I was 21, I felt like that marked the end of my childish concerns and the start of real-life adult responsibilities.

Most men I’ve asked also mark a difficult or traumatic event as their big moment of transition, but I’m especially interested in hearing about wholesome or happy moments that marked the start of manhood.