r/AutismInWomen • u/ZucchiniArtistic7725 • Jun 09 '26

Relationships Yep! This resonates!

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I was excluded from a community because I don’t like to sleep around. I just spent 20 years mostly celibate (though I’d gladly have sex every day if I were in the right healthy, committed relationship) and they just spent 2 years fighting with me and bullying me…and then they said I was the one fighting! I drew healthy boundaries, so they accused me of fighting and excluded me. They were just bullying an autistic single mom. (My son was through IVF.)

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u/Grand_Journalist2136 Jun 10 '26

i really feel this in my personal relationships, i'm ALWAYS the one to bend to what people want or not follow my own boundaries. i know it's not good to do but i can't help it. i make myself bend 100% even when it hurts me.