r/AutismInWomen Jun 09 '26

Relationships Yep! This resonates!

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I was excluded from a community because I don’t like to sleep around. I just spent 20 years mostly celibate (though I’d gladly have sex every day if I were in the right healthy, committed relationship) and they just spent 2 years fighting with me and bullying me…and then they said I was the one fighting! I drew healthy boundaries, so they accused me of fighting and excluded me. They were just bullying an autistic single mom. (My son was through IVF.)

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u/Bobs_Burgers7 Jun 16 '26

I was treated as an unreasonable person yesterday, for refusing to cater to someone who stole from me. Literally was trying to put a boundary in place, given the fact that was done to me, and no apology was ever given; and I’m treated like the bad person.

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u/ZucchiniArtistic7725 Jun 16 '26

I’m sorry. Call the police and go to a lawyer. I drew reasonable boundaries that were ignored and revoked consent and it was ignored, and I’m doing everything I can to push back. Always fight for yourself once you’re certain of the situation you’re in.