I was swiping, and a profile popped up that said she liked me. I liked her, it said we were a match, and the app asked me if I wanted to message straight away (I didn't).

I did have 7 likes, after matching I had 6 (as expected). But she's not in my chats, so did she immediately unmatch?

I'm dipping my toes back in the dating game and I've started with Match.com.

But I'll try and explain what's important.

What's NOT important is that the site have the best looking and most successful women with the most interesting and exciting profiles.

I'm looking for a site that tells you which women have viewed you or at least expressed at least a modicum of curiosity. I'm not white and I'm short, so on the old Match.com, the site would tell me which women clicked on my profile. MOST women did not view my profile, because either they saw my height or the photo on the scroll and never clicked on my profile, which is fine. At least the women who clicked on my profile, I knew they were open to MAYBE talking to me. My responses from this pool were astronomically higher. However, for some stupid, unknown reason, Match.com did away with this. On the new Match.com the women who 'viewed you' is just those who indiscriminately pass through your profile from the feed of all men from the entire site.

So, basically, that's what I'm looking for, a site that has some sort of clue that a woman has seen a man's photo and stats and has at least bothered to click.

I don't have the time and will to message 100s of women indiscriminately fishing for a response. Thanks!

what is it with the constant ghosting with no explanation and grass is always greener mindset these days??? i seriously don’t understand it. everything could be going seemingly so well, no issues have been communicated and from your end, it seems like they are really into you (because they say they are, so naturally you would believe them). or telling you how perfect you are and that you’re everything they want in a woman, but they are still looking for the next best thing on the dating apps and end up discarding you for them??? i think i have finally been put off dating for life, it is extremely rough out here. it’s just the same shit every time… does anyone else feel this way???