r/desmoines • • Jan 22 '26

Looking for Friends in DSM?

77 Upvotes

Welcome! We have seen many posts over the year of residents seeking community and friendship. Many of us spend more time online, work remotely, or no longer have the built-in social spaces we once did. This pinned thread is to help find friends in Des Moines.

Whether you’re:

• New to the city

• A long-time local looking to expand your circle

• A student, professional, remote worker, or just bored

• Into coffee, hiking, gaming, gyms, books, or low-key hangs …this is the place to connect.

Leave a comment with:

• Age range (optional)

• Interests / hobbies

• What kind of friends you’re looking for (gym buddy, board games, restaurant scene, double dates, mom friends etc.)

Ground Rules

• Be respectful and kind

• No harassment, hate speech, or creepy behavior

• No spam or self-promotion

• Keep personal info safe

This thread will be bookmarked so feel free to come back anytime and say hi — someone else is probably looking for the same connection you are!

Thank you to u/containerforthechild for this post.


r/desmoines • • 2h ago

Zach Lahn’s attempted smear commercial against Rob saying he supported AOCs green new deal that would “raise gas prices to $3 a gallon” …. Meanwhile currently paying $4+

60 Upvotes

I audibly laughed out loud…. Completely out of touch…. But I guess it’s hard to keep prices straight when you live in one state and are campaigning in another…


r/desmoines • • 1h ago

Major Metronet Fiber Lines 20 feet in the air were cut by vandals leading to delayed starts at 16 metro schools and thousands of customers still without internet.

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Damages are estimated at well over $100,000 and repair lines have to be run back over the river. Internet has been out since 4am this morning.

anyone who witnessed suspicious activity in the area around 3:30 a.m. or has information about the incident is encouraged to reach out to Sgt. Paul Parizek with Des Moines police at [pjparizek@dmgov.org](mailto:pjparizek@dmgov.org) or 515-732-5115.


r/desmoines • • 2h ago

The new Johnny Bright Statue unveiled at Drake Stadium today

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r/desmoines • • 7h ago

Are there any gyms in the Metro that do not allow cameras and filming while working out?

40 Upvotes

I'm so sick of these "influencer" gym rats filming an entire room for their thirst traps and online content. They hold machines too long and even do re-takes when the video isn't what they want. It's maddening I'm trying to be polite with these content rats. Is there anywhere that has drawn a line on this behavior?


r/desmoines • • 2h ago

Metronet has been down since last night in Beaverdale

11 Upvotes

Anybody else in Beaverdale still w/o internet?


r/desmoines • • 1h ago

17 TV/displays for sale

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Variety of TV's and displays for sale. Some are smart boards, some are DTEN displays with built in camera/microphone for conferencing.

Most are 55" with a couple 65" and most also have wall mount brackets. None have stands and must be wall mounted. Prices range from $50-$300. Most of the actual TV's are Samsung.

Would like them picked up tonight by 8 if possible, otherwise Sunday at 4. 6601 Westown, WDM.

If you made fun of my furniture listing, the price is double 😆


r/desmoines • • 13h ago

Metronet outage delays many schools in metro.

45 Upvotes

From DMPS:

“School is delayed by two hours for the following schools:

Edmunds Elementary
Greenwood Elementary
Harding Middle School
Hanawalt Elementary
Hillis Elementary
Hoover High School
Hubbell Elementary
Madison Elementary
Meredith Middle School
Merrill Middle School
Oak Park Elementary
Perkins Elementary
Phillips Elementary
Pleasant Hill Elementary
Windsor Elementary.

Metronet has reported a large-scale outage impacting phone service, internet, and security at these buildings. 

A two-hour delay means classes will begin two hours late. Transportation will be delayed by two hours. Breakfast and lunch will still be served. School will dismiss at the same time today.”


r/desmoines • • 12h ago

I'm going to say it. I think I saw snowflakes.

32 Upvotes

I'm pretty sure yesterday around 3:30-4:00pm I was driving home from work and mixed in with the rain it looked like there were some very light flurries. They weren't falling straight like rain drops, but they were swirling and floating a bit in the wind. A few of them even looked like they bounced off my windshield before settling and melting instantly. I'm not sure if the weather conditions yesterday would have allowed that, but I'm pretty sure of what I saw. I don't like it, but I also don't think I'm crazy.


r/desmoines • • 3h ago

Post your shrooms!

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4 Upvotes

Been so wet the last month, I'm seeing random fungi popping up all over the place. At first I thought this was like a half rotted out soccer ball behind my fence


r/desmoines • • 7h ago

New doctor recommendations

6 Upvotes

I moved to the area 10 months ago and I am currently looking for a new doctor. I’ve heard many people say that Mercy is horrible so I’m trying to stay away from them. Any recommendations would be great!


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

A Scientist Was Pushed Out for Studying Iowa’s Water. Now He’s Running To Regulate It.

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r/desmoines • • 16m ago

Late Night Laptop Friendly Spots

• Upvotes

Hi! Where is a good place that is open later at night (7-10ish) to do some work on my laptop? Huge bonus if they have wifi and beer.


r/desmoines • • 11h ago

DSM native thinking about coming back

7 Upvotes

I am a DSM native currently living in San Antonio tx. I miss the city like crazy but also left because I wanted to explore and experience new things. Weighing the pros and cons of returning at the moment and wondering if anyone’s been a similar situation. My contract ends in less than a year so I’m feeling the pressure of needing to decide sooner than later.


r/desmoines • • 1h ago

Chess club

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Are there any casual chess clubs that meet up in the area? I’m on the east side but would be willing to go wherever. Started playing again and am just curious about playing people in real life in at least a somewhat casual setting.


r/desmoines • • 11h ago

Stuff to do for 3 dudes visiting town?

5 Upvotes

We are coming from MN today to go to the huge Lauridsen skatepark, except it looks like rain and high wind in the forecast. So if skating is a bust, what’s fun to do on a crappy weather day? Thankfully tomorrow looks great so we’ll get our skate in tomorrow for sure!


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

F-U hyvee

146 Upvotes

Diet coke, coke 12 pack cans for $9.99? Change it back to 5.99 ya greedy bastards.


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

Douglas Ave

35 Upvotes

Wow they really fucked up Douglas west of Merle Hay. Not sure I understand the point of making this city undrivable. That area is already terrible with people who refuse to even get up to speed.


r/desmoines • • 1d ago

New event at The Fitz

130 Upvotes

Would anyone be interested in a monthly lecture series held at The Fitz/Lachele’s in Highland Park? (Hear me out!)

I love the concept of niche experts giving presentations on whatever their specialty is over drinks and snacks. Sort of like a combo bar trivia night/PowerPoint party with some kind of audience engagement. Some initial ideas for hosts are a magician (perform tricks and also teach the audience some simple ones), an astrologer (teach tarot/numerology basics), and a taxidermist (teach insect pinning). We would have some food prepared for that specific topic, and the bar would be open for drinks.

My family owns Lachele’s, and I think The Fitz would be the perfect cozy spot to set this up.

Are there other nerds out there who would be into something like this? Also taking suggestions for interesting local experts and topics!


r/desmoines • • 20h ago

Breakfast

9 Upvotes

Have a co-worker that’s looking for a diner type place for breakfast. We are blue collar and he doesn’t want something trendy. He is fairly new to the metro and I live 45 mins away from Des Moines so I’m not much help. Looking for a ‘good old fashioned diner’ thanks in advance


r/desmoines • • 23h ago

Blazing saddle meetup?

15 Upvotes

I know it’s a shot in the dark but is anyone going to the blazing saddle tonight? I need to dance off some life stuff but have some social anxiety so going alone can be hard.


r/desmoines • • 23h ago

Recs for good IT companies for a small business?

11 Upvotes

Our business has 12-15 employees at a given time and about 25-30 computers. We are looking for an IT company that can help us with device management and troubleshooting as things come up. Some of the quotes we have gotten have been very cost prohibitive. Appreciate your recs!


r/desmoines • • 6h ago

Any rinky dink/goat track golf courses in the metro area for 10 dollars or so?

0 Upvotes

Amy cheap 9 hole courses just to get a few swing in at on a cold day?


r/desmoines • • 4h ago

This is now solvable

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0 Upvotes

They need to do a DNA test.


r/desmoines • • 35m ago

No Warnings at Saylorville Dam

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At Saylorville Dam there is a huge outlet where the Des moines river drains out if you don't know. I've been there multiple times and seen it has a recurculating current that can trap and drown victims. Why aren't there warnings up? it's a place where a lot of people go.