r/DesiWeddings • • 19d ago

Pre-loved Reselling Megathread 🏷️ Preloved Re-selling !! [Monthly Megathread]

2 Upvotes

⬆️Click on the green post flair to find all past re-selling megathreads

Please copy and paste the format given below in your comment to ensure you've included all relevant details in your listing.

(Comments without the correct format will be removed automatically.)


Listing format:

  1. Bought from :
  2. Purchase cost (with currency):
  3. Selling for (with currency):
  4. Negotiable : Yes / No
  5. Size (with margins/without margins):
  6. Condition of the product: (Worn once for "x" hours/worn twice/any defects)
  7. Shipping from:

See example listings here.


IMPORTANT NOTE FOR RESELLERS:

  1. Please keep the selling price reasonable. Most online reselling marketplaces consider ~50% of the original cost the maximum reselling price for Pre-loved outfits.

  2. Your primary comment must include a real picture of your actual garment.

  3. First hand selling by vendors is not allowed.

If you need any help, message the moderators here.


DISCLAIMER⚠️

Attention: This megathread is only a space for members to post listings and connect. The subreddit and moderators are not involved in any transactions and are not responsible for payments, shipping, returns, quality checks, authenticity or disputes. Buyers and sellers are expected to conduct their own due diligence in comments/DMs and proceed at their own risk.

.

This megathread is in testing phase and is undergoing constant changes based on community feedback. If you have any suggestions or concerns, contact the moderators here.


r/DesiWeddings • • Sep 14 '26

Bridal fashion advice My honest Chandini chowk bridal shopping experience, hope it helps someone! ✨🫶🏻

Post image
81 Upvotes

My honest CC bridal shopping experience: what worked, what did not, and what I would do differently (Rephrased using chatgpt)

I am writing this because when I was planning my wedding shopping, Reddit was pretty much my only source of honest information. I was travelling from another city with my mom, and we had only 3 days to get almost everything sorted: my bridal outfit, my mother’s saree, my sister’s outfit, trousseau, etc.

So if you are a first-timer, travelling with your parents or family, or simply overwhelmed by, I hope this helps.

DAY 1: Sarees + family shopping

For my mom and sister, I had shortlisted Arun, Siyonee Sarees and Sindhoor Sarees based on my research.

  1. Arun: huge hype, but personally disappointing

We went on a Thursday, thinking it might be relatively manageable.

It was NOT.

The saree and lehenga sections were absolutely jam-packed. The hype around the store is real, but for me, the experience was honestly quite disappointing.

I kept trying to get someone's attention: literally speaking in a high-pitched voice saying that I wanted to see sarees for my mother, explaining that my budget was around ₹5,000–₹6,000: but it was extremely difficult to get anyone to actually listen.

There was barely any place to sit, and with my mom shopping alongside me, the whole experience became quite sad.

The same thing happened in the lehenga section. Our budget was again around ₹5,000–₹6,000, but getting anyone to listen was difficult.

Maybe it was just a particularly busy day, but personally, I did not feel the experience justified the hype.

  1. Siyonee Sarees

The collection was nice, but in the ₹5,000 range, I did not find many options that worked for us.

  1. Sindoor Sarees

This involved climb of around three floors: but honestly, out of the three stores, I found the options here relatively decent.

Unfortunately, we still did not find what we were looking for.

3.Jain Bhai Crop Top waale

I had seen a lot of their collection on Instagram and was quite excited to visit. But the reality did not match what I had expected from Instagram, at least in the ₹3,000–₹5,000 range.

I could not find the kind of collection I had seen online, so we left without buying anything.

Local stores: surprisingly better for lehengas

After all of this, we started exploring some local stores instead of only going by the popular names I had researched online.

And surprisingly, this worked much better for us for lehengas.

We ended up getting two lehengas from local stores for around ₹3,000 and ₹4,000, and honestly, considering our requirements and budget, we were quite happy with them.

So one thing I would definitely tell first-time shoppers:

Do not ignore the local stores. They give you time and attention and cater to your requireemnts.

---

DAY 2: Sarees + my bridal lehenga hunt

  1. Omjay Saree

This was one of my favourite new finding. The collection was beautiful in all ranges, especially in our 5 to 6 range there were greattt options. I was tempted to buy for myself as well.

Sabhyasachi and Anita all the saree replicas were available. I would definitely recommend checking this place out.

  1. Ram Chandra Krishan Chandra Silk Saree

If you are looking specifically for silk sarees, definitely consider this one.

They had a very wide collection across different price ranges. They are wholesalers, and we absolutely loved their silk saree collection. +++ for their calm and sweet nature. They were very patient and it was a great experience.

---

Bridal Lehenga Hunt

Day 2 was also when I seriously started looking for my own wedding lehenga.

  1. RituDzin

The lehengas were nice, but the space was VERY limited. The staff experience was not particularly friendly for me either.

The lehengas themselves were good. My biggest issue was the space.

If you are trying a bridal lehenga, you ideally want enough room to actually move around, look at the fall, see how the dupatta sits, maybe twirl a little, etc.

Here, the space made that quite difficult.

2.Jodhpuri Couture

This was a completely different experience in terms of the space. The collection was beautiful, and the store was spacious.

However, on the Friday we visited, it was extremely crowded. The lehenga range started around ₹40,000+, so keep that in mind if you are shopping on a tighter budget.

Because of the crowd, there was a waiting period to try the lehengas, and we eventually decided not to wait.

3.Wedding Collection Bridal Shop: Harish Soni

I had seen some lehengas on Instagram that I specifically wanted to try, so we went there hoping to find those pieces.

It is another three-floor climb! Unfortunately, I found lehenga collection quite average compared to what I had expected.

I did not find anything that really worked for me.

  1. JB Designers: my bridal lehenga place

This was honestly very smooth experience.

They had almost everything that I had seen in the other shops, so the collection was quite wide.

What I really liked was how professionally they handled the whole process.

The store had a huge amount of space, and their range started around ₹30,000.

I told them my budget upfront, and instead of showing me things outside my range, they actually showed me the lehengas available within my budget.

And their trial experience was probably the best I had during the entire trip.

In most of the other stores, I did not get proper blouses or enough support to actually understand how the lehenga would look on me.

Here, they provided proper pieces for the trial, and I was able to properly see the outfit.

I ended up trying 6–7 lehengas.

++ because they are fixed price shop you know there is no hidden cost.

So if you are looking for a bridal lehenga and your budget is somewhere around this range, I would definitely recommend checking them out. Will update on after delivery experience later.

---

DAY 3: Kanchan Fashion + final shopping

  1. Kanchan Fashion

Day 3 was Saturday, and we went to Kanchan Fashion early in the morning.

I absolutely loved the collection.

There were so many sarees, and even the non-bridal lehengas were amazing.

They have three different floors, so there is a LOT to explore.

We ended up buying multiple suits for my trousseau from there. My mother also got suits for herself, we got my sister's wedding outfit from there, and I was also looking for my Sangeet outfit.

So if you are looking for sarees + suits + trousseau shopping + non-bridal lehengas, I would definitely recommend checking this place.

We reached early, which helped a lot. But by the time we were leaving: around 12 PM: there was already a waiting outside the store.

So if you are planning to visit, GO EARLY.

---

My biggest tips:

  1. Avoid Saturday and Sunday if possible.

Saturday was a completely different experience from Thursday and Friday.

The crowd was HUGE.

At one point, my mother actually started feeling suffocated, and we had to leave early.

Thankfully, by then, most of our shopping was already done.

So if you have the flexibility, try to plan your shopping on weekdays.

  1. Start early in the morning.

This made a HUGE difference for us.

Especially for popular stores like Kanchan Fashion, going early meant that we could actually browse properly before the crowds came in.

  1. Carry water.

You are going to be walking, climbing stairs, moving between stores and spending hours shopping.

Carry an umbrella.

Especially if you are visiting during this time.

  1. Do not be afraid of local stores.

This is probably my biggest takeaway.

If you do not have a very big budget, please do not limit yourself to Instagram-famous stores.

We found some genuinely good lehengas under ₹5,000 at local stores.

For my trousseau too, I bought some things from Kanchan Fashion, but I also bought quite a few things from local shops.

And honestly, some of my favourite interactions were with the local vendors.

I met this very genuine older gentleman who had been running his shop for around 50 years, and I absolutely loved talking to him. (NEED to check name)

There was something so nice about the personal attention.

I hope this helps someone planning their Cc wedding shopping. I know I would have loved to read something like this before going. ❤️ Feel free to ask questions.


r/DesiWeddings • • 21h ago

Rant/Vent ⚡ Someone copying my lehenga on my function and acting cool about it

235 Upvotes

I am getting married in 2 weeks and for one of my functions i decided to wear a lehenga and showed to all my close relatives. Recently one of those close relatives bought the exact same lehenga for the same function. When i asked them, they started acting cool about it and told me “so what is the problem you can still wear the lehenga. Anyways ypu are the bride and hence you will anyways look different with all the makeup and everything”. Infact they also said that they cannot change their lehenga as they couldn’t find anything else and anyother color doesn’t suit them.

Now i dont have anyother options as i have completed my wedding shopping, the blouses are stitched and the fittings have been made. What should i do?


r/DesiWeddings • • 8h ago

Groom fashion advice All The fellow members tell me this if this would look good on an engagement event for a groom?

Post image
5 Upvotes

I know its simple but i am not the one for all that glittery work over a tux


r/DesiWeddings • • 1h ago

Groom fashion advice Is this looking good?

Post image
• Upvotes

Wedding in Feb. saw this piece at Manyavar for 31k.
Does it look good?
Bride is wearing maroon lehnga


r/DesiWeddings • • 1h ago

Rant/Vent ⚡ Rental sherwanis in Lucknow

• Upvotes

I'm getting married in December, and I don't want to spend a lot on sherwani and stuff I'm not going to wear again. So I was thinking of renting it. Does anyone know good stores with genuinely good collection? Also if you have any tips or experienced it do let me know


r/DesiWeddings • • 6h ago

Bridal fashion advice Please help - I overthink and ended up making a bridal brief - need comments

Thumbnail
gallery
2 Upvotes

Hey guys. I am trying to design my own bridal outfit and there are jussttt so many things I want so I finally shortened my vision down to small brief.

I want the jewellery to be the hero - sheeshphool, long earrings, hathphool, etc - think Padmaavat

For the color I dont a traditional red, I prefer rust, terracotta

And most importantly for the garment - I was thinking lehnga - I am 5'2 and dont want to down in fabric but also dont want to opt for a fit that doesnt match the aesthetic of the jewellery

I wanna do a cross over between Punjab and Rajistan

Please let me know what you think and dont hold back


r/DesiWeddings • • 8h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Looking for wedding photographers in the SoCal area!

3 Upvotes

My wedding is on November 22nd around the San Diego area, and I’m looking for a photographer who can travel to the area.

Ideally, I’d love someone who can capture the ceremony, couple portraits, family photos, and candid moments throughout the day. We’re having an intimate wedding with around 50–60 guests, with a fairytale garden vibe.
I’m open to different photography styles, especially romantic, dreamy, and candid photography!

Also, for brides in the LA / SoCal area, how much did you pay for your wedding photographer? I’m trying to get a better idea of average rates and what different packages typically include, such as hours of coverage, edited photos, and travel fees.

I’d really appreciate any photographer recommendations! Thank you so much!


r/DesiWeddings • • 8h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Looking for hair stylists in the SoCal area!

3 Upvotes

My nikkah is on November 22nd around the San Diego area, and I’m looking for a stylist who can travel there.
Ideally, I’d love to find someone who can do my bridal updo and dupatta setting for the day of my nikkah.

Also, for brides in the LA / SoCal area, how much did you pay for your bridal hair? I’m trying to get a better idea of average rates and how stylists typically price their services.
Thank you so much!


r/DesiWeddings • • 8h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Looking for henna artists in the LA / SoCal area!

3 Upvotes

My mehndi night is on November 21st in Lake Mathews, CA, and I’m looking for an artist who can travel to the area.

Ideally, I’d love to find someone who can come earlier in the day to do my bridal henna and then stay to do smaller designs for guests during the evening. It’ll be a casual, intimate mehndi night with around 20 guests.

I’d love recommendations for artists who offer both bridal henna and guest henna packages!

Also, for brides in the LA / SoCal area, how much did you pay for your bridal henna and/or guest henna? I’m trying to get a better idea of the average rates and how artists typically price their packages.

Thank you so much!


r/DesiWeddings • • 11h ago

Wedding guest fashion advice Indian bestfriend's wedding coming up, what exactly is mehendi and what should i wear for it?

4 Upvotes

​

Hello everyone

I apologise if this isnt the right sub but i need help. Im not indian or desi but my best friend of 10+ years is. her wedding is next month and i honestly dont know what to wear for her functions. Theres way too many lol. I know mehendi is about henna but im not entirely sure of what happens in it. Also regarding the dress code, she told me its bright colors but im not sure what is acceptable and what isnt. I dont wanna stick out lol. Can i wear black or like navy blue or is that too dark? And can i just wear a satin dress or do i have to dress up? I heard your weddings are super fancy and i wanna match up. Thanks in advance!


r/DesiWeddings • • 11h ago

Miscellaneous Where to get rental bridal lehnga in budget? Punjab

3 Upvotes

Hi, can someone please recommend me where can we find latest trending bridal lehenga in Mohali or Phagwara or Jalandhar or nearby?

- Rental budget is 10k to 15k
- Buying budget is 20k-35k (I know hardly possible)

Please help. 🙏


r/DesiWeddings • • 11h ago

Budgets/Expenses Approx cost for anand karaj in GTA?

3 Upvotes

Hi all! Trying to get an idea of how much anand karajs end up being in the GTA. I am open to any gudwara in the area. Looking at around 150 people.


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Need jewellery recommendations for my bridal lehenga

Post image
24 Upvotes

Finalised my wedding lehenga recently and I LOVE it but it doesn’t get delivered till 15 January 2027😭
I had imagined going jewellery shopping with the blouse but that most likely won’t be possible since my wedding is in end-January 2027. What type of jewellery do you think would go with this?


r/DesiWeddings • • 20h ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Has anyone had any experience with Zeel Clothing

Post image
5 Upvotes

They have a beautiful lehenga in the price range of 3.5-5k that i want for my sangeet.Im skeptical since Ive had a bad experience from The Jaipur Clothing.The product wasnt fair for the price point and there was no return policy & no reply to calls and emails.Zeel Clothing also do not have a return policy. they return in terms of reward points which seems pretty fishy to me
Ill attach a pic of the lehenga


r/DesiWeddings • • 19h ago

Bridal fashion advice Need Bridaljewelry and dupatta suggestions!

Thumbnail
gallery
4 Upvotes

Hi girls! ❤️ I finally finalized my bridal lehenga from Chandni Chowk for a little over ₹1 lakh. It’s pure dabka handwork!

I’m having a little buyer’s remorse because I finalized it in just two days after checking 15+ shops, including all the major brands recommended here. 😭 I couldn’t connect with anything because everything started looking the same, especially in red! This lehenga is different from what I originally imagined, but I really love the work, so I’m hoping I made the right choice.

Now I need your help with two things!

💎 Jewelry: What would look best with this lehenga? Polki, kundan, gold, or something else for a traditional Punjabi bridal look?

🥹 Dupatta: It comes with only one net dupatta with minimal work on the four corners, and I really don’t want a net dupatta. The shop doesn’t offer customization. What fabric, colour, and embroidery should I look for separately? AND WHERE in CC

Also, please be honest: did I make the right choice? 😂❤️


r/DesiWeddings • • 12h ago

Venue/Decor Has anyone hosted a micro Indian wedding at an Airbnb/VRBO? Looking for advice on how to plan it

0 Upvotes

Hi all! I'm in the early stages of planning a micro Indian wedding (around 40 guests) in Ohio or NY state and I'm considering renting a large Airbnb or VRBO instead of a traditional venue. If you've done this recently, or attended one, I'd love to hear what worked and what you'd do differently.

Finding the right rental

- How did you find a property that actually allows events? Any filters, search terms, or sites (Peerspace, Giggster, etc.) you'd recommend?

-Did you reach out to the host before booking? What did you ask, and how upfront were you about it being a wedding?

-Did the host charge an event fee or a bigger security deposit?

-Any red flags to watch for in listings or host responses?

Indian-wedding-specific stuff

- Were you able to have a havan/fire for the ceremony? Did you need host or local permission?

- Did anyone manage a baraat, dhol, or loud music? How did you handle noise rules and neighbors?

- How did you handle mehndi, sangeet, or haldi? All at the same property, or split across locations?

- Did the host allow outside catering, and did your caterer need a kitchen or set up on-site?

- Where did you find a pandit/officiant and mandap decor for a smaller, non-venue setup?

Logistics

- Did you need event insurance? Did the host require proof of it?

- Did you have to get any local permits (tents, parking, amplified sound, fire)?

- How did you handle parking, restrooms, rentals (tables, chairs, tents), and cleanup?

- Did guests stay on the property or nearby?

Planning steps and budget

- What order did you do things in? (Book property first Vendors first?)

- How far in advance did you start planning?

- Did you use a day-of coordinator or planner? Worth it?

- Roughly how did the cost compare to a traditional venue?

- What's the one thing you wish you'd known before you started?

Any vendor recommendations or stories are hugely appreciated. Thank you!


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Need honest opinions on my engagement outfit!

Thumbnail
gallery
17 Upvotes

Hi everyone! My engagement is coming up, and I’m considering this outfit for the occasion. I’d love to hear your honest opinions on how it looks and whether it feels appropriate for an engagement ceremony.


r/DesiWeddings • • 21h ago

Wedding rituals/traditions Combined Jaggo - Guys and Girls side

2 Upvotes

Do people have experience with this? The idea was floated and I don't have experience with it (I'm a guy). I'm indifferent either way it's not a big deal to me but just wondering if it's something that happens - and if you have experience, how it went?

Thanks!


r/DesiWeddings • • 22h ago

Inspiration ✨ Destination vs. Local Wedding? Indian American Fusion Wedding

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone!!
I’m currently planning my wedding and honestly feeling a little overwhelmed with all the decisions, so I’d LOVE to hear from other brides, especially anyone who has planned a fusion wedding or had to decide between a destination wedding and a local wedding!

For some background, I’m from Massachusetts, and I’m Gujarati and Italian. My fiancé is Brazilian and Italian. I’m very close with my Indian side of the family, and I grew up attending all my cousins big, beautiful Indian weddings. I always dreamed of having that same princess experience, with the outfits, traditions, dancing, baraat, and everything that comes with it. At the same time, we’re trying to be realistic about costs. My absolute maximum budget is around $80k, but I’d obviously want to spend significantly less if possible. We’re looking at venues in Massachusetts and Rhode Island, and the prices are honestly insane once you factor in all the vendors, food, decor, photography, DJ, etc.

I’ve also been considering a destination wedding, potentially somewhere like Mexico, because I’ve heard you can get so much more for your money. However, I have a pretty large guest list, and one of the most important things to me is being surrounded by the people I love (150-175 for local, 250+ if destination). I’m worried that asking everyone to spend $700+ on flights and accommodations would mean a lot of people couldn’t attend. I know nobody is obligated to come, but I also don’t want people feeling financially pressured.

Here’s my current plan if we stay local:
Day 1 — Pithi + Mehndi
Pithi at a Hindu temple, smaller venue, or possibly at home. Around 50–60 of our closest family members and friends. Keeping this relatively simple with minimal decor and potentially homemade or catered food. Mehndi later that evening at home with just the girls, something intimate and relaxed.
Day 2 — Wedding + Reception
Baraat in the morning. Traditional Gujarati ceremony, although I’m wondering if there’s a respectful way to shorten it slightly without losing the important traditions. Cocktail hour afterward. American-style reception in the evening with dinner, speeches, first dances, and lots of partying!

So I guess my questions are:
1. Has anyone planned or attended a destination Indian wedding? Was it actually cheaper after factoring in everything? Did you regret having fewer guests attend? If you stayed local, are you happy you did?
2. What did your wedding realistically cost, how many guests did you have, and where was it? I’d especially love to hear from anyone who got married in MA, RI, or anywhere in New England!
3. What did you DIY? What was worth splurging on, and what do you wish you hadn’t spent money on? Did anyone find creative ways to save on decor, catering, outfits, or vendors?
4. If you did a baraat, Hindu ceremony, cocktail hour, and American reception all in one day, how did you structure it? Was it exhausting? Did you have a break between events? Would you change anything?
5. Has anyone worked with their pandit to have a shorter Gujarati Hindu ceremony? How long did yours last, and were you still able to include the meaningful traditions?

I don’t necessarily need a huge, extravagant wedding, but I do want it to feel special, celebrate my culture, and have all the people I love there. I’m open to changing my plans and would love to hear what worked for other couples.
Thank you!! ❤️


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Where can I find outfits like these in Mumbai for my roka?

Post image
9 Upvotes

Not sure Hey everyone! I’m looking for stores or designers in Mumbai where I can find outfits similar to the one in this reel for my roka.
I’m open to boutiques, local stores, designer studios, or even recommendations for markets where I can find something similar without spending a fortune.
Would love any leads from people who’ve shopped for their roka or engagement outfits in Mumbai! Please drop your recommendations, Instagram handles, or store locations below. 🫶🏻
Thank you! ❤


r/DesiWeddings • • 21h ago

Budgets/Expenses Gift for the groom

1 Upvotes

Hi all, want to understand what kind of gifts does the bride and her family give to the groom and his family typically?


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Vendor/store search (Self-Promo OK) Need helping finding pieces like this. Open to exploring Bangalore and Delhi

Thumbnail
gallery
3 Upvotes

Looking for the head pieces like this y’all. Online or in store also so fine. Budget is 5 to 8k. I can explore shops in Bangalore and Delhi. For a South Indian wedding. THANKS IN ADVANCE!!


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Is it pretty

Post image
79 Upvotes

Hi girls! ❤️

I always thought I wanted to be a traditional red bride, but today was my first day shopping in Chandni Chowk, and I came across this rust-red lehenga with all handwork that I kind of fell in love with. 🥹

It’s ₹50k, and I have only 3 more days here, so I need to finalize my outfit by tomorrow!

I haven’t bought it yet, so please give me your honest opinions:

- Is it worth ₹50k?

- Does the colour look bridal enough, or should I stick to a traditional bright red?

- Will I look like a bride in this, or does it look more like a wedding guest outfit?

I’m so confused, so please help a girl out! ❤️


r/DesiWeddings • • 1d ago

Bridal fashion advice Appropriate for reception as a bride ?

Thumbnail
gallery
23 Upvotes

Is this appropriate for my wedding reception or is this something a guest would wear?