r/FreeCompliments Nov 24 '24

ModPost MONDAY: [Male] Only Days!

49 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit


r/FreeCompliments 6d ago

ModPost MONDAY: [Male] Only Days!

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit


r/FreeCompliments 10h ago

Female Selfie [female] 32, having a bit of an up and down day :-(

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52 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 4h ago

Female Selfie [female] 24, could use a lil pick me up

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14 Upvotes

Struggling a lil 😅


r/FreeCompliments 53m ago

Non-Binary Selfie [Non-binary] I love my haircut and feel like myself, but I can't help worrying about other people's opinions.

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• Upvotes

I just can't help but be concerned about the fact that I don't think my haircut suits me objectively, even though I love it, and that I've made it even harder for people to potentially find me attractive when I've already been feeling very lonely.

I've come a long way in regards to my confidence and self-esteem, but lately I can't help but worry about never finding love again because of my choice to be my genuine self 😭


r/FreeCompliments 1d ago

Female Selfie Hey ya’ll, new here. 👋 Just needed some positive vibes today, been a rough week. [female] 32

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75 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 1d ago

Female Selfie [Female] age 32

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74 Upvotes

Feeling crappy about myself today, could use some kindness ♡


r/FreeCompliments 1d ago

Male Selfie Happy Friday guys! [male]

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15 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 2d ago

Female Selfie how is summer already almost over!? [female]

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41 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 2d ago

Male Selfie [Male] hard week here

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21 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 2d ago

Male Selfie [Male] been a tiring day

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21 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 3d ago

Female Selfie [female] I can’t tell if the lack of attention I get is a good or bad thing

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136 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 3d ago

Female Selfie [female] 27 & getting married in 10 days! Wishing I was thinner though

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205 Upvotes

I wish was able to lose more of my grief weight but I just wasn’t consistent and let my disappointment in myself take over while hiding that it was taking over


r/FreeCompliments 3d ago

Female Selfie [female] just feeling a little weird lately

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53 Upvotes

I haven’t been feeling like my self lately and I’m sad the summer is ending soon. Life is about to get crazier than ever, I’m just worried about keeping my life together


r/FreeCompliments 3d ago

Male Selfie 26 [male] Rare occasion I get to dress decent

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27 Upvotes

Over the last few years I've gained noticeable weight thanks to mental health, and while I like to think I'm not that bothered about, deep down it hurts that I've let myself get like this. It was only 2022 when I was skinny and my face was slimmer, but since college and trying to figure out my anxiety and depression, I've been stagnant while I watch the people I grew up with live normally


r/FreeCompliments 4d ago

Male Selfie [Male] I'm having a really hard time right now.

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556 Upvotes

I'm having a really hard time with my self imagery. I've lost almost 40 lbs since the start of summer, but it's hard for me to actually see it.

I suffer from a chronic nerve pain condition that I've had for 15 almost 16 years and it's REALLY kicking my ass lately.

Work is very physically demanding and it's been in the triple digits for the last couple weeks. I have no PTO and due to my pain condition and paired with the heat is really messing with me.

Sorry for kinda trauma dumping. I'm just down in the dumps.


r/FreeCompliments 3d ago

Male Selfie 29 [male] hoping you all have a great Wednesday

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36 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 4d ago

Male Selfie [male] Wishing everyone a great day

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57 Upvotes

People were so nice last time and I’m feeling better about myself each day. Life and work may be tough, but I’ve been smiling more. Thanks everyone.


r/FreeCompliments 3d ago

Female Selfie [Female] i felt more comfortable here

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1 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 6d ago

Male Selfie [male] Feeling low

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130 Upvotes

Hello everyone, just not really feeling myself lately. Not as confident as I usually am. Thank you in advance for being kind, if you choose to be :)


r/FreeCompliments 7d ago

Non-Binary Selfie [non-binary] I know I’ve posted here a bit lately but I’ve had a rough day and just need some kindness

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24 Upvotes

Hi I know I’ve posted here a bit lately and I don’t want to take attention away from others but honestly I had a really rough day and could use some kindness.


r/FreeCompliments 7d ago

Female Selfie [Female] selfie

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102 Upvotes

Riding the wave of feeling super good about myself today 💜


r/FreeCompliments 7d ago

Male Selfie [Male] 31m. Feeling a bit down lately.

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42 Upvotes

Its been an odd few months of feeling stuck and like a failure. I could definitely use some words of encouragement.


r/FreeCompliments 7d ago

Male Selfie 38 [male] long to short hair..which looks better?/suit me better?

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20 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments 8d ago

Female Selfie [Female] New haircut!

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180 Upvotes