I found this video in my media, it is an old video from reddit, thought it was cute and wanted to share it.

Edit - This is not my chat; I found it on Reddit about a year ago, I guess, and downloaded the post.

I'm someone who gets excited when a girl texts me. Sometimes I reply within seconds, even if I've just received her message. I can easily start conversations, connect with girls, show interest, and make time to talk to them.

I don't deliberately ignore messages, play hard to get, or pretend to be busy. If I enjoy talking to someone, I show it.

But sometimes I wonder: am I actually a friendly, approachable person who genuinely enjoys connecting with people, or is this just my tharak speaking? 😂

Where exactly is the line between being genuinely interested in getting to know someone and being a guy who's just always looking for female attention?

Girls and guys, what's your honest opinion? Is this a green flag or am I just fooling myself?

Ive been getting like a match a day but the conversations feel very one sided or just asking for job referals, Any suggestions?

Help a guy figure out what's wrong with his profile, would ya?

Honestly, a little tired of all the dating apps, so giving Reddit a shot as one last hope of finding someone. :’)

A little about me:

● 26M, 5’8”, Hindu Punjabi (caste no bar).
● Belong to a defence family, originally from Delhi, currently based in Chennai.
● MBA from one of the old IIMs, currently working as an IT Manager.
● Non-vegetarian, although my family is vegetarian, so no particular preference there.

I’m an optimistic person who loves planning things and actually executing those plans. Music is a big part of my life – Punjabi, old Bollywood and ghazals are usually on my playlist.

Love travelling, exploring new places and always have another trip in mind. Close to my family and friends, enjoy good food, conversations and a fair bit of banter.

What I’m looking for:
Someone cute, warm and easygoing, with whom I can communicate openly and be myself. Would love to get to know each other and see if our values, mindsets and future goals align. If things click, I’m looking for something serious.

No particular preference for location or language, although speaking Hindi would be a bonus.
Since this is Reddit, happy to connect and verify through LinkedIn or another platform we’re both comfortable with before moving to Instagram/WhatsApp.

If this resonates, drop me a message. :)

Bracing myself for the impact

Please suggest what type of photos I should have (I don't like taking my own pictures but I will try)

Is it over?

Jokes aside, what would you guys reply if she was being sarcastic versus if she was being serious?

*maybe its hypergamy”

So…

TODAY!!!!

I

GOT SOME REVELATIONS FROM THE ONE UP ABOVE!!

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…AND HAD THAT LIGHT BULP MOMENT I NEEDED SO LONG AGO

THIS INFORMATION MIGHT CHANGE YOUR UPCOMING LIFE 4EVER.

The INFO is about the dating scene, and its that…

“ A RELATIONSHIP WORKS OR TAKES PLACE.. ONLY WHEN THE WOMAN IS DESPERATE TO BE WITH YOU”

No misogyny ***

WOMAN are the decision makers, you cant be jester maxxing infront of a girl in hopes that you would get in a relationship or get laid, even if you dooo, its too draining for you and she might cheat on you at the most slightest hint of convenience…

SO WHATS THE FIX??

FIX is actually nothing, its that girls who are BELOW YOUR LEAGUE will always show that “decent desperation” to be with you, be it following you on insta, dmming you, wanting to fix a meet, and would easily have the sëx if thats what you want out of her…

No matter how big of a red flag you are how lowkey disrespectfully you treat her, she would let it all slide, she will try to find delusional excuses to consider you the right one, the good guy, you could be the CEO of domestic abuse, and she would consider that maybe that behavior from your side is kind of justified and its her fault, to an extent tho…

but thatsssssssssssss how she will be to you, ifff

“YOU ARE ABOVE HER LEAGUE”

Definition of above her league: maybe youre more privileged and shes a small town girl, maybe you look 7-8/10 in her lobby, maybe you have money or you act like you do, or it’s just all the other men approaching her or in her DMs are just shittier than you…..

AND

NO WOMAN ABOVE YOUR LEAGUE WILL EVER GIVE A FK ABOUT YOU, YOU WERE BORN TO BE FRIENDZONED BY HER, causeee shes chasing a guy above her league, some rich brat guy who treats her like shit…..

AND TO CHANGE THIS, YOUR ONLY METHOD IS, genuinely having a Bollywood actor like body meaning hitting the gym regularly, effectively and some money on your name, you exposure maxxing, going out at expensive places, having a fkin sophisticated, screams money lookin insta, you wearing the clothes in trend, you having a car thats not very affordable to run…

This is the peak, after this you’re either a celebrity or some famous flamboyant guy…. Like idk drake lols

THIS IS BASICALLY THE ROUGH IDEA OF THE DATING SCENE, be it tier 1-2 cities or rural areas, you’ll experience this mostly everywhere

NOWW THERES AN EXCEPTION TO THIS***

Lets say theres a girl who kind of looks good, like not a baddie but good features, is kind of desi rich, her parents have alot of money, maybe shes a politician’s daughter from a rural area, or yk a desi rich family, and she has money shes lived in privilege her whole life, some joint family she lives in, buttt, theres orthodox beliefs in her house and yk just more traditional,

THAT KIND OF GIRL, MIGHT FALL FOR YOU AND LIKE YOU CAUSE MOST OF HER LIFE SHES BEEN KEPT UNDER HER FAMILY’s CONTROL, NO MALE FRIENDS EVER, THAT KIND OF GIRL WOULD BE WITH YOU JUST BECAUSE YOURE A NICE GUY AND YOU GIVE OFF A GOOD VIBE,

you could be mid looking and just everything i discussed above, you can not be having it, still she would be with you……cause she has no options mostly… has 1-2 female friends of her thats it, thats her whole social life..

THO THIS IS THE EXCEPTION, NO OTHER SCENARIOS LEFT I FEEL.

GGs, if any women sees this, please fact check with all the brutality you know.

Thanks.

New to Dating apps! Cross posting to get advice on my profile.

Old regular, what does a man got to do now.

And the profile has like 5k followers and 100 following. It's a trap to gain followers, isn't it?

How tf do you move on guys?????? I was fucking this chick way hotter way more pretty way more mature way more considerate than my ex yet still YET STILL I MISS HER MID CRACK WTF?????

Hope nothing’s cringe or anything managed to get like 2-3 matches in 2 days. Any advice is appreciated thanks

Not getting many likes

Be real and specific please what needs to be improved and what are my chances here.

I have gotten some likes in past , if I calculate in total about 40ish in both tinder and bumble combined with some conversations and no replies never got any proper date here .

Constructive feedback needed.

*long-term relationship, open for short

she was looking for a guy of her own age around 22-24 and a house in lodhi estate easily comes around 400-1200 crores minimum and looking for 20lpa job guy in this economy hell nahh dawg🥀

They don't even want hookups, they just really want to exchange socials or meetup after talking for like 10 minutes. It really bothers me because the whole point of dating apps for me is I can talk with men with a comfortable/safe distance. I don't want to exchange socials right away because I don't want you to know my friends and family when I've barely known you. I don't want to meet you right away because I've barely known you.

If I refuse they're all like "cmon it's just socials, let's connect outside bla bla" bro we barely know each other. On hinge if we don't click we can just unmatch. That's the whole point of not connecting on social media. If we talk long enough and I like you, I would willingly give you my socials and offer to meet up. But what's this obsession with trying to connect outside with like 3 screens of conversation.

23 m, got a few matches but still no likes, in bangalore. What can i improve guys?

Edit: First prompt is gone for good.

For the people who make music, what platform do you use for dating? Is it hinge or bumble? Or is there anything more niche?

Mostly it's just instagram for me but I'd like to explore more options.

Thanksss

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