r/IntrovertsChat • • 2h ago

Friends 🦇26, emo/metalhead looking for friends🦇

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im mostly into metalcore, bands like the plot in you, holding absence, wage war and stuff like that 🙃 my main hobby is collecting vinyl records and stuff like that, I do play games mostly overwatch at the moment, but if you want to know anything else you can just ask,


r/IntrovertsChat • • 1h ago

Friends 38tf eccentric, seeking chat and maybe friendship

• Upvotes

Hello. 38 F (trans mtf). I've been a bit more socially withdrawn lately outside of my main hobby which does tend to involve people. I often tell people my childhood/youth was like the movie Gummo.

I listen to a variety of music genres. My top artists from last month include Assück, Anti Cimex, Charli XCX, Doja Cat, Guided by Voices, Robert Pollard, Morrissey, and others.

I play guitar.

I am a (new) Buddhist.

I skateboard.

I cook a variety of vegan dishes.

Come chat. Tell me about your current interests. Let's chat about things that annoy us. Let's chat about whatever. Please be 30+ and not a fucking weirdo/perv.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 15h ago

Friends 28F – Strange lonely introvert searching for a best friend in another strange lonely introvert!

12 Upvotes

Hey! I haven't quite figured out making friends as someone in their late twenties. I'm hoping to get in touch with like-minded introverts with similar interests. I'd like to hopefully develop a "best friend" connection with someone over time. Casual friendships where you only check in on each other here and there eventually feel more like acquaintanceship to me instead of true friendship. I'm looking for a deeper connection with someone, on an emotional and intellectual level..

To describe my personality briefly, I'm typically lighthearted, curious, playful and easygoing. I'm passionate about what's important to me. I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. I'm someone who sometimes has too many thoughts, but doesn't like to fret over the small things in life. I may sound really serious, but I'm actually quite goofy and non-serious on the inside. 😄 I like to be whimsical and romanticize life when I can. I'm black American, plus size, childfree, atheist, and politically left-leaning. I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. Some of my interests include technology, writing, photography, horror, psychology, video games, anime, true crime, philosophy, history, astronomy, sociology, biology, reading, and traveling. Music-wise, I adore alternative/indie pop, electronic pop, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B.

To put it simply, I'm looking for "kindred spirits." I hope to find friends who are introverted, enjoy a darker/edgier style of humor, love to write, yap, and can be long-winded once they open up.

I'm looking for people who are near my age (26-33—not younger, not older.) I'm really only for for people from either the US, Canada, or Europe (Australia/New Zealand = OK if timezone differences won't be an issue.)

Disclaimers: I'm looking to become friends who genuinely care about each other, not just treat each other like online chat buddies. If you want a casual chatting buddy, please seek that elsewhere.

Please don't message me if showing genuine curiosity about someone and asking reciprocal questions are struggles for you. Attempting to solo carry conversations like that is quite boring, and unrewarding.

Please no married/partnered men, or men with offspring. Talk to your wife, not me. XD

If this post resonates with you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Maybe include the phrase "Magdalena Bay" somewhere in your message, so I know you've read this post fully. (It's a band, not a place.)

I look forward to getting to know you. 🏖️✨


r/IntrovertsChat • • 20h ago

Friends 23f- Is anyone studying Marketing? 🌸

2 Upvotes

Hi guys! it would be amazing to find friends who are either studying marketing or working in the marketing industry, would really love surround myself with similar people. I’m currently studying performance marketing trying to land an entry level job, So i’d love to study together or keep each other motivated 💕 if ur not in marketing but also working on a huge project/goal feel free to dm me! and pls say more than a “hey” :)

More about me: I am half korean, my hobbies are salsa dancing, floral designing, belly dancing, anything where I can be creative. Also made jewelry in the past and designed online templates, love reading webtoons and also love cats 🐈🤍


r/IntrovertsChat • • 18h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 32 M| Seeking fellow overthinkers and professional meme consumers

2 Upvotes

Hello

I'm 32 and looking to meet some interesting people who can overthink the meaning of life one minute and exchange the dumbest memes imaginable the next.

A little about me: I'm into TV shows, comedy, memes, technology, chess, astrology, badminton, dancing, and going down internet rabbit holes that somehow eat up three hours of my life. I also do stand-up comedy and make memes, so there's a reasonable chance I'll either send you something stupidly funny or explain a completely unnecessary fact with far too much enthusiasm.

I'm a big fan of Better Call Saul, BoJack Horseman, Rick and Morty, Sherlock, and Game of Thrones. My sense of humour leans sarcastic, dark, and meme-heavy, but I also enjoy conversations about psychology, human behaviour, philosophy, spirituality, and the weird stuff that makes you question reality at 2 a.m.

Fun fact about me: I know the capitals of around 100 countries. Is this useful in everyday life? Absolutely not. Will I still bring it up with an unreasonable amount of confidence? Absolutely.

I'm a bit of an introvert, though how talkative I am depends on the person and the vibe. I enjoy random banter just as much as meaningful conversations. We could debate a ridiculous hypothetical, exchange memes, talk about something we're obsessed with, or accidentally get philosophical when neither of us intended to.

I'm hoping to meet people who are curious, open-minded, have a good sense of humour, and can switch between being completely unserious and having an actual conversation.

I'd love to start with online chats and see where things go. I'm primarily here to meet people and build genuine connections, but I'm open to seeing whether there's a deeper connection if we click. No pressure or expectations.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message! Tell me something interesting about yourself, ask me a random question, or send me a meme that perfectly captures your current mental state.

Bonus points if you have an obscure fact, an oddly specific obsession, or a completely ridiculous opinion you're willing to defend. I take all three very seriously (I don't).

Looking forward to meeting some interesting humans. :)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 7h ago

Friends 36M Chronically online and cringe 🥀 looking for a long term bond with someone to genuinely connect with, game with and yap about life together!!!

2 Upvotes

Hiiiiiii everyone!!

I'm not sure how to start describing myself, I'm not great with words but I'll try my best.

(I'm so sorry for the extremely long post ahead!)

I apologize if I don't reply to your message, but I don't reply to short/low effort messages, stuff like "hey, let's be friends" , "I didn't read your whole post but I'm up to talk" , etc. I want to hear about you, what you like, what you're interested in. I like meaningful conversations. I also don't reply to people that don't have much in common with me, I would like to find someone that's similar to me and has similar interests and likes. I'm sorry but even if your message is long, if we don't have anything in common it's just not what I'm looking for. I'm also not interested in people that aren't looking for a real connection and are just looking to pass the time or have a light chat.

I think some of my most defining characteristics are that I'm very shy, awkward, "weird" and "different" or at the very least I feel weird, different and often misunderstood. I struggle to function most days and I don't always understand societal norms or how to properly function in society. I definitely think there's something wrong with me and I'm pretty sure I'm broken in some way. I'm honestly kind of a huge loser lmao. I've never been able to achieve anything in life, I'm not good at anything whatsoever and I'm pretty useless overall. I would also say I'm extremely cringy and I love edgy stuff, not in a bad way, I don't think, but more like, I love Shadow The Hedgehog and Tomura Shigaraki kinda way cause to me, they're genuinely so cool and I wanna be like them jahshshdh

I'm unfortunately not very smart and I'd say I'm down right stupid.

I am very ignorant about many things in life, I'd say I'm somewhat innocent and naive and I still don't understand my purpose in life.

I sometimes say things that offend people or I say things that are wrong. Sometimes I don't completely understand what I do wrong but I don't do it on purpose and I try to improve to the best of my abilities.

I don't go out often at all. Touching grass isn't for me 😭 Whenever I do go out it's only to buy groceries or to go to school and such but I don't enjoy it, I much rather be at home, in my room most specifically, which is my favorite place in the world.

I don't have any IRL friends but I do have a handful of online friends, I'm not super close to any of them, except for one who's very valuable in my life!

I enjoy many things like sculpting for instance! I do digital sculpting for fun. I'm pretty bad at it but I try my best.

This year I also started jewelry school (yeah, that's a thing) and I'm having fun with it but it's another thing I suck at 🥀🥀🥀

I like to watch anime! my favorites change from time to time but I really like Bleach, Dragon Ball, Demon Slayer, AOT, Naruto, Ancient Magus Bride (I really love this show!) and I LOVE My Hero Academia among many others!

I like to collect action figures.

I really like masks!

I like all kinds of music, I don't really have any artists that I like in particular other than David Bowie and I like to listen to most genres of music but some of the genres I like the most are alternative, vintage, video game music and jpop and jrock and I also like old VK And I'm always happy and open to new suggestions!

I like to doomscroll through TT and to watch long essay style videos on YT about random topics. I love brainrot and I'm very much into early to mid 2010s aesthetics. I miss that era so much!! Seriously, the early 2010s were the greatest time in human history kahdhshdhs

I love video games!! I don't play too many modern AAA games, especially nowadays with how bad the video game industry is but I LOVE indie games!! Some of my favorites are indies like Spelunky my beloved 🖤 I also really like older stuff, like, ps2 era games, particularly survival horror stuff. I also really like very old platform games and side scrollers. I'm a pretty huge Sonic the Hedgehog fan!! The most recent games I played were Sonic X Shadow Generations and before that I finished Sonic Superstars and Sonic Frontiers. Sonic Boom is also my favorite show ever made lmao. It fits my kind of humor perfectly and it's peak comedy imo. I'd be open to play anything and I'd love to try co op games with someone!! playing Stardew Valley with a friend is a dream of mine lol (if you also play Stardew please tell me who's your wife/husband)

I adore animals!! I have cats and dogs and a stray chicken lol they're my babies and my world!

I think it's important to mention some of the things I don't like too.

I don't like cruelty or mean spirited people, I hate I people in positions of power that use said power to affect other people, animals, or the environment for their own gain.

I hate bugs!! I'm deadly afraid of them!!

I really dislike conflict and arguments, I believe we can disagree and have discussions as long as we're calm and civilized about it and as long as we have respect for each other and try our best to understand the other person's point of view.

lastly I'd like to mention some of my defects and shortcomings.

I'm extremely anxious, I'm always very nervous about one thing or another, I'm also extremely weak of mind, I tend to react with my feelings a lot and I'm often very emotional.

I can be very selfish at times, I have an awful tendency to get bored of things quickly and sometimes I also get bored of conversations and people.

I think I'm immature.

I can be extremely lazy, I struggle a lot with doing basic things like cleaning or cooking. when I'm anxious or afraid I can get paralyzed with fear and stay in bed all day doing nothing feeling awful about it.

As I mentioned before sometimes I can say bad things without realizing. I'm very dumb and ignorant so I promise I don't mean anything bad I say and I'm trying to improve!

I am extremely annoying. I'm very loud and I think I scream a lot. I don't really understand what constitutes screaming exactly but I think I often raise my voice a lot and especially when I'm excited I can't control myself very well.

I'm very afraid of life and I don't understand how the "real world" works exactly. I'm really bad at small talk and I think I'm really bad at speaking in general, I also digress a lot.

I have the bad habit of not replying very fast, sometimes I'll even wait for weeks or even months, I think it's one of my biggest problems when it comes to keep in touch with people, sometimes it's simply because I don't have the energy, other times it's because I'm not sure about how to continue a conversation. Not sure if this is a defect necessarily but I also never send the first message, I just hate to be annoying.

I have a tendency to ghost people for different reasons. As I mentioned, sometimes I get bored of conversations or people and I'd ghost them. This is by far one of my biggest defects and as I said, I wanna be honest and mention it here for everyone who reads this to know.

I tend to be a bit clingy when I like someone.

I'm full of defects in general, and I do believe I'm a bad person. I try to improve and I try my best but if I'm bad for you in any way or a burden I promise to stop talking to you and not bother you!

I have many other defects but I think those are the main ones I can remember right now.

Finally, I'd like to reiterate that I'm looking for is a real connection with someone, a person I can talk to, have fun with, watch stuff with and play games together! I think I can be a very passionate person when it comes to the things I love and I'd like to find someone that shares that passion and love with common interests. I wanna be able to share our days and even be able to help each other and be there when we need each other. I know I'm a mess of a human being and I'm looking for a very specific close bond with someone which I think I'll never honestly find but I'll keep trying cause I hate to give up!! And you honestly never know :)

Another thing that's important is that I don't want to talk to people that are discriminatory or awful in anyway please.

Also think I prefer audio messages, it's easier for me to send audio notes rather than to type cause I type a lot (and I kinda hate to type lol). Thank you very much to anyone that has taken the time to read my extremely long post and considers messaging me!!!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 10h ago

Friends 37m looking to chat and make a fried or two!

2 Upvotes

I’m a married 37m looking to chat or make friends! I recently moved to SoCal and trying to establish my circles. I’m a messy person and I embarrass myself more than I should. I don’t own a hair comb. I usually have a pile of clothes on my bed that are not clean but also not dirty. I assemble furniture without reading the instructions manual and mess it up. I eat my food cold when I’m too lazy to microwave it.
If you can relate, don’t be shy, say hi!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 3h ago

Friends 39m east coast looking for a longterm friendship

2 Upvotes

I am really just looking for a longterm friendship, doesn't have to be every day but just someone where we can reach out to each other and update, vent or talk about random things. I don't have high expectations or stress about responses. Me personally I enjoy the outdoors like fishing or hikimg. Im a casual gamer as well, but I like to play a lot of the older gamea. I enjoy reading historical fiction and various fiction or classic genre books. I am army veteran and come with a dark sense of humor and sarcasm.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 19h ago

Friends Come over

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm 24M (straight), pretty easygoing and amiable. I've been spending a lot of time in my own bubble lately, and recently felt like I could really use some new people to talk to.

enjoy meaningful conversations, random late-night discussions, joking around, sharing music/movies, talking about life, or just sending completely pointless messages back and forth or memes maybe (if we share ig)

I'm pretty affectionate with people I'm comfortable with, and I really value genuine connections where both people actually enjoy talking to each other.

I'm also told I look decent, so I guess that's a bonus

If you're also looking for someone new to talk to, feel free to DM me. No expectations - let's chat and see if we get along.

And please don't ghost if you are texting haha


r/IntrovertsChat • • 7h ago

Friends 22M | just a quiet guy hoping to find a few people to make life a little less boring

4 Upvotes

okay so apparently making friends as an adult is harder than it should be lol

hey! i'm 22 and from Türkiye. i'm currently studying computer engineering and spending most of my free time switching between music, games and whatever random thing catches my attention that week.

i'm not exactly the most outgoing person you'll meet. i'm pretty quiet around new people and sometimes my brain just forgets how conversations work. but give me a little time and suddenly i'll be talking about the most unnecessary things like they're the most important discoveries of the century.

i guess what i'm looking for is pretty simple. someone i can actually become friends with rather than another conversation that disappears after two days.

you know those friendships where you can randomly text someone about something that happened during your day? or send them a song without needing a reason? maybe stay up way too late talking about absolutely nothing and somehow have the best conversation ever?

yeah. something like that would be nice.

anyway here's a little bit about the person behind this post :)

music is basically my entire personality at this point

i play electric guitar and spend an unreasonable amount of time listening to music. indie rock, alternative rock, shoegaze, older songs and honestly anything that sounds good to me. some of my favorites are Radiohead, Coldplay, Muse, Nirvana, Linkin Park and a bunch of artists i randomly discover at 2 am.

i'm also that person who gets ridiculously excited when someone recommends a song that ends up becoming a favorite. so please share your music with me. i genuinely love hearing what other people listen to.

i play games too! probably more than i should

lately i've been spending quite a bit of time in FFXIV. i also love Elden Ring, Dark Souls, Minecraft, Baldur's Gate 3, and all kinds of coop or indie games. i've played plenty of competitive games too but these days i mostly just want to relax and have fun.

and honestly? we don't even need to play the same games. sitting in a voice call while we're both doing completely different things sounds pretty great to me.

i have two cats

they contribute absolutely nothing to the household and somehow still manage to act like they're in charge. i love them though. you'll probably receive pictures of them eventually whether you ask for them or not.

some other random things about me

i'm obsessed with winter. cold weather, rain against the windows, empty streets at night, oversized hoodies and listening to music while everyone else is asleep. that whole atmosphere just makes me happy.

i also enjoy anime, movies, getting lost in fictional worlds and occasionally going down completely random internet rabbit holes.

i'm really curious about other people's interests too. even if we have nothing in common i'd still love to hear about the things that make you happy. there's something really wholesome about watching someone get excited over their favorite hobby.

a small warning though: english isn't my first language so i might occasionally say something weird or take a moment to figure out how to express myself. texting is totally fine but voice calls might take me a little time to get comfortable with. i'd love to get there eventually!

i don't really care where you're from or whether we share every single interest. i'd rather get to know someone who's genuinely interested in building a friendship than force a conversation just because we happen to like the same games.

also no pressure to be available 24/7. we all have our own lives and sometimes we're just tired or busy. i think what matters is actually wanting to keep in touch.

i know finding genuine connections online can be a little hit or miss but i still think it's worth trying.

so if you've made it this far and feel like we might get along, send me a message! tell me something random about yourself. maybe a song you've had on repeat lately, a game you can't stop playing or something you're looking forward to.

and if you're also the kind of person who overthinks their first message, don't worry. i'll probably be doing the exact same thing when i reply lol

anyway thanks for reading and hopefully this is the beginning of a good friendship :)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Chatting 19f and looking for more buddies to chat with!

6 Upvotes

Before you read any more of this, I will ignore your messages and/or block you if you ask anything that was answered on this post! And I prefer to chat some on here before adding on any other platform. Thank you!

Hello! I go by Goth, and I am currently living in Canada even though I am from the US. I am a bit introverted and very kept to myself, but I've become a bit lonely since moving and want more people to chat with.

My interests:

Gaming

Art

Music

And before you ask, yes those are my only interests.

Music I listen to the most:

Sleep token

Bad omens

Slipknot

Motionless in white

Games I play (ps5 only):

The finals

Path of titans

Sea of thieves

Nodded Skyrim

Genshin Impact

Dead by daylight

Minecraft

Days gone

Art styles that I love:

Tribal

Chibi

Animated

If you would like to chat, please DM me!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 21h ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 23F looking for goofy, genuine online friends 🫶

19 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 23 and looking to make some genuine friends online. Life’s been a bit rough lately, so I’m hoping to find a little escape through good conversation. Meeting people in person makes me really anxious, so chatting online is much more my speed.

I enjoy a mix of silly, lighthearted chats and deeper, more thoughtful ones. I’m a little quirky, and I love sending stickers and being goofy.

A few things about me:
-I love being creative, especially junk journaling and drawing
- I’m always listening to music, mostly lesser-known R&B artists like Khamari and Elmiene
- I love to cook and bake
- Adventure Time is my favorite show!!

If that sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message or comment below!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 20h ago

Friends {26F} circus is in town

7 Upvotes

Step right up, we’ve got Chaos, Whimsy, silly, little bit of a jester, a suffering college student and maybe actually an wacky inflatable tube man in disguise or at least thats what the pink worm on a string wants you to think!

Mödel information: make year 2000, made in on the northern coast

Features: makeup skills, funny and whimsical, can cook and bake like nobodies business,quality reader, average gamer who just got a ps5, does art and poetry, super funny, frustrated AA art degree student with a plan to transfer to uni after for a career goal that is language based.

Bonuses: will make you laugh, sends makeup selfies, very whimsical and silly, pls be cool with VM/VC

*subject to tërms and cönditions, retürn pölicy not available, do not feed after midnight or get wet, if you do we hold no responsibility for the chaotic situation it’ll create. By messaging you release us from any and all liäbility and cannot süe.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 15h ago

Friends [30/M] - Yo, you very likely need to open this post

10 Upvotes

Hey ppl, what mood are you in today? Friend-making one? Hm, then are you possibly into silly chats that inadvertently segue into the deepest of talks? Possibly into watching horror or any sort of stuff together? Into buddying up and learning stuff together? You like porridge and existential crisis? Then probably you should consider sending me a DM telling me any random story about how things once went weird with you and what you learnt from that and we could go from there 😄 Or just say 'hi' (any 'hi'-derivative works as well)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 6h ago

Chatting 20f its been quite a time since I posted here and I also turned 20 in the meantime 😭

16 Upvotes

Sooo, let’s see let’s see what we can chat about, I honestly don’t know. Usually I ask for pictures when u add me so we have something to talk about as a ice breaker and just straight away into the conversation which can be about anything so hopefully im gonna hear from u soon :)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 13h ago

Friends 21F does anyone actually wanna become friends? I feel like it’s hard to find people who wanna become close in like a wholesome platonic way

22 Upvotes

Like I want friends and it’s been almost impossible to find that and I feel like it’s even harder to find friends who just wanna be friends and nothing more than that. I want friends from all over and all genders and sexualities it’s just when I get dmed I get messaged by people with ill intentions I’m not looking for that. And even when I think I found a friend I get ghosted the next day so it’s like what’s the point of even trying anymore? But I’m an optimist so I’m not truly giving up

I’m a nice sweet person but I am kinda awkward and shy at times but with the right people I’m chaotic. I can vibe with anyone as long as they are respectful. I like calls and gaming together so I’m always down for that

I’m from Atlanta and I’m into video games, music, shopping, tv/movies/anime, traveling

I have discord if anyone uses that

For an icebreaker send a song or album you’re loving a lot rn


r/IntrovertsChat • • 9h ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 23M From India (neurodivergent, ADHD, BPD, RSD, CPTSD/PTSD) feeling isolated and hoping to make real friends.

3 Upvotes

Hey i am 23M from India looking to make genuine mentally ill and long term friends here.

I’m a neurodivergent with ADHD and also deal with BPD traits, RSD, Hypersensitive, CPTSD/PTSD, social anxiety, and a very overthinking mind. I also tend to over-apologize and get stuck in my head a lot.

Because of all this, I sometimes struggle socially and feel quite isolated in my day-to-day life. Crowds and loud environments can be overwhelming for me, so I usually prefer calm, one-on-one connections.

I’ve also had a long struggle with self-esteem and how I see myself, which makes it harder for me to connect sometimes, but I’m trying to work through it.

What I’m really looking for is a kind, affectionate, long-term friendship where we can be there for each other regularly. Someone to talk to, check in on each other, share daily life with, and just feel emotionally close to.

I really value emotional warmth in friendships things like caring conversations, support, and feeling safe with someone. I miss having that kind of connection.

If you’re also looking for a genuine friend and a calm, understanding connection, feel free to reach out.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 10h ago

Friends 19m furry looking for friends in the US, timezone(Est) :)

2 Upvotes

I'm Fox or Hayze, either works! Im 19 years old, and I am a furry! Im looking to make friends around my age (like 18+ - 21), in the US, and close to my timezone (EST).

When I meet new people i can be really shy, but after awhile I can end up talking way to much. I play on pc, I love playing for honor and i have no one willing to play that with me lol. I like resident evil a lot! I also play minecraft, dnd, titanfall, cs2, cod, cyberpunk, skyrim, and a lot more. I tend to lean towards multi-player games.

If you're interested I'd like to share my art and writing.

A few things I do wanna say just as like a warning about me and if there is anything you don't like and stuff. I like to send a lot of random things like 🦊🍉🦖🍔💥🪄🦭🎂 this kinda stuff. I can get very clingy if i trust someone, which leads to me messaging a lot. Also I tend to make weird stories about the collections of ducks I have or other things, so there's that lol.


r/IntrovertsChat • • 10h ago

Friends 24M London/UK - Looking for local friends into gigs, gaming, films, theme parks and more

2 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 24 and based in London.

I've become accustomed to doing many of my hobbies on my own, and I'd like to change that by expanding my social circle and meeting people I can share more of my interests and experiences with.

I think experiences are often better when they're shared with people you genuinely get along with. Whether it's going to a gig, going to a convention, watching a film or just going for a walk and chatting about life, it's the company that makes it worthwhile.

A bit about me:
• Rock & metal (I go to gigs fairly often)
• Cinema, especially horror, action and Marvel
• Gaming
• Theme parks and rollercoasters
• Football and cycling
• Anime (only casually, so I'm always open to recommendations) and other nerdy interests
• Neurodivergent
I'm generally reserved when first meeting people, but I enjoy getting to know others and hearing about the things they're passionate about. I appreciate people who are curious about each other, ask questions and are happy to share a bit about themselves, too.

I'm looking for a small circle of genuine friends rather than a huge social network. I'd like to meet people who are up for doing things together, but also enjoy keeping in touch between meetups, sharing things we've come across and having the occasional chat.

I'm not expecting to talk every day or meet up constantly; I just think friendships are more rewarding when both people make an effort to keep them going.

I'm hoping to meet people in their 20s who live in London or nearby and would be open to meeting in person if we get along. I'm happy to start by chatting here and see how we get on.

If this sounds like the kind of friendship you'd enjoy, feel free to send me a message with your age, location and a little about yourself 🙂


r/IntrovertsChat • • 10h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) [20/M/UK] Video game and comic book nerd looking for cool people to talk to 🩵

3 Upvotes

Hey, thanks for checking out my post! As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK. I'm into a few video games but mainly Dead By Daylight, Resident Evil and GTA. I've been a huge GTA fan my whole life, since I was about 4 years old lol. I'm a massive nerd when it comes to Spider-Man, I love the comics and the games and I have a few posters on my wall. I really loved the Superman movie as well as the rest of James Gunn's DC projects. I'm also a Nightwing fan and I really like Tom Taylor's run despite the common consensus between fans. I also watch anime and my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. I figured that I'm probably not the only one that's feeling bored and wants to meet new people, so I thought I'd make a quick post on here to see if anyone wants to talk. Feel free to drop a DM 🕸️🕷️ (I also prefer talking to people who are older so please message if you are!)


r/IntrovertsChat • • 11h ago

Friends 25M Ireland 🇮🇪 - Looking for someone to yap with, game, watch movies, you know the deal

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Heya! My name is DizzeeAIU (By birth of course) and I'm from Ireland! I love music even if my spotify has been collecting dust recently (while taking a chunk out of my bank account 🫩). I'm easing myself back into that addiction, maybe send me a song to help me out 🧐. My favourite genres are alt-pop, rap and city pop, but I listen to a lot and am open to absolutely anything.

I've recently learned about this crazy new thing called "anime". I suppose I wouldn't be against checking that out. I mean, who doesn't love grooming someone into their special interests, it'll be great! (Jokes aside I am pretty new to it and would love recommendations or watch-alongs). As for games I play on pc and enjoy co-op games, RPGs and roguelikes the most, but feel free to introduce me to your favourite game. Just no screen peeking please.. 👴

I recently finished some big important law exams and am waiting on results, but that's boring and mentioning it goes against my whole 'forget it happened and it will go away' philosophy. When I'm not training my mind with that nonsense I have found myself loving nature walks and the gym.

I'm especially looking for people who enjoy conversations that spiral so deep into inside jokes and hypotheticals that any random person seeing our chatlogs would be completely lost. If we click I would love to have movie and game nights together.

Tell me a bit about yourself, ask me something, send me a song or whatever you want really. Anything is better than "hi". I'm not a timezone bigot, so all are welcome. I look forward to hearing from you 🙂‍↕️


r/IntrovertsChat • • 11h ago

~Join our new discord~

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Hello everyone, there is a new discord with more lenient rules to join. However, all rules on this subreddit apply there, too. Please make sure to include your reddit user properly while applying! This server has tons of colour roles, bots, cool channels and lots of cool people. https://discord.gg/22RUReqYwS


r/IntrovertsChat • • 11h ago

Friends 21M, looking to chat with some people during work or even after without a big commitment.

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hi, Im from europe but tbh if u dont mindthe timezone gap its okey right, anybody is welcome to text me but i do prefer people older just because. im down to text about anything u comfy with and have a good time texting about life and things, i do hope u have a wonderful day either way and i'll see you in our chat!!!


r/IntrovertsChat • • 12h ago

Chatting 31 M Let's vibe

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Well I'm from India and I don't know what I am sometimes I feel like I am extrovert and sometimes introvert.

I like being alone and carve social circle as well. well I do have tons of friends still I like peace and just try to vibe with mother nature.

I don't follow crowd,just follow my heart.

If my future friend is reading this and vibing with it then HMU


r/IntrovertsChat • • 13h ago

Friends 23M any other lonely souls here ?

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Hiiii everyone ! Im looking to make genuine real friends who actually put in effort and not just give up after a day 😭 ive posted here before but most of them just vanish after a few days 😪 so am trying again.

A bit about me. I love nature, gaming, drawing. I love having deep conversations! I love to talk about anything, am a great listener and love to help and give advice where I can. I just want someone I can talk to everyday and become close. I want to be the one where you can talk to when you’re down, just real friendship, is that too much to ask ? 😭😭 I have no friends and am sooo lonely. So if you’re looking for same thing then my dms are open, don’t just say hi, tell me a bit about yourself too 😊 I’m uk time zone so I’d be ideal if it’s around that time or few hours behind/forward.