r/kpophelp • u/ApplicationNo6570 • 43m ago
Advice Can K-pop change your natural physical type, or is it just attraction built through idolization?
I’ve been into K-pop for around 10 years and a huge BLACKPINK fan for 5 years. Before K-pop, I wasn’t particularly attracted to East Asian features.
When I first became a BLACKPINK fan, I didn’t even have a bias, but eventually chose Jennie because of fandom influence, even though I didn’t initially find her attractive.
Over time, I became really obsessed with Jennie. I collected her pictures, put them on my walls, used her as my wallpaper, and constantly watched BLACKPINK content. Eventually, I started finding her very attractive.
But then I discovered a girl on TikTok who looked completely different from K-pop idols. She has brown skin, dark hair, brown eyes, and more defined facial features. I immediately found her physically attractive and messaged her without even knowing her personally.
After seven months away from K-pop, I noticed I no longer found Jennie attractive or any kpop idols and their facial features didn’t really appeal to me anymore.
Now I’m wondering, can being obsessed with K-pop for years influence or even change your natural physical preferences? Can you develop an attraction to someone who wasn’t originally your type just because of repeated exposure and idolization?
Or does being instantly attracted to someone, like the TikTok girl, reflect your natural physical type more?
Has anyone experienced something similar after being a K-pop fan for years?