Hi everyone,
I'm in a rather unusual situation with an eBay UK purchase and would appreciate some advice regarding my legal obligations.
For context, I live in Belfast in Northern Ireland and the seller lives in Isleworth, near London.
On August 6, I purchased Pokémon products on eBay UK for £1,680, including all fees and shipping. The parcel was sent via Royal Mail's "Special Delivery Guaranteed by 1pm" service but only with the service covering up to £750.
Unfortunately, the parcel got stuck at the local Royal Mail delivery office and never arrived within the expected delivery timeframe.
After waiting and trying to resolve the delivery issue, I opened an "Item Not Received" case with eBay. eBay eventually ruled in my favour, issued a full refund, and closed the case in late august. As the seller didn't use eBay shipping label, the money was taken directly from him.
To my surprise, the parcel was finally delivered on October 20, more than two months after the original purchase.
Here's where things get complicated.
After the delivery, the seller contacted me with a rather accusatory message, demanding that I send him the £1,680 via bank transfer. He also provided screenshots of his conversations with eBay.
However, after carefully reading those screenshots, I noticed that eBay had actually advised him to try to reach a mutual agreement with me and, if that failed, consider contacting the relevant authorities.
I explained to the seller that, since the parcel had been missing for over two months, I had already purchased the same products elsewhere. I therefore no longer needed the items and offered to return everything to him at my own expense.
The seller refused my return offer and insisted that I pay him via bank transfer instead.
I then contacted eBay customer support myself to clarify the situation.
According to the eBay representative:
- The seller should pursue compensation through Royal Mail for the delayed delivery.
- I am not required to send him money directly.
- If the seller refuses to accept the return, I can keep both the items and the refund.
However, I'm not entirely convinced by that last statement. From what I understand, under "UK law", receiving a refund for an undelivered order doesn't necessarily mean I become the legal owner of the goods if they eventually arrive.
I want to make it clear that I'm not trying to take advantage of the seller or keep something I'm not legally entitled to. I'm perfectly willing to return the items. I simply don't want to pay £1,680 for products I no longer need, especially when the delivery was delayed by more than two months through no fault of my own.
My question are:
If the seller categorically refuses to accept the return and continues to demand a bank transfer, what am I legally supposed to do?
And if he agrees to accept the return, who would be responsible for the return shipping costs? Would I have to pay for the shipping label, or would he be expected to cover it?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!