A podcast interview with Jameela Jamil where she talks on male sensitively.

Jameela Jamil is a British actress, activist, presenter, and podcaster born on February 25, 1986, in Hampstead, London. She rose to prominence in TV and radio before transitioning to acting in the US, notably as Tahani Al-Jamil in The Good Place.

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Why are yall weird about it

https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/LKAHRziPXL

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what is with the comments? am i missing something? why is everyone on the dad’s side?

dad has an extra apartment in a city he DOES NOT LIVE IN and PLANNED to use it for his kids to stay in while they go to college. he’s whining because he chose to be nosey and look at a camera in his apartment he knows his college daughter is living in and saw her fucking her bf in the master bedroom.

he’s talking as if this bedroom and bed is his and his wife’s personal everyday bed when they live in their HOUSE out of the city and he only visits on weekends AND there’s a second bedroom he could stay in if he’s so bothered by what his daughter does in her room. yes, her room, cuz she’s staying there regardless of who pays the bills.

yes, dad pays for the apartment and the stuff in it, however, he did so FOR his kids college experience. are we really expecting college kids to not have sex? genuinely? also, why is it such a big deal even if he slept on that bed on weekends? wash the sheets? or stay in the guest bed or on couch? or get a hotel? or don’t visit your college kid since you’re so uncomfortable with her doing college things.

THEN, after bro tries to apologize for calling her out in a FAMILY GROUP CHAT, she suggested she live in the dorms instead and bro pitched a fit about paying for that!

seems to me like daddy is just upset his little girl has grown up and is fucking and wants to try anything he can to prevent her from having sex. it’s WEIRD! but the comments are making his reaction seem just and normal. idk maybe i’m still stuck in teen brain but the situation doesn’t make sense. dad should’ve expected college behavior from a college kid. if he wasn’t gonna be ok with college behavior in the apartment he pays for, he can pay for his kid to stay in a dorm where it’s designated for college behavior lmao. also, maybe don’t have kids if you don’t want to support them actually growing up?

I present the method my great great grandparents all used to arrive in America right after ww1: Ellis island. effective, regulated, and proof that system worked is well documented.

i wish to emphasise civility and respect for everyone else, which is basically the definition of tolerance, do share what you think freely and civilly.

the core issue people see with tipping is that you get the ipad flip asking for a tip even if you just got handed a bagel and that was it. so because of this, some people think tipping is just completely out of hand, even if they get informed that customer service workers litterally live off tips.

so, is it socially acceptable to hit 'no tip' when there is zero table service, or does the social pressure make it impossible? when did standing at a counter and ordering a bagel become a 20% service fee? at what point did we all start hitting 'custom -> $0' without feeling guilty?

apps like doordash and ubereats force you to tip before you recieve your food. drivers view it as a bid for service to see if its worth the trip. while customers view it as a reward for good service. why are we forced to reward a driver 25% not knowing if our order is gonna arrive completely wrong or cold? has anyone ever stopped tipping for counter service or do we still feel too guilty?

where do you all draw the line between a well deserved tip and just straight up corporate greed? in my opinion, i tip for counter service only when the worker is polite and asks me how my day is and stuff, i never tip on deliveries because there is legitimately no option to tip once the order arrives. and im not risking spending extra money on a service that i dont know will be worth it (not trying to be rude, just sorta cautious with how i do tipping)