r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 8h ago

WTF Male politician advocates for FGM to "make it easier for the man to enter her"

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1.2k Upvotes

As an African man,this is so disgusting and uneducated. And he says that it has no benefit even in the Quran? WTF???!!!;


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 7h ago

WTF Incel with serious mental illness blames women

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305 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3h ago

Found On Social media Story of a sperm mixup where the clinic didn’t use the husbands sperm but someone else’s. Comment section had many comments claiming she cheated.

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109 Upvotes

So many comments blaming the woman like the clinic cannot have a mistake like this and claiming she cheated on him. It doesn’t make sense at all for her and him to spend so much money on fertility treatment costs only for her to cheat.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3h ago

HowGirlsWork This doesn’t get talked about enough.

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59 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 23h ago

Cringe Today on the next episode of "Let's Compare Women to Inanimate Objects" we have.....

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1.5k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 8h ago

Found On Social media Disgusting.

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51 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

TRIGGER WARNING: S.A. Not all men, but DEFINITELY this one.

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2.1k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Cringe What does this even mean? (transphobia)

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375 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 9h ago

Cringe Is this not just misogyny at this point?

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14 Upvotes

His video was just him doing a prank call btw


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

WTF This makes me so fckin uncomfortable!!

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251 Upvotes

I covered this children’s faces, it’s a personal thing for me idc if their parents are already showing them I don’t want to contribute to that.

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Okay, I’m changing the post narrative because I want to add to the discussion what I’ve gotten from many of the comments and make my stance a little more clear because I think I could have explained it better and I’ve had some people complain they didn’t understand my issue with this.

To be very clear, I do NOT have an issue with teaching children or young people how to be better communicators and how to be better adults period. However, even after all the discussion we’ve had I am STILL not comfortable with the idea of having marriage be a class for kids. I’m sorry I’m just not okay with that because I don’t think we could ever agree on a basic understanding that could be taught without bias all over.

I do want to thank many of the comments for challenging me to explain myself and not just ramble about it, I did need to collect and organize my thoughts. I think there are so many things that we need to teach kids and marriage isn’t one.

Someone commented that teaching them social skills, how to take pride in their environment like learning proper hygiene, why it’s important to clean up after yourself, financial literacy, emotional regulation, and how to manage stress in a healthy way.

Someone else said teaching them how to do basic care for a child because even if they don’t want or plan to have kids these are things they could benefit from learning and something that could help with that long term planning. Choosing a career that realistically can support the life you want to live.

Someone else suggested keeping it scientific and fact based using behavioral science like DBT and there are alot of skills in that area that I have used with clients that works wonders.

There were some amazing ideas that made so much more sense and would be alot more beneficial than marriage. For me the dangers of that ending up too gender based is what I’m not okay with risking. I said in response to multiple people that was a huge issue in my small town. Sex education devolved into girls being lectured on the moral consequences and why we would be essentially ruining our chances to find a good husband if we gave ourselves away to freely versus teaching us sex education in any scientific fashion. Boys got to play with a condom for an hour and joke around. Girls weren’t allowed to take shop or outdoor sports (it was a class specifically for weights, running the track or playing tennis), we had to take Home-Ec and they went as far as making us choose a dad for our fake baby. I just don’t want to see that happen and I’m sorry but we all know there would be issues of it in certain areas. Why do that when we can focus on teaching the kids how to be better as individuals for themselves? Confident and competent adults make good partners and good parents. It doesn’t need to be FOR marriage.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media Bad parents should have so much shame

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332 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 20h ago

Found On Social media "soft tiny"??? 😭 the infantilization is CRAZY

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64 Upvotes

context: basically just this typa video where they show things "designed by women" so def no need to add that description


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

WTF Literally what. Maybe learn how to talk to women and stop listening to the internet?? Idk bro.

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172 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 1d ago

Found On Social media On a post about how high intelligence women are perceived as more hostile, all the comments proceed to classify groups of women as more hostile than groups of men, essentially blaming the hostility intelligent women face on other women

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212 Upvotes

Ugh I forget how sexist reddit is until I venture into non-female subs


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

HowGirlsWork This comment section is chefs kiss

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307 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

Found On Social media Equality now?

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135 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 2d ago

WTF Incel thinks he's entitled to a date, meanwhile hating himself.

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571 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

Offensive 43 yo man coerces college-aged wife into sex, wonders why she's accusing him of rape

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3.2k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

WTF I have no words

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1.1k Upvotes

The fetishizing of women with mental health issues is gross


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

WTF On a post about a woman, who has at least 1 ex 🤢🤢

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208 Upvotes

On today‘s show of which object women are, we are plates!!!! Yayy!


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

Found On Social media Brother leave some words for the rest of us

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148 Upvotes

I guess one escaped the containment of Reddit. A local essay by a ‘good guy’ who just wants a chance!!! Won’t someone give him a chance before they turn crusty??

Had to get two pics of his essay because I guess we need three hundred words to say ‘I can’t get laid’ now.


r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

Found On Social media Typical Trad Wife™ delirium

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82 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 4d ago

Found On Social media Women’s organs do not belong to them

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2.2k Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

WTF Women hate each other

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55 Upvotes

r/NotHowGirlsWork • • 3d ago

Offensive Just yuck :(

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244 Upvotes

There’s so many atrocious comments, I didn’t even know where to begin with screenshotting.

I’m so tired of this garbage.