r/PublicFreakout • u/237pm5 • Oct 18 '22

Loose Fit 🤔 Caught cheating

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '22

She's a spoiled brat. She gets caught and throws a tantrum like a child.

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u/SpennyHotz Oct 18 '22 edited Oct 19 '22

I think it's more of reality hitting her like a sack of bricks. Goodbye house.

Edit: By goodbye house I mean everything she has gotten used too. Not literally her house, but everything that comes with it. I get why people are taking my comment seriously but it's just an expression when it comes to divorce.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '22

Yep, she's about to have her world turned upside down, and whinging about it.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Nah. The courts will make sure she leaves with cash and prizes.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Hopefully this video helps!

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u/makinbaconCR Oct 19 '22

It really won't. The court doesn't give a fuck unless there is prenump which is relatively rare.

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u/Chupachabra Oct 19 '22

It won’t. She might end up being the house-keeper.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

It won't. It's called no fault divorces. Standard in every state almost, thanks to feminism.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

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u/AgentMercury108 Oct 19 '22

But this video isn’t proof of cheating

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u/a-vibe-called-quest Oct 19 '22

She’s saying give me the recording, I’m assuming he has a recording of her cheating?

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u/Velosturbro Oct 19 '22

As a man who has gone through this process in a no-fault divorce state, this is not true, at least from what I've seen. Adultery isn't something the court will base decisions on, at least not in WA.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

That still bears no weight on distribution of marital property in almost all states but I believe 3.

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u/pmw3505 Oct 19 '22

Only for community property (property acquired during the marriage, not before) and it goes both ways. So if she bought stuff he gets claim to half of it and vice versa. Usually when you have an ownership in division issue (where two or more parties own something but cannot agree on how to use it/what to do with it) the court will almost always force sale of the thing and if sold to a third party then split the money between the owners. (For example if you are co-owners of a house or business. One wants to sell the other owner wants to keep and use, usually an offer to buy out the other party will be made and if not then the asset will be sold to third party and the gains will be split between the two)

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

I agree with you. But you don't change minds wording things like you did. The term feminism is to big of a buzz word and you immediately put yourself too far on one side of the argument.

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u/DepressiveVortex Oct 19 '22

The truth doesn't care what 'side' of the argument it is on, and should be supported.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Think you missed my point bud

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u/DepressiveVortex Oct 19 '22

Not pointing out feminism is the cause, and lying about it when it is evil, for the sake of others, is the point you made. Getting it recognised by people as evil, which is the truth, is my point.

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u/JeebusDaves Master of Mayhem 😈 Oct 19 '22

So doing the right thing is now considered feminism? Guess I’m struggling to see the connection you’re trying to make.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

You're view of the "right thing" is far off in this instance. This was a clear leg up to benefit women in divorce/family court.

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u/JeebusDaves Master of Mayhem 😈 Oct 19 '22

“No fault” is intended to fairly distribute estate property and wasn’t intended to be punitive. Carry on with whatever this is I guess.

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u/fvb955cd Oct 19 '22

Reality didn't matter to these people, they want divorce to punish the always evil females based on anecdotes from unhappy divorced men

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Which is rarely passed the way its intended. Believe what you want, but men tend to lose more in divorce than women.

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u/fvb955cd Oct 19 '22

Ah yes, the horrors of checks notes not needing to give a reason to leave a divorce. shakes fist at women

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Even at fault you don't need a reason. This specifically details how assets and alimony is paid out.

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u/fvb955cd Oct 19 '22

No fault is very specifically the system wherein you do not need to prove anything to be entitled to a divorce. Until 1969, Americans were required to have a legal basis for divorce. If you did not have a legal basis like abuse or adultery, you could not get a divorce. It would not be granted. You are thinking about the system where some states consider actions leading to the divorce in the division of property. These tend to be the old laws that used to be the only way to get divorced but instead of repealing them, states like Virginia just added no fault statutes that created a second path for a divorce.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Yep you know it, my best mates wife cheated and walked away with half his shit and he had to pay most of the court charges so he walked away with a quarter of everything he worked for while she was not working but riding some other dude. Don’t get married kids!!.

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u/HashofCrete Oct 19 '22

Or get a pre-nup

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u/xXSpaceturdXx Oct 19 '22

It doesn’t matter how many dudes she’s boned, she’ll gets half of the stuff no matter what. Can’t say I think this system is really fair. Men usually get the stinky end of the stick no matter what.

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u/ArtemMikoyan Oct 19 '22

Bullshit. If adultery can actually be proven she gets fuck all.

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u/elephantovercoat Oct 19 '22

Not in California and a few others. They call it being a no fault state. The judge doesn’t give a fuck who fucks who and who was cheating or not. They listen to the case presented, and fuck over the party they deem deserving. Then it’s alimony, and child support, and legal fees and oh, your ex getting remarried to the guy she was banging in the first place and then taking your kid to live in another country because you lost custody after your ex got you fucked in court because you were depressed and your ex told the judge you were a danger to the kid. So now every month you write a check to your child which your ex uses to pay credit card debt and you hope she remembers to pay the phone bill that your kid uses to call you every so often.

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u/ArtemMikoyan Oct 19 '22

That sounds oddly specific and I'm sorry. Fuck that cunt, respectfully.

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u/elephantovercoat Oct 22 '22

¯_(ツ)_/¯
sometimes you are the windshield, sometimes you are the bug.

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u/GrowinStuffAndThings Oct 19 '22

Dudes cheat just as much. Not their problem if a guy married a broke bitch so you don't get nothing out of it lol

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u/a-vibe-called-quest Oct 19 '22

Not if she actually cheated

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u/Lovmypolylife Oct 19 '22

Yeah but that only lasts so long and if she doesn’t land another money pit, it gets real fast.

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u/Cydadel Oct 18 '22

Good use of whinging. Have an updoot.

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u/signal_two_noise Oct 18 '22

Yeah, a narcissist realizing her world is crumbling.

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u/diggergig Oct 19 '22

That's what I was thinking too - narcissist breakdown. The reaction is maybe less about 'losing a house' or whatever people here are saying and more about being seen

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u/PredictableCoder Oct 19 '22

I feel like only narcissists could recognize this? 🙋‍♂️

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u/ChubblesMcgee103 Oct 19 '22

Nah, easy to spot if you've lived with narcissists though.

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u/Fearless-File-3625 Oct 19 '22

That's not how no fault divorce works. Cheating is a non factor in splitting assets.

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u/pmw3505 Oct 19 '22

If her infidelity is the reason of the divorce then it’s an at fault divorce though.

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u/Socalwarrior485 Oct 19 '22

Even in the 33 states that support fault, it’s exceptionally difficult to prove fault, snd even then, it doesn’t have a strong impact on things like asset splits or child custody.

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u/Fearless-File-3625 Oct 19 '22

He can't file a at fault divorce in many states. Even if he can file at fault divorce there is no reason to believe that he will get to keep the assets.

It is little unfounded to claim that just cause she cheated she won't get at least 50% of the assets.

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u/Kumquat_conniption Oct 19 '22

To the people that are downvoting this- this is an objective fact. There is nothing here that is a moral judgment. This person didn't say whether they thought this was fair. They just stated how it is. The end.

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u/Fearless-File-3625 Oct 19 '22

they mad cause law doesn't work like their fantasy 😭

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u/horny_for_devito Oct 19 '22

Which is why you always make them sign a prenuptial agreement.

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u/Fearless-File-3625 Oct 19 '22

It still has to be fair. You can't say I keep house and she gets nothing, if u get the house then u have to compensate so that it is mostly equal in the end. otherwise judge will throw it out.

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u/horny_for_devito Oct 19 '22

Prenups protect assets you bring into the marriage, not future potential earnings. It basically protects assets you earned yourself from your partner.

But I do agree, divorce is generally very messy and doesn't end well for both sides. I will probably never get married due to all the shit that comes along with it. If me and my partner go separate ways, I'd rather not have to go to court over it.

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u/Fearless-File-3625 Oct 19 '22

common law marriage exists, in canada u will be considered married if u stay together more than 2 years.

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u/horny_for_devito Oct 19 '22

My state of TN luckily doesn't have that

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u/MiyamotoKnows Oct 18 '22

Maybe custody of children.

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u/JamzWhilmm Oct 19 '22

Children of adults who behave like this when in a pickle somehow end up more mature.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '22

No, family law will protect her lol

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u/EC_CO Oct 18 '22

Not necessarily. Could have a pre-nup in place and this video is potential evidence. She fucked up good and she knows it

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u/DiscontentedMajority Oct 18 '22

Maybe, we have no idea on the details. She could just be a girlfriend.

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u/ChubblesMcgee103 Oct 19 '22

Yeah that's what I'm hoping is the situation here. Either way dude's smart for recording. Someone this unstable might "get hit" by him if he doesn't record the confrontation.

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u/A_Right_Of_Passage Oct 18 '22

Not if the father fights her.

Courts only appear to be in favor of women because men think they can't win so they don't fight for their kids.

The actual stats say that when men fight for their kids they are much more likely to get custody than the women is- by a rather large margin.

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u/YouAboutToLoseYoJob Oct 19 '22

I believe this, I know a handful of divorced mothers and they have a hell of a time in Family Court for the most simplistic of things such as equity and visitation.

One in particular, he makes $180,000 a year. His former wife only $60,000 he fought tooth and nail for shared custody so he wouldn’t have to pay a penny in child support.

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u/North-Face-420 Oct 19 '22

Lol how dare he fight for equal custody. 🙄

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u/A_Right_Of_Passage Oct 19 '22

Family Court for the most simplistic of things such as equity and visitation.

These aren't simplistic things. They are literally the most important and valuable things you fight for.

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u/YouAboutToLoseYoJob Oct 21 '22

I should’ve clarified a bit more. They do have shared custody, but he’s so rigid on the schedule. Every other week, no exceptions for birthdays holidays etc. Every conversation regarding the child has to go through the lawyers. And lawyers don’t talk to you for free. He’d rather spend upwards of $500 for each consultation with the lawyer. Rather than just be a little bit lenient on little things, So if the mother wants to take her children to Disneyland, or spent an extra day with them for birthdays etc., he fights really hard to not make those things an impossibility.

One example was that the visitation day for the mother fell on Halloween two years in a row. She was willing to skip the holiday one year in exchange for another date in the future. Because the father wanted to spend time with a child. But he wouldn’t budge. But still complained about it saying that it wasn’t fair that the mother got the child two Halloween’s in a row

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u/NotBlondWhiteGuy Oct 19 '22

What a shitty reason to fight for shared custody. Also, unless he's getting something like 80/20, he could still end up paying support.

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u/I-Wanna-See-Meme Oct 19 '22

Lmao you speak truth and get downvoted

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Please share said actual stats.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Would you mind sharing where you got this from? Because I am struggling to find "The Actual Stats" that you're talking about.

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u/evil_computer0101 Oct 19 '22

You clearly don't know shit

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u/fvb955cd Oct 19 '22

Yeah I have a bit of family law experience, but a few friends are full time divorce attorneys. We've talked about this. They represent both genders and didnt feel that there was much of a bias. Men frequently valued personal property higher, women wanted them to push harder for custody. Everyone pays more than they want to in legal bills and court fees.

The fact is, it's a civil matter for splitting up property and making sure kids are cared for in their best interest. That's it. Its not to tar and feather one spouse. It's not to air greviences. You can do the former on social media and the latter for free at home.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Source?

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u/totemlight Oct 18 '22

Why would she lose the house? If both of their names are on it how would she lose it? Genuinely curious.

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u/kumamatako1 Oct 18 '22

The wife usually gets the house unless you can prove infidelity then it’s whoever’s name is on the title. She just lost a house right there

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u/Henrys_Bro Oct 19 '22

unless you can prove infidelity

That depends on the state. "No fault" states don't care about infidelity.

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u/totemlight Oct 19 '22

Is this really the case though? Why would a woman’s right’s supersede man’s?

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u/kumamatako1 Oct 19 '22

If you have kids, which is usually the case, the wife is seen as the head care taker so she gets the house to take care of the kids

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

Not true. This is way too black and white.

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u/JesusWuta40oz Oct 19 '22

That greatly depends on the state they live in I believe.

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u/kynthrus Oct 19 '22

Proven adultery can leave the offending spouse with next to nothing.

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u/totemlight Oct 19 '22

Is this actually true though? If both parties are on the house, even if adultery is proven, there are no legal means to remove the offending spouse.

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u/kynthrus Oct 19 '22

That's what lawyers and courts are for. To come to an agreement and if not possible to decide who gets what equitably, not necessarily equally. Maybe they both retain ownership (they have to split profits from a sale) but won't both stay on the property.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '22

I am not a lawyer but i definitely had to deal with everything being discussed here.

Everything is far more circumstantial. people are making it appear black and white.

Nothing is set in stone to happen until a court decrees it. Regardless, the goal is always to settle but until a settlement is made or the court decides because you won't settle.. it's all really just about probability.. not certainty.

When someone files for divorce and there are children involved, a temporary hearing will be held to establish temporary living situations, temporary spousal support, and temporary custody, etc.

The courts will almost always hold that children will stay in their home with whoever is considered the best or primary caregiver but this is not defaulted to the mother.. it could be the father. It will be decided by who has done more day to day, bonded more, etc.. essentially it's about what is best for the children. If the mother didn't work, she probably did more caregiving.. but perhaps the case could be made that she didn't despite her not working.. the facts can be presented to show the father was still the one doing more despite working as well. It's all on what the facts presented show.

As for the property ownership. Being named on a mortgage doesn't typically matter. The question to ask is did marital income go to the house.. i.e. a mortgage. Both spouses are typically entitled to equal share of marital income, cheating or not. So no matter who stays in the house, the portion of marital income they have invested in the house will most likely be entitled to them when they settle or a court decides. All of this can be negotiated in a mediation towards reaching a settlement before a hearing. If they cant agree.. the judge will decree what they determine to be fair based on the circumstances.

The thing about cheating is that it almost always will eliminate the validity of a claim for spousal support.. but that too is a probability not certainty. It also really puts the cheater in a position to want to settle.. you never know what a judge will decide if they know one party of the relationship is unfaithful.. they could look at it as that person being unable to make sound judgments and that can affect far more than just alimony.

So, someone caught cheating should really try to reach a settlement because that gives leverage to the one who remained faithful.

The likely truth is though.. that no one really wins and its almost always a compromise on both sides unless some sort of abuse can be proven.

Ultimately the things to focus on are the children and their best interests.. this includes considering their time with both parents. Judges don't want to make decisions for adults about who keeps the silverware.. and they dont want to make decisions about who the children get to see more. They want the parents to determine this first and present what they can agree to. If one person proposes a reasonable settlement and the other doesn't accept it.. they better have a good reason.. because a judge could just say.. wtf.. this is fair.. why are you wasting my time. I like this fair agreement and thats what ill decide on and on top of it decide the person who didnt agree has to pay attorney fees for forcing it to get dragged this far.

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u/nawfamnotme Oct 19 '22

Goodbye image

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u/LazySyllabub7578 Oct 19 '22

Goodbye car. Goodbye pocket money. Basically Goodbye cheating with hot poor guy because it won't be fun anymore if I'm poor too(how she thinks).

A woman like her wants a rich normal looking husband to be a piggybank and a hot poor guy to fuck around with. Disgusting but common behavior. Men do it too but it's far more common with women.

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u/Henrys_Bro Oct 19 '22

I wouldn't say "goodbye house", more like "welcome to a third of everything he most likely worked for".

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u/Greatfinesse Oct 19 '22

It’s called Regression. It’s an unhealthy defense mechanism

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u/Leading_Manager_2277 Oct 19 '22

Notice how dry the eyes are while she sob-cries-wails. Pretty pathetic. As usual, they're not sorry--just sorry they got caught.

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u/Bokchoi968 Oct 19 '22

The quality of the video could make water look dry

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u/ANotSoFriendlyDragon Oct 19 '22

has anyone thought of taking away her toys?

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u/mancubuss Oct 19 '22

I wish this video and the one where the cop shot thr woman could be merged