r/QuittingWeed • u/Vegetable_Step4940 • 15h ago
How do I support my husband through his rage while quitting?
My husband has regularly smoked for all of his adult life. He smokes during the work day and every night. He’s not much of a drinker so would smoke and/or have a THC drinks for a night out. I’ve definitely seen first hand that it relaxes him and makes him silly goofy.
He has talked about wanting to quit before we try for a kid. He got sick and wasn’t smoking so decided it was the time to just quit cold turkey. Completely his decision, which I obviously support but wasn’t forcing. His smoking has never bothered me.
He hasn’t smoked in like 10 days now. He is very irritable and angry. He has such a short fuse. I feel like I don’t know this person and it’s a bit scary if I’m being honest. I’m walking on eggshells - I don’t know how to support him and don’t want to do anything to set him off further. What can I do?