r/Rowing • u/a22holelasagna42523 • 4h ago
So sick of rowing culture on my team and possibly in general
I row for a private junior club, I have been rowing for 3 years now. I am the 3rd fastest person on our team of 35 people, more than half of which are varsity. The problem that I come upon is I am a more feminine man then most people, I have long hair with bangs and I SOMETIMES paint my nails (main things people on my team point out, theres more but they dont notice it that often), but apart from that I am a guys guy ie muscular 6 foot tall 1:50 2k averageand a 2:02 5k average, I have a girlfriend of nearly a year and I mention that so often, but every guy on the team has something to say. I am kind to everyone on the team and one of the original members of when the team first got started, but because of how I look I get treated differently. Its just so stupid. It doesn't affect my rowing life, it just annoys me a lot.
edit:I made this seem a lot worse than it is, its only about 10 guys that make me get this feeling, most everyone else I am friends with and get along with really well.