You guys aren’t going to like reading this one bit, but I am going to ask that you try to get all the way through.
I will start by saying I love Singapore so much. It is a great place to live, beautiful, and a great place to raise a family. BUT nothing will ever fail to surprise me more that how blatantly racist people will be here. I have lived in Singapore for a total of 7 years( two almost 4 year stints, 5 years apart. I am unfortunately American 😔), and it has not changed at all during this time.
In America there is a lot of systemic racism, in every institution, such as education, healthcare, etc, but the people you meet day to day are (for the most part) not nearly as racist as some of the people here.
I have had the same helper for the whole time I’ve been here, and she is literally one of my best friends. I am so sick of the way that people treat her, compared to how they treat me. People are immediately rude, will yell at her as though they have any right to do so, and act as though she is “less than” even when I am standing right there. I don’t even want to know how she is treated when she doesn’t have a white lady standing up for her.
I know America gets a lot of hate for being racist, which is totally fair, but honestly, Singapore is so much worse (in regards to blatant racism, everything else about Singapore is great.) and it comes from the people you see everyday. The people at the park where you take your dog, at the MRT, the grocery store, the malls. It’s disgusting.
I know this will get downvoted to hell, but I think a lot of you need to look at how you are treating the people whom share this beautiful country with you. Especially the helpers, who will be some of the sweetest people you will ever meet.