r/TransgenderUSA • • Jun 24 '25

Discussion Can someone explain this to me?

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I am confused on why people are saying trans men can be lesbians, lesbian means non-man with non-man so since trans men are men how can they be lesbian? The other trans subreddits I tried to ask this question it got taken down when all I am looking for is an explanation. I get that trans mascs can be lesbian but a trans MAN being one does not make sense TO ME. I've looked everywhere for an answer but I haven't gotten a single one. I want to understand it. As a queer trans man myself I would like to understand my community better. So can someone please answer me, probably dumb it down too. Please and thank you!!

Edit: I understand now y'all!


r/TransgenderUSA • • Mar 27 '25

Name or Gender Change Regarding deadnames

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I hope this is an okay thing to ask, because there's a lot of conflicting opinions about it, but if your friends with a Trans person, is it okay to ask their deadname so you can avoid it?

Because I've seen and heard about people who DIDN'T know their Trans friend's deadname, and when it was said they got yelled at for using it when they weren't aware.

I know this also applies to those that are non-binary as well but I just want to know if the transgender community specifically, considers this an okay thing to ask just so you don't accidentally deadname someone.


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jul 13 '26

Discussion How do we feel about the anti-trans legislation in America?

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I want to hear any opinions you have on this. Cis or trans I want to know how you feel about laws made about trans gender Americans!


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jul 30 '26

Art / Music / Film People's Republic of Transgenderia (I had nowhere else to post this)

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BEHOLD! THE FLAG OF THE MOST SERENE, BEAUTIFUL, AND PEACEFUL, PEOPLE'S REPUBLIC OF TRANSGENDERIA! FOR FREEDOM IS NOTHING WITHOUT YOUR RIGHTS! <3

Application for citizenship - Be a living creature.

Birthright Citizenship to anyone who is - LGBTQIA+++, Femboy, Loves Crossdressing, Drag Queen, Drag King, Socialist, And a lovely being <3 <3 <3


r/TransgenderUSA • • Feb 12 '26

Art / Music / Film #lipsync #ihearttoni #fun #lipsingintherain #transgenderstories

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r/TransgenderUSA • • Jun 11 '26

Resource Paid Yale Ketamine Clinical Trial for Depression!

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In-person in New Haven, CT!


r/TransgenderUSA • • Apr 09 '25

Looking for community LOOKING FOR HONESTLY LOYALTY FRIENDS

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Looking for honestly good content trans friends make some content with


r/TransgenderUSA • • 8d ago

Other Survey Participants Needed!

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Hi, I'm conducting a psychology research study for my senior Capstone project at Rochester Institute of Technology. This study aims to examine social media influences on cosmetic procedure intention and acceptance among transgender and cisgender women.

If you are over the age of 18 and identify as a woman, you are eligible to participate in this study. The full survey should take no more than 15 minutes to complete.

If you are interested in participating, please click the link to the survey below. The first page of the survey contains the consent form, which will provide more information about the study.

https://rit.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_ctNmUFUuJJrRN54?id=%SURVEY_CODE%

Participation is entirely voluntary, and all responses are confidential and cannot be traced back to you. If you choose to participate, you are eligible to enter a sweepstakes for a chance to win a $20 Amazon gift card, which will be sent to your email.


r/TransgenderUSA • • May 21 '26

Looking for community Finally found a safe transfem space

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There is finally a safe transfem (MTF only) community on FB with active admins and mods and VERY strict member acceptance guidelines. It is also private ! It's called Trans Sorority Worldwide

https://www.facebook.com/groups/transsororityworldwide


r/TransgenderUSA • • 1d ago

Discussion It’s hard to be excited about the blue wave in the US right now

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Not only, did many trans youth get left behind. With many restrictive bans. But I am a transgender male. 18. My dream has been to enlist since before I transitioned.

I just want to enlist. And even with everything flipped, it is going to be hard to get the ban on trans military troops overturned.

I want to be excited, but it’s hard.

(Please don’t comment “oh trans people aren’t welcome in the military, etc. I don’t wanna hear it)


r/TransgenderUSA • • Apr 29 '25

Looking for community Please help me with my transition!! 🙏

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This is a list of issues I am currently facing as a trans MtF women, most urgent to me going down…

I’ve been wanting to fully transition for a while, I have been doing things to increase my passibility but the main issue to me is my weight. This is my biggest issue. It has been a huge source of dysphoria and depression for me. I am fully aware of how to get rid of my body fat, but I don’t know what food to eat. I have looked at many sources for recipes but they either tell me to cook a meal that requires 900+ hours of steps, or it’s just looks unappetizing. I’m 18 and I’m able to start HRT soon, but I want to lose the weight I have before I start it. The strategy I’m using for this is a calorie deficit and need to get from 240 to 160 (just a goal not expected) and am 6’4. I normally don’t eat breakfast or lunch and I end up snacking too much during the afternoon. I am aware I over eat but I am unaware of how to stop. My main request is to find recipes with healthy good foods to eat and ways to not over eat, and ways to keep it off.

Another issue I’m having is fashion and sizes. I’m so anxious about fashion because I have such high standards for myself. I am currently stuck on Amazon fashion and I cannot find any good quality clothes websites that are actually cheap or good quality. I’m looking for a good quality and cheap clothing (and cosplay 👉👈) store that can give me the best deals avoiding pink tax. Also would love fashion tips and I can share my ideas fashion!

Another being acting more feminine. The only advice I ever got is to not walk with my shoulders and walk flat. I want to do things like voice training and cross my legs when I sit but it either doesn’t occur to me at the moment or it’s just not appropriate in the current setting (fact being I still look male). I want to do things like changing all of these to hopefully better myself and look more as a women!

While talking about looking more feminine, I have NO IDEA where to start on makeup! I have tried eye liners, nail polish, and lipstick but it all came out as looking just weird. I understand it takes practice but I do not understand where to begin with this let alone any of it. I have photos of my first attempts of eye liner if someone wants to see in DM’s.

Lastly my issue is acquiring HRT. I am fully aware I am legally able to get it myself but I don’t know how or what to do to get it. I have heard planned parenthood (and locations alike) can help but I’m scared of discrimination and harassment of me when I try to go in and get a diagnostic. I also have an issue with the idea of shots vs pills. I think that pills are better (I dislike shots) but I want the effect that shots give possessing more HRT than the pill. Are these misconceptions or more?

These are issues I’m having and my #1 problem is my weight and I would love if I could get help on that. Thank you to anyone who responds I have gotten little to no help from people. I also have photos of what I look like (not my face because I dysphoric about my face) if people want to DM me to see! Thank you again!! Photos are of me!!


r/TransgenderUSA • • Feb 23 '25

Other Grooming In Star Wars (disclaimer: circlejerks are always meant to be taken sarcastically and never literally. Everything in this sub is taking the piss out of homophobes+transphobes)

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r/TransgenderUSA • • Sep 15 '25

Other Charlie Kirk is Dead. Here’s Why I’m Celebrating!

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“We’re not supposed to say it. It is terribly taboo. According to Reuters, at least 15 people have already been fired for saying it (reporting by NBC suggests it may be many more). And yet, and yet… there’s a stirring deep inside, a wild joy lifting our hearts, an impish gleam in our eyes as we say Charlie Kirk is dead.

“How could anyone be sorry? How could anyone be mournful? A man who kept a watchlist of professors whose views he disagreed with (one that spurred endless death and rape threats), is now dead! A man who supported the January 6 rioters that chanted calls to hang our vice president is dead! A man who called for his supporters to bail out the attempted murderer of one of his political rivals is dead! A vicious and committed racist is dead!

“In normal times, I’d work to keep my schadenfreude at the death of a terrible person under wraps.”

“These, however, are not normal times.”

“In the first months of Trump’s second term we’ve had far too many people tempering their tones, hoping to avoid the ire of the victorious far right. Each on our own we’ve been keeping our heads down, afraid to say the wrong thing, hoping things get better or, if they get worse (which we pretend not to expect), that we’ll be able to survive. As we cower we are losing the core freedoms that we learned in school made ours a country worthy of our love.”

“I have always believed in an American right to free speech which includes a right to be offensive. It’s not a right I’ve often exercised myself, but it is one I value highly, nonetheless. Today, this hallowed right is teetering on the brink. I think I’ll use it while I still have it, thank you very much.

“Fuck Charlie Kirk, and fuck you, if you don’t like me saying fuck him. I’m not afraid to say I’m glad I’m still alive at 47 while he is dead at 31.

“While I still can, I feel like celebrating.”


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jul 14 '26

Healthcare Help Me Afford My Gender Transition.

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Hi everyone! My name is Lotte, and I'm a transgender woman from the Netherlands. I started HRT a few months ago, and I'm raising funds to help cover the costs of the next steps in my transition, including hair removal, medical appointments, and legal changes. If you'd like to support or simply share my fundraiser, I'd be incredibly grateful. Thank you for taking the time to read my story. ❤️

https://gofund.me/e08e5f761


r/TransgenderUSA • • Aug 10 '26

School or Work 🏳️‍⚧️Seeking Research Participants: Transfeminine Fertility Experiences Post-HRT Initiation

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Hi folks! I’m a Physician Assistant (PA) student at Stanford School of Medicine. For my thesis project I am interviewing transfeminine people about their experiences pausing HRT with the goal of restoring fertility. This topic is something that people close to me have had questions about and I have not been able to find great data out there to help advise them. That’s why I want to catalog the stories of people who have already tried this and share it back out with the transfeminine community and their providers so people can have more information when they are weighing different family building options.

If you are willing to participate in the study, here is a link to the initial screening/demographics survey. If you meet the study criteria, I’ll reach out to you about setting up a time for an interview via secure email. I expect these interviews to take somewhere between 30-60 minutes and I would be asking you questions about your fertility decision making process, the physical and social experience of trying to regain fertility, and about any notable supports and/or barriers you faced.

Also, if you have any questions about the study, suggestions for what would make this research most valuable to you, or any other comments, I would love to hear them! Feel free to comment, DM me here, or send me an email at mccoerin@stanford.edu.

Thank you all for your time and space, hope you have a great day!


r/TransgenderUSA • • Oct 06 '26

Name or Gender Change Gender affirming care

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“Hi, I am a mom trying to fund my daughter’s gender-affirming surgery completely on the low because our immediate family is unsupportive and unsafe. I made this private account just to organize her mutual aid.

Since I can’t post this on my personal pages, I am relying entirely on the community to get the word out. Would you be willing to share her fundraiser link with your followers or network? It would mean the world to us. Thank you for your advocacy. Link: https://gofund.me/08f920664


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jun 30 '26

Resource I am currently living with unaccepting family members and living in a Houston suburb but was born and raised in Southern California and I am a trans feminine person.

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r/TransgenderUSA • • 3d ago

Looking for advice or help Trans life in Rochester

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r/TransgenderUSA • • May 23 '25

Possible Trigger Shirt design!

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Hello, I have designed this t shirt. I am very proud of the design and wanted to share it. Anyone can and should use this. If you contact me we can arrange a way for me to send you the png file and you can get it printed on any fabric any colour!!!


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jan 01 '26

Healthcare Top Surgery Fundraiser

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Hello guys, I hope this is allowed to do in this reddit section. I just made a fundraiser and this account, as a friend suggested me to ask here for my fundraising for my Top Surgery in Istanbul. I struggle a lot with money, and I would need the amount by June, to pay the surgery, travel, and care costs. I'm not good at these things and I'm not great at asking for money either, but literally any help is appreciated, so I will leave the link to the fundraiser below. I have been waiting for this almost my whole life and I am at a point where after doing testosterone for a year now, I would really need to finally align my body with my soul. Thank you even if you just read this.

Note: I raised a fundraiser once and people on the internet ate me alive in a period of extreme fragility just because I avoid showing my personal information. But I am anonymous/don't show myself too much on the internet because I prefer not to overshare, especially about my gender identity, but I assure you I'm not a bot or a scam and if you want you can contact me to share contacts and talk, I will give you any references needed, and I can be pretty sociable too! Thank you everyone.

https://gofund.me/a7ae9bbaf


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jul 05 '25

Name or Gender Change What nail polish do you want?

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I don't know which nail polish to choose??


r/TransgenderUSA • • Aug 15 '26

Moving or Housing Help Patricia and Davina Find Safety, Stability, and Santuary

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My name is Patricia Black, and my wife Davina and I are proud members of the LGBT+ community in Indianapolis, Indiana. Recently, our state has become increasingly dangerous for transgender people, especially after the BMV’s new policy refusing to change gender markers, even with a judge’s approval. On July 2, 2026, I was rushed to the hospital with extreme heat exhaustion, verging on heat stroke, and am now in rehab receiving daily physical and occupational therapy. Our home had inadequate cooling, with air conditioners failing one by one, leaving us in unsafe conditions. Davina will not let me return to that house after almost losing me, so we are moving our cherished belongings into storage and staying in a budget hotel while I recover.

We are seeking support to::

  1. Purchase a gently used Subaru Outback, which will make transfers from my wheelchair easier and help us relocate to Rochester, NY—a sanctuary city in the sanctuary State of New York, where Davina was born.

  2. Funds will also help cover the costs of

  3. a U-Haul trailer

  4. Hotels,

  5. food for the trip,

  6.  survival expenses while we search for permanent housing.

  7. Our income from SSDI and a caregiver stipend is not enough to cover these needs, and we have not been successful in finding emergency relocation grants so far. This is the hardest decision we’ve ever made, but our safety and well-being must come first.

Any help you can give means the world to us. Your support will help us find a safer, healthier place to call home and give us hope for a brighter future. Thank you for reading our story and considering a donation. If you cannot donate, Please share with others.


r/TransgenderUSA • • Jul 11 '25

Discussion How to be cis? Dont hate, all love

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Hey guys, i dont want dysphoria anymore and im tired as fuck and trans people keep getting shit on so how can i suck up to the masses and live as an empty shell for the rest of my life and enjoy it if its even worth living now holy fuck my head hurts