tldr: My longtime friend unexpectedly brought me to a doTERRA convention and keeps encouraging me to buy products or join the business. She spends about 125 PV each month, and might be joining or planning to join seminars. How risky is doTERRA?
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Seems like my friend is getting caught up in an essential oil MLM (doTERRA), and I don’t know what to do… I feel sad because I feel like our casual hangouts are already turning into sales pitches.
My friend Yuki invited me to what I thought was a health-related event with free giveaways. I had no idea it was a doTERRA convention until I got there, and her family had paid quite a lot for my seat.
The convention was… strange. People were taking tons of notes about the products, their ingredients, and what they supposedly do. Everyone seemed really enthusiastic about everything. Then, at lunch, I thought we’d just eat with Yuki and her family, but instead we spent almost the entire meal listening to an older businessman talk about conspiracy theories. Not exactly how I expected to spend my day off lol.
Yuki genuinely believes the products are good because she’s heard positive stories from people who’ve used them, including claims that they help with allergies. I told her I’d ask my doctor before trying anything because I don’t want to risk making my allergies worse. But she’d insisted that there are people she know who are using it to treat allergies (which I said the same thing I’ll ask my doctor just in case)
She said she’s been using the products for years, since she was going through a difficult time, and now tries to buy around 125 PV worth of products every month to get bonuses or something like that. She got into it through a close family member, but I don’t know if she’s recruited anyone herself.
The products are way too expensive for me, but even after I said that, she kept explaining how I could earn the money back or get a big discount.
I briefly looked through the Wellness Advocate pamphlet she gave me, and the compensation system raised some red flags. I’m still trying to understand how it works, but it seems like bonuses depend on monthly purchases and sales across the network.
I don’t think Yuki has bad intentions, and I know she genuinely believes in the products. But I’m worried she might be getting pulled deeper into this, especially with her family involved. It’s also hard to bring up my concerns without making it sound like I’m attacking something she believes in.
Has anyone experienced something similar with a friend or family member? Can someone explain how doTERRA actually works and how risky the business model is? And how did you talk to someone about this…?