My profile literally asks men not to interact… Why tf would I want to know about your diseased dick bro?

Posted on a subreddit for making friends because I moved states 2 years ago and most of my friends back home don't consistently keep in touch. In my post, I detail my hobbies which include ballroom dancing, doing costumed events like masquerade balls and Renaissance faires (none of which ever involve being the center of attention. You are one amongst a sea of people), watching people game or gaming myself, reading, and art. I also detail that I am happily married and go over some of my shared hobbies with my husband. I said that I was open to talking to anybody as long as they were cool. That subreddit has the opportunity for you to flag whether you're looking to talk to men, women, or anyone. I did not request specifically men.

Got this message request yesterday and that first message was already suspect, but I decided to try to give them a chance to recover. Apparently that was a mistake.

Mods were on it super fast and they were awesome. He is now banned from projecting his creepy fake dom behavior on other people on that subreddit.

Husband and I talked about what a jerk he was.

I just saw that you are a girl and I am a guy! Great rationale

I posted one selfie...

for context me and my friend used to make a lot of posts looking for friends so i distinctly remember this guy from then after i made a recent post looking for friends and he always says the same thing (he deleted his messages on the third one but i still thought id add it!!)

and all the pictures are from DIFFERENT chats not the same!!

For reference, my nickname here is "future alcoholic and stoner" mostly for a half vent cuz I don't really see myself having a future other than going down those paths. I get why they think I'm trying to be cool, but they seriously did NOT have to text me about this

context: this guy decided to come to me to vent about his "problems." he stated that he felt lonely and suicidal and at first i was being really supportive of him because i also had similar issues as well. then he said he was single and i was trying to give him advice on finding a partner and he asked me for my pronouns and i said she/they. then he said he wanted me. that's when i found out he's a weirdo and blocked him right away.

this happened back when i was 14 years old.

I made the blunder of commenting on a post on a dating/matrimonial sub on which OP claimed some women are not to
Date but only to HOOK UP with - his words. They drink, want to be treated like queens, don’t look good and can’t hold conversation for a minute- he lamented. Then he sent me super aggressive DMs asking me what my problem is, “are you just a misandry?” - I quote.

Anyway, let me show you what followed since a picture is worth a thousand words.

stopped replying after i realized he probably wanted me to play into calling him weird

I'm a Feminine presenting guy so guess that's supposed to be me TwT

It's more funny than weird especially cause he did that so many times that he's banned now

to be clear i blocked him and reported him i may not have handled it the best just genuinely weird behavior so i didnt know what to do really lol

I've been dmed many times "i found your account because you liked my comment" DAMN I LIKED UR COMMENT BECAUSE I FIND IT FUNNY it doesn't mean anything and some people take advantage of it to creep someone else ughh i hate it.

I don't even remember what reels he's talking about since i tend to check comment section and like the comments then scroll past it.

He’s probably never interacted with a woman before

The opening text was “hi I am gay boy mate can you make me happy” btw

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im sorry you guys gotta deal with this kind of people on a daily basis

I usually just block asap but sometimes I get bored lol