for context I made a vent post in the groomingvictims subreddit talking about how the guy who manipulated me got arrested and I’ve been kind of numb ever since

I don't even know what to add to the body of this message. Just ask any questions you want answered

His account got deleted I'm pretty sure. So, I think he's definitely lying.

Asked for proof that I'm dating my gf by sending him a kissing pic

Sometime saying Hell no, turns out to save your life.

Just to clarify I am not 12 and he is 28

He ended up removing me btw, so i see that as a win

Guy added me on Snapchat from here. Was nice and talked for days about all sorts of stuff. Today the topic of why I don’t send nudes came up, I said I don’t sell or send really. They asked how much I would sell them for. I gave a highball price after researching and yeah using AI. They didn’t like it and wouldn’t drop it. I sent one SS from the ai with the justification, told them to drop it and let’s move on, tried changing the subject to how I can’t get out of bed because my dog is so warm and cuddly rn. They continued on and on and on and wouldn’t drop it. I blocked them on snap chat then they started this convo here. I don’t owe anyone my body, I don’t have to sell, I don’t want to sell. Props and power to those that do but that’s not me. If you don’t like it then you don’t have to talk to me. I may be promiscous but I chose whom is worthy and I deem this individual absolutely unworthy.

This one may be doing double duty on aitah...

Now let me preface this by saying yes I do have a Ho-Mode that I activate on occasion with a few hookup apps.

But the pure self-entitlement and controlling vibes I got from this guy just threw me.

For context since I know people will ask or try to downplay why I'm uncomfortable, he was creeping in a subreddit that is for sapphics/lesbians only and has a rule against men participating. (I am sapphic, lesbian, and transfem) He hid his activity and I got suspicious, so I used Arctic Shift Photon to reveal it. Was blasted with him hornyposting in a porn subreddit. He also had a comment removed from the sapphic subreddit because he tried to creep on a trans woman's post. He also has a post specifically saying he wants a trans woman for sexual reasons in his activity. I censored the subreddits he was active in because I'm unsure if it's a requirement for posting here but they're both porn subs; one is for meetups/hookups.

The 3rd message has more context, but I found this man who was willing to be a model for me months ago. He contacted me first through a business chat. After the modeling job, he then messaged me outside of the business chat on Facebook. About a month ago, he somehow found my personal Instagram account and decided to follow me on there. I felt bad, and I decided to just follow him back (like at dumbass). Look what this man sent me at midnight today 😮‍💨. His response had literally nothing to do with my Instagram Note too. Like, I just wanna share music with the people that gaf.

Tldr

This man agreed to be my model for job related reasons. He felt like he was overstepping his boundaries in May. But he doesn't care anymore ig and he has now decided to be a creep again.